How many people know about your fetish.

[ohmaletickler18]

like none

I have told my ex girlfriend that I like feet and that took her a minute to get used to but she took it well after that. I never told her that I loved tickling but I did tickle her all the time and she hated that I think so I backed off as much as I could stand. But not even my best friends know Im into tickling thats why Im glad I can meet people on this forum because even tho I think they would understand you just worry about what people will think you know. more power to those that are open about it wish i was so brave

 

[nostradamas]

Everyone who knows me and most of the planet.

Hah! So true...

 

[nostradamas]

Why Does Anyone..

really NEED to know?

Unless they're your S.O then why would it come into play?


BTW, I don't have a "fetish"...

I have a "sport".

 

[rhinoguy]

I've never came out and told anyone about it, but, a few girls I've dated in the past wondered and asked me because I was constantly finding a reason to tickle them, especially on their feet. We never got to that "comfort point" in our relationship where I felt I could tell them.

 

[tigress]

Only my ex gf and my boyfriend. I could never let anyone know unless I was in a very deep, meaningful relationship with them.

 

[Ledega]

I actually tell alot of woman,but make it sound like it's no big deal.Girls try to get a quick tickle in and I say something like,"baby you can tickle me anytime,you know I love it"or something like that.That statement alone has gotten me tickled even tied and tickled by 3 female friends.Believe it or not most people have at least a little tickle fetish in them of some sort.They either like getting tickled or at least love tickling others ya know.

 

[ticklishmikey]

I've told two people I think. 1 definite. But I never really talked about it.

 

[cue]

Only 2 people know

One is my husband and the other is my partner at work.

John (work partner) came up behind me and poked me in the ribs and I squealed and giggled. "Ticklish?" he asked me with a playful grin. "Very much", I answered. Then I tickled him back like half an hour later and that's when he said that he hates being tickled. "Not me". So, sometimes he'll come up behind me and give me a quick tickle at work.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Cue: Unless there's been more to the conversation, I don't quite put your co-worker in the category of someone who knows about your fetish. He knows you like being tickled, but the fetish is a whole other dimension.

Some people pick up on it faster than others, too. One time I was hanging out after hours with some theatre people drinking wine. I reached over and gave a little tickle to the foot of an actress sitting beside me, and an older man in the circle who's been around many blocks smiled and said, "Fetish?" Outside of such circles, though, I think most people are total outsiders to the concept and wouldn't make a connection.

 

[MasterPaladin]

I would be soo embarrassed if my parents ever found out!

My mom knows god rest his soul my dad never knew. My mom thinks I'm nuts but then she always thought that lol . To be honest I told a lot of people I am not ashamed of it. The question is why do we have this fetish , well think of it this way soft tender touches are a form of foreplay and they sometimes tickle so don't knock it till you try it. and

 

[cue]

okay, now I'm confused

how do I know if I have a tickling fetish compared to just love being tickled?

Husband tickles me during sex, does that make it a fetish then? Or still not?

 

[WorkInProgress]

I guess my definition of it being a fetish would be if tickling by itself is enough to give one a sexual arousal and thus is an act unto itself. In my case, spending some minutes tickling a woman is a bit like making out with her, and it's both arousing and satisfying, so I definitely define myself as a tickling fetishist. And I'll add this: it would be inappropriate for me to tickle a child under any circumstances, which is very different from people who don't have any such fetish. But, I can see where other people on this board could experience it differently.

 

[TklshDiva]

I never really thought about it as a fetish. To me it's something I like bottom line. I guess the way I like painting my toes, or teasing with my toes, getting a spa treatment for the day, etc. The only ppl that know about my "fetish" is all of you!

 

[nylontickler(m)]

a handful...

I feel like I really want to tell people, but I KNOW how some of my friends will react, so I'm keeping mum. If the situation arises, I'll talk freely, but I'm not going to bring it up.

 

[WorkInProgress]

I think you're wise to go with your instincts. It's best only coming up in the kind of relationship where you feel comfortable bringing it up.

 

[RobbieNate]

ah now this is a good question i was only asked about having a fetish over on deviant art today and i can say abpout 600 people know about my fetish...(thats my watchers)

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Michael knows (obviously) and he's told 2 of his friends (with my permission). None of my friends or family know, though. I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed about it, exactly. I just like keeping it to myself. It's exciting to have a dirty little secret 😀

 

[cue]

Oh, well...

If you mean someone knowing that tickling turns me on sexually, then only one person knows...my husband. I take that back, everyone here pretty much knows now, right?

 

[Tiger.Lily]

Uhhh...

hm...

off the top of my head, I can count at least 11 people. And I'm sure more will come to me later. This is including ex-lovers, friends, and even my mother. I'm fairly open about it if the topic presents itself. I don't go shouting it from the rooftops, and I can't imagine how it would ever come up with a stranger, but I also have nothing to hide. I imagine more people will know once I get my tattoo. 😛

 

[Perduabo]

A few people know.

Two of my best friends
My boyfriend
One of my family members
One of my ex-friends from high school.

 

[ViperGTS]

You know, at first, I saw this thread and though, "Hmmm...my mom, my girlfriend, IrishGirl5, my one model Troy, her girlfriend, and a few other people I don't know specifically."

Then I remembered that I run multinationally-recognized tickling fetish video production company.

I have no answer for this question.

 

[Forest Fairy]

talking to the boss. lol

When I informed Spenser that I requested the NEST event days off from work, he looked at me with a puzzled look and asked, “What did you give for a reason?”

Gee! He should have known that answer… I told the boss I had to be off to go to a tickle gathering with Spenser. I did have to go on to explain that this was a much looked forward to annual event where people come from all over the world to hang out, socialize, tickle, and be tickled.

BTW: When one explains tickling to one’s boss… best to remember to wait til they are finished drinking…. LOLOLOL

After her roar of laughter, her comment, “Since it is you, Melinda… I am just not surprised!”

 

[xionking]

Most of my ex-girlfriends know, Mum knows, a couple of friends, probably my whole 10th grade level...

World keeps on spinnin'.

-Xionking

 

[Spenser]

Yeah,
I couldn't really believe M told her boss that we were going to a ticking Con. But she's got a pretty cool, worldly, and tolerant boss.

i 'spose only our (second) cousin and her life partner, as well as a longtime lady friend and retired workmate of mine Maxine, know.

Max's comments were; I wouldn't mind meeting some of these tickle people, I just "wouldn't want to be restrained." (to which of course, I did not reply... as it all comes partly with the territory eventually).

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Well as for me not a whole lot of people know about my tickle kink and my absolute love for tickling. I mean my hubby ticklebear 2 knows about it, my "vanilla" cousin Vickie knows that I love tickling, not just casual fun lighthearted fun for me but also it can be very erotic for me and my hubby, I have many good friends here on the forum that know that tickling is a great love and passion for me. My mom does know I like and love tickling-however she really doesn't know how deep the passion runs. I mean she knows it is lighthearted fun for me and hubby and knows it is erotic-how you might ask-I was at a cousin's pure romance party-looking at fun novelties you get the idea: sadly the moment my mom seen the item the tickle whip more as a teasing tool-she chuckled and said I am going to get so many purchases so you can get that for you and your hubby. Oh my god was that embarrassing, I just wanted to die LOL

But my mom does not know how deep the tickle passion goes and that is how I want to keep it lol. My friend Missy who is "vanilla" she knows that we love tickling but again she doesn't really know how deep the tickle passion goes. She knows it is casual lighthearted fun but not how deep it goes.

Other than that not many people know about my love and passion for tickling and to be honest that is how I would like to keep it. I am fine with sharing it here just don't really want to share too much about it in "vanilla" world. Just don't know who will be accepting and who will not be. I can be a bit public but bit more private about tickling kink to be honest.