How to bring up tickling your girlfriend?

[WomensFeetRule]

I have tried to tell her but i get tongue tied,and i just end up rambling about something stupid.I've known her for 17 years since we were kids and i hate to blow it with bad timing.Its so hard to resist her feet cause their so absolutely beautiful,and shes always showing her feet off and flexing her feet,and the worst part is getting a freak'n hard on and trying to hide it.because i look like i'm raising a circus tent down there, its embarrassing . Any advice?thanks

 

[rhiannon]

You're friends. Just playfully tickle her and don't bring it up! See how she reacts. Stop it if she gets mad, if she plays along, you win.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

ill try thanks

 

[WorkInProgress]

It sounds as if you may have a foot fetish as well as a tickling fetish. Are you able to enjoy her feet in other ways besides tickling?

 

[WomensFeetRule]

shes one of those how do you say already out of my league for looks, but she still likes me.i just hate to lose her you know

 

[rhiannon]

If you believe she will be offended if she realizes that you touch her and get a boner from it - then don't do it.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

It just really sucks sometimes,to have this type of fetish.I went to school to be a reflexologist and i'm certified,I taught for a year too and no one knows.should i tell her?

 

[rhiannon]

Do you guys generally talk about sex?

 

[WomensFeetRule]

never had sex

 

[rhiannon]

I thought so, but do you TALK about sex?

 

[WomensFeetRule]

she wants it but i have turned it down cause i dont want to regret any thing,cause your only a virgin once

 

[rhiannon]

I think I just lost you! The problem here is what exactly?

 

[WomensFeetRule]

my foot fetish is usually is a deal breaker for almost every woman ive dated,and it probably will be with her....and by the way thanks for relying

 

[rhiannon]

Why is it a deal breaker? What is so bad about a foot fetish? It means that you will enjoy giving them foot rubs while "normal" guys usually don't do that! These girls apparently don't think about it a whole lot.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

They think I'm weird/strange.I still don't know any girls who actually accept a foot fetish.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

maybe its just where i live,i'd like to live in Scotland/Europe maybe the women are different there.

 

[rhiannon]

How old are these girls? And maybe you shouldn't call it a "fetish". Just tell them that you think they have pretty feet. "Fetish" often has a touch of weirdness to it.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

personally i like an older woman,cause most women i dated were my age were jerks.But older women always say i'm not old enough, yet ive been pretty much on my on since i was 14.yeah and i tried the not calling it a fetish but they still think i'm weird.

 

[rhiannon]

I live in Europe too. 😛 I always thought people on the island are supposed to be weird! 😀
By the way, why does your location say you're in Ohio?

And how old are you now?

 

[WomensFeetRule]

i'm 20 years old, i live in united states ,ohios my state.its a very judgmental town where i live

 

[rhiannon]

Oh, got it...you would like to live in Scotland. Read it wrong. Maybe you're just meeting the wrong girls.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

nope pretty much all american girls are very judgemental

 

[WomensFeetRule]

even my parents think feet fetishes are bad/weird.thats why i have to be a ninja about it,and always hiding it.

 

[WomensFeetRule]

I once dated a 36 year old woman,but she left me cause she said i was to nice,and she was ok with my feet fetish.I've just never have had luck with women.

 

[hockeygolf13]

I've had two serious girlfriends, one ex, one currently, and they both accepted it extremely well. I've also told like ten other women, either hookups or just girls I liked, and all of them took it well except for one. They are out there. You just gotta find the right one and express it well.