How to initiate a tickling experience

[feetickler61]

Hey my fellow tickle lovers,k
I'm a 20 yr old man who has always had a close connection with some of my female coworkers and friends. I've recently discovered through casual chats that 3 of them are deathly ticklish 😀. It's fun to tease them about it of course and hear them playfully beg, but I'm not really sure if they're into it or not. I give a light poke there sometimes, but I'd love to have like a strictly tickle date. I'd be more than willing to be the ticklee also btw. How can i suggest this though without appearing like a creep to those not accustomed to our fetish? Thanks for any input, I'm a super outgoing guy but even this has me unsure.

 

[rhiannon]

but I'd love to have like a strictly tickle date

Would you suggest a strictly fucking date to one of them? No? Then you can't suggest a tickling date without appearing like a creep either.

 

[UpSide2Gravity]

Would you suggest a strictly fucking date to one of them? No? Then you can't suggest a tickling date without appearing like a creep either.

I second that motion.

 

[SoleMates]

I'll third it and add "don't proposition your coworkers unless you're prepared to look for a new job if it goes badly."

 

[TickleMyFancy]

Don't do it. Best case scenario you find a good tickle playmate. However, worst case scenario you end up looking like a creep to people who you have to see daily, and you could possibly lose your job because of sexual harassment, depending on how the girl takes it.

I would find friends outside of work to ask. No coworkers.

 

[TiickleNiicole]

Would you suggest a strictly fucking date to one of them? No? Then you can't suggest a tickling date without appearing like a creep either.

Exactly.

 

[voided9]

I'd try sticking with friends that you don't work with. It's great they trust you and you seem really outgoing and fun, but you don't want to scare anyone off, so take it slow and be careful who you initiate it with. Good luck!

 

[Jagermeistered]

Don't do it. Best case scenario you find a good tickle playmate. However, worst case scenario you end up looking like a creep to people who you have to see daily, and you could possibly lose your job because of sexual harassment, depending on how the girl takes it.

I would find friends outside of work to ask. No coworkers.

I'd try sticking with friends that you don't work with. It's great they trust you and you seem really outgoing and fun, but you don't want to scare anyone off, so take it slow and be careful who you initiate it with. Good luck!

Two great posts...

Do not mix social-fun with sexual-fun! Sure, hangout with coworkers: play pool, darts, go to movies, video games, etc... But, do not try to get sexual with them. Office romance and business, always become anti-productive, and may lead to unintended effects.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Adding into the "Don't do fetish shit with co-workers" chorus, but regular friends are a-ok. How close, exactly, are you with them? Because while you're probably not going to be having any hour-long bondage sessions with them, you can easily score a lengthy play session by just initiating grab ass. Something that (somehow) worked really well for me in the past was doing something as simple as "Hey wanna see something funny" or "Let me see your foot for a second, I wanna show you something".

That said, "looking like a creep" is 90% in your behavior and attitude. Being close with them will negate some of that, but appearing overly eager or acting like you had it all planned out is definitely going to weird people out. Try to come across as you not trying to sneak boner time off them and more like you just thought it would be funny shit to do with a friend.

 

[feetickler61]

Thanks for all your input. Haha I had thought the same mostly and i think ill just stick to the ocassional scenarios. I should have mentioned these are former co workers that I've become close to after; that'd be setting myself up for failure:/. Thanks again and I'll keep you posted

 

[Californiasun19]

Yeah, play by ear, cautiously, but if you get close to them, and the right situation presents itself, confide in them that is one of your weaknesses. See what the reaction is. If she is not receptive, let it go. If so, then see where it goes. Baby step in to it.

 

[SoleMates]

Thanks for all your input. Haha I had thought the same mostly and i think ill just stick to the ocassional scenarios. I should have mentioned these are former co workers that I've become close to after; that'd be setting myself up for failure:/. Thanks again and I'll keep you posted

Former co-workers is fine. You just don't want to go screwing around with people you could get fired over, is all.

 

[TicklesXXX]

Would you suggest a strictly fucking date to one of them? No? Then you can't suggest a tickling date without appearing like a creep either.

Slightly rude response...