how to teach

[purpletickle]

Okay, has anyone ever had the problem where someone is tickling them...but they just can't tickle!? I know this sounds wierd...but thats where I am. My bf tries to tickle me...but he sometimes just can't tickle! lol. Anyone have any ideas on how to teach him?

 

[Iwon'tgrowup]

You might try tickling him the way you want to be tickled. That's worked for me in the past. Even if he's not ticklish, he'll still get the drift.

 

[ShadowTklr]

I have been known, on occassion to assist in such matters as being a surrogate Tickler as a way of showing others how to tickle. 🙂

 

[TheFactor]

I seen people where they are tickling someones sides or feet, and they are running their fingers over the body part, but they roll their hands over them. I don't know if that tickles or not, but I really don't see how it could.

 

[HisFlyinFingers]

Well, this idea might be wildly bad, but something I'll throw out there anyway:

If you frequent the clips forum, or other sites that provide clips, you've probably seen particular techniques that you'd love to have done to you. Find a clip that really shows the tickler's hands (or tools) and let your man know just how bad you want to get tickled like that.

If he isn't insecure, or surprised and weirded out by the idea that there are videos for this, he might see what you're looking for, and he'll know what sort of reaction to expect when he does it right. Who knows, he might just need a nudge in the right direction to become an expert -- (un)lucky you! 🙂

 

[tommytikl]

The key with tickling with fingers is to keep the wrists locked and the fingers moving think playing the piano...the ribs piano that is.

If he stinks at using his hands, have him use a vibrator or electric toothbrush or toys in general and then you aren't relying on his ticklish skills at first.

 

[luvn2laf]

Does your bf want to tickle you? If he does, try giving him some tips. My bf was interested and I told him I would tell him where my 2nd and 3rd most intense hot spots were, but he'd have to find my first. We were out to dinner, so I didn't tell him right away, that was enough to make him curious. He later asked when we were alone and as I told him where they were, I explained the best way to tickle them to get the right effect. He wasn't good at it right away, but he did catch on after a bit and sure enough, he was determined enough to find that #1 spot without me telling him.

 

[purpletickle]

thanks!

Thanks to everyone who helped out. Sorry I didn't post a thank you earlier. I tried all the stuff that was suggested, and well, my (ex now) finally got the idea sorta. He made me smile and squirm....which was progress for him, lol. Now however, I have a new boyfriend...also named Jeff, haha. And well, boy can he tickle!! He is rather skilled and I am rather happy, hehe. And that fact about playing the piano and such....soooo right. He types on the computer a lot and loves to play the piano. And well, he is a great tickler. Oh man, he's got me like thrashing on the bed half the time, haha. I think he got practice from tickling his little brother, heh.