How to tell him? Advice?

[chocolatepuddin]

Hey everyone,
I've been in love with tickling for the longest time (ever since I was little). I haven't ever told anyone about it, but I really want to enjoy being tied up and tickled.
The guy I'm with now is the closest I've ever come to telling anyone. I've sort of hinted at it. He tickles me playfully, but only has he tied me up once and because I asked him to (and because he thought I was joking). He knows it "excites me playfully" as he puts it, but I don't think he really gets how much I enjoy it. I'd like to tell him. I want to experience and share this with him, but I'm just so nervous to tell him. I don't want to freak him out or scare him away.
I would love to hear all of your ideas on how to tell him.
Thanks!
Lauren

 

[Naughty Summer]

Hi Lauren,

You have already done a tie up tickle and he knows you enjoy it so I think you should just come out and talk to him about it. It is something you are thinking about a lot and it's obvious it's bother you that he doesn't know how you feel. It seems tickling is a big part of your life so he should know about it. Especially if you want a long term relationship, it's better to know early how he will feel about it. If you don't want to come on too strong you could start by saying "remember when we did the tie up tickle". I've been thinking about how much I enjoyed it and I want to do more. Then see what he say's. Then go from there if you feel he could handle more. If he loves you he won't think it's weird and will want to share it with you. You might find out he enjoys it just as much as you do. Good luck I hope it all works out for you.

Hugs,
Summer

 

[LD_Tickler]

Summer pretty much hit the nail on the head. Guys are usually pretty eager to get girls' motors running, so something as simple and straightforward as tickling gives him an easy way to feel like a stud. I wouldn't worry about it, just come out with it in a way similar to what Summer said.

 

[maniactickler]

Just get him liquored up and tell him for gods sake!

 

[WorkInProgress]

My note to you is in General Discussion, though actually, of the two places you posted this question, this one is the more fitting.

 

[c7_assassin]

Unless he's a Mormon or an otherwise really repressed individual (which doesn't sound like the case), I doubt he'll need much prodding. As long as you send the signal "This Will Get You Laid Moar," he's going to be into it. Tell it to him straight up, and then hand him some rope. 😀

 

[No_Style]

like some people said, he already knows you like it, so just explaining it more shouldn't be a problem

 

[Deleted member 2452]

if you are nervous

write him a letter explaining that you are nervous, and worried about scaring him away. tell him you care for him, and he is important to you. then tell him about your desire for him to tickle the snot out of you.. often!
seriously.

steve

 

[myth77]

Tell it to him straight up, and then hand him some rope. 😀

Best. Advice. Ever.

 

[TickVix]

Break it down to him the way you just did on this thread. He'll be receptive to the idea if he's open minded and he himself may really enjoy being the ler of your dreams. I think every lee should get that ultimate experience where their partner just knows what they want without even having to say one word. I hope things work out for you. Who knows, he may be struggling to reveal something that he's into to you as well, so at least if you broach the subject first maybe he'll open up in terms of that as well. I know that's easier said than done, but I'm sure you will let him know sooner than later.

 

[chocolatepuddin]

Thank you everyone for your wonderful advice! It went really went and we had a wonderful night 😉

 

[NonConTickler]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: guys don't care what a woman is into as long as it will get them laid. You just need to be willing to give it up afterward.

 

[Korastus]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: guys don't care what a woman is into as long as it will get them laid. You just need to be willing to give it up afterward.

You're wrong.

 

[me4o]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: guys don't care what a woman is into as long as it will get them laid. You just need to be willing to give it up afterward.

I can't agree here. If a woman tells me she wants to whip me for 3 hours and then fuck my brains out-well, no sir. There are some limits, for everone they are different, but still...

 

[chocolatepuddin]

Haha, I have to agree with that on a woman's side.

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

I can't agree here. If a woman tells me she wants to whip me for 3 hours and then fuck my brains out-well, no sir. There are some limits, for everone they are different, but still...

Wimp With that sort of attitude you don't deserve to have your brains fucked out.

 

[me4o]

Wimp With that sort of attitude you don't deserve to have your brains fucked out.

you are not the first to say this to me 😀😀😀

 

[youmu]

Put on a bikini, then lie on his bed with a rope loosely wrapped around your body. 😉 I'm sure he'll get the message.