How would you describe what happens at NEST to someone you're dating?

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

As some of you know, David and I have been dating for a little over two months now and things are going very well so far. I know that NEST is going to be on June 4th which is a Sunday. Hopefully, I will be staying at the hotel as well with a friend that is also attending. Anyway, if he wants to do something that weekend, what will I tell him about NEST? How do I explain it to him without sounding weird? I really need some advice on this. Thanks.

 

[BellaRisa]

In my experience, the best way to explain NEST and similar events is to tell the truth; it's a fun weekend for friends who like tickling. And really, that's all NEST is. No matter what you say it's gonna sound kinda weird to anyone who A) isn't one of us and/or B) hasn't already attended and learned how cool it is. Personally I've given up on trying to make it sound 'normal' (whatever that is), normalcy is vastly overrated 😉 If he already respects your individuality and has confidence that you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll be fine

Bella

 

[Illtcklu]

In my experience, the best way to explain NEST and similar events is to tell the truth; it's a fun weekend for friends who like tickling. And really, that's all NEST is. No matter what you say it's gonna sound kinda weird to anyone who A) isn't one of us and/or B) hasn't already attended and learned how cool it is. Personally I've given up on trying to make it sound 'normal' (whatever that is), normalcy is vastly overrated 😉 If he already respects your individuality and has confidence that you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll be fine

Bella

I agree! Or.........................just be really general and say it's a convention! Or...................a vacation! Being honest is good,but sometimes I think you don't want to be too honest!!!!

ps Also remember that keeping the truth to yourself is NOT a lie!!!

 

[cloudgazer2k]

i have not yet attended, but will be trying for the next time around. however, since i can only assume (right) what goes on at these myserious NEST gatherings, if my significant other were to attend as well, i'd be sure to caution her and let her know that, as to any fetish gatherings, there are rules and that nobody can touch her unless they get permission.
on a side note: when cloudslave and i to get to make it to NEST next year, we will both be availiable for tickles!

 

[BellaRisa]

What's mysterious about NEST? There's been all kinds of posts that tell you what happens, who attends, etc.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

What's mysterious about NEST? There's been all kinds of posts that tell you what happens, who attends, etc.

i...i was making a joke...🙁 but even with the posts and stories of other attendees, if on e has never been, how do you relay those experiences of others to an uncertain significant other?

 

[Deadsea7777]

As some of you know, David and I have been dating for a little over two months now and things are going very well so far. I know that NEST is going to be on June 4th which is a Sunday. Hopefully, I will be staying at the hotel as well with a friend that is also attending. Anyway, if he wants to do something that weekend, what will I tell him about NEST? How do I explain it to him without sounding weird? I really need some advice on this. Thanks.

Crimes made togheter, bound people with more strenght that love, and usually forever.
Try to something that he likes a lot but society will think he is a weird. And if it is not umpalable to you let him indulge his cup of tea with you. We all have a dark yet innocent side. Two months si too short to know very well the receptivity of a person about something that is let say not common. But you got still a month to discover something not common that he likes. And made him see that the one who's free of sin shoot the first stone. so you indulge in yours, he indulge in his. You may try to get him to tickle you, and them ask him playfully what hides behind his mask.

 

[venray]

As some of you know, David and I have been dating for a little over two months now and things are going very well so far. I know that NEST is going to be on June 4th which is a Sunday. Hopefully, I will be staying at the hotel as well with a friend that is also attending. Anyway, if he wants to do something that weekend, what will I tell him about NEST? How do I explain it to him without sounding weird? I really need some advice on this. Thanks.

Does he know you are into tickling.....If not....after 2 months of dating, it might be best to fill him in.....Bella is right...the truth is always best.......

 

[Goodieluver]

Say its that time of the month, we men dont wanna know what it is, all we know is we need to be on a fishing boat for 5-7 days hoping the world doesnt end.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Well venray he does know that I like tickling and we've tickled each other a few times but the event NEST is taking tickling to a different level! lol Anyway, I guess I'll just tell him the truth straight out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts so far.



I really do love him and it's going very well so far.

 

[Angel_2]

First off I am glad to hear things are going so well and I hope it keeps up.

Now about NEST tell him the truth I know it might sound strange to him and all but I am sure if you explain it to him he will understand. If he loves you I think he will understand. Best of luck to the both of you

Angel

 

[Lionhart]

Just say it's a Star Wars convention gone crazy..lol I've told my gf about NEST and she was pretty wowed by the the fact that tickling is such a "mainstream"(her term not mine) interest. Unfourtunately I have conflicting events that weekend and won't be able to attend.. One of these days.. lol Hope you all have a blast though..

 

[armpitlovr]

Jen: I agree with Venray. If you guys are getting along so well? It's always best to be honest. Other wise it will bite you later. Coming from someone who has attended two "SBG" gatherings, (Super Bowl Gathering/ Tickle Gathering) and four N.E.S.T. gatherings It is as much a gathering of friends and good conversation and laughs as it is about our common fetish. I'll tell you right out that after only an hour or so at my first gathering, I felt more at home with these people than i ever thought possible. Plan on keeping this date open from now on. I dare say you will be hooked. Next year you might even convince him to come along as well. Believe me, he will be MORE than welcome.

 

[gig1965]

Try a demonstration!

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Thanks everyone so far! Maybe what I should do is tell him about this website and just let him explore it on his own while I go do something else like shower, go to the mall, etc... That way he can decide on his own how he feels about. I talked to Illtcklu earlier this week and that's what he suggested. He's such a sweetie!