This is a question from one who has had a hard enough time finding relationships, period. For those of you who are in relationships with other tickle-people, I'd like to ask, how did you find each other? Did one of you "convert" the other? Did you meet through the tickling community? Did you just meet and then miraculously discover that you shared the same desires? I'm very curious, and I'd like to hear your stories. Thanks in advance.😀
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TklDuo-Ann
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For Drew and I, it was my website that brought us together. He'd done a search on tickling and my site was one of those he checked out. He wrote me to say hello. That led to a few weeks of letters and IMs back and forth. Then, we got together and things progressed from there. We'll be celebrating our third wedding anniversary in a few weeks.
AFA finding someone yourself, I'd recommend looking for friends more than a SO. That's the most important part of any LTR anyway. If you aren't friends, then you aren't likely to see much else last in a relationship.
Ann
AFA finding someone yourself, I'd recommend looking for friends more than a SO. That's the most important part of any LTR anyway. If you aren't friends, then you aren't likely to see much else last in a relationship.
Ann
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AOL use to have a chatroom called "Tickling", but don't think they have it anymore. Met my no ex-gf there and turned out she lived like 2 blocks from me. Easy access hehe.
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Jester was converted by me, but he seemedto take a liking to it rather fast, I just showed him the site and let him look around and he ended up liking it, now we are engaged and have a baby on the way
Lauren Tyler
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My former gf was big on tickling, but her feet (the only ticklish spot on her) were too sensitive, and she'd never let me get near them, but she'd always tickle me! 😉
Long version:
Lazarus found me online through Josie's Tickling News yahoo group directory. He looked up my profile, claims he fell off his chair when he saw my picture, saw I only lived a few hours from him, and emailed me. I'm ashamed to say that when he first started corresponding with me through email, even though I thought he was really really nice, I wasn't looking for anyone (or at least I didn't think I was), and I tried gently steering him toward some other single female ticklephiles online whom I knew were looking for a partner. Fortunately for me, he refused to be swayed and continued to correspond with me through email daily. After about 1 or 2 months of emailing each other daily, we noticed that something was really beginning to click between us. Our daily email was no longer a novelty, but rather had become a necessity. We decided to take it to the next step and carry our correspondance to the phone. Our very first conversation lasted 5 hours straight, with both of us battling to get our own words in the entire time. There was no lull in the conversation what-so-ever for the entire 5 hours. A rarity for a first time phone correspondance. By the time the 4th hour rolled around, we both knew we would spontaneously combust if we did not get together within 24 hours. So he came and picked me up the very next morning after getting off the graveyard shift. Neither one of us slept a wink that entire first weekend. We couldn't. Both our minds and our bodies were on fire due to that mental and emotional spark one can only experience when they meet that perfect Mr. or Mrs. Right. We both cried when he dropped me off Sunday evening back at home, and we knew it would be 6 days before we could see one another again. We've never looked back since that first weekend in May last year. We've been together ever since, and we plan to marry in Sept of 2006. The lesson here? Persistance can really pay off.
Short version:
Lazarus found me through Josie the Ticklish Pussycats yahoo group, tickling news. He saw me listed in his state in her directory, looked up my yahoo profile, was interested in what he saw, and began emailing me. We emailed for about 2 months, then finally met. After our first weekend together May of last year, we knew it was meant to be, and have been together since. We plan to marry in Sept of 2006.
Don't give up hope. It can and DOES happen. Many of us here at the TMF are living proof of it.
Mimi
Lazarus found me online through Josie's Tickling News yahoo group directory. He looked up my profile, claims he fell off his chair when he saw my picture, saw I only lived a few hours from him, and emailed me. I'm ashamed to say that when he first started corresponding with me through email, even though I thought he was really really nice, I wasn't looking for anyone (or at least I didn't think I was), and I tried gently steering him toward some other single female ticklephiles online whom I knew were looking for a partner. Fortunately for me, he refused to be swayed and continued to correspond with me through email daily. After about 1 or 2 months of emailing each other daily, we noticed that something was really beginning to click between us. Our daily email was no longer a novelty, but rather had become a necessity. We decided to take it to the next step and carry our correspondance to the phone. Our very first conversation lasted 5 hours straight, with both of us battling to get our own words in the entire time. There was no lull in the conversation what-so-ever for the entire 5 hours. A rarity for a first time phone correspondance. By the time the 4th hour rolled around, we both knew we would spontaneously combust if we did not get together within 24 hours. So he came and picked me up the very next morning after getting off the graveyard shift. Neither one of us slept a wink that entire first weekend. We couldn't. Both our minds and our bodies were on fire due to that mental and emotional spark one can only experience when they meet that perfect Mr. or Mrs. Right. We both cried when he dropped me off Sunday evening back at home, and we knew it would be 6 days before we could see one another again. We've never looked back since that first weekend in May last year. We've been together ever since, and we plan to marry in Sept of 2006. The lesson here? Persistance can really pay off.
Short version:
Lazarus found me through Josie the Ticklish Pussycats yahoo group, tickling news. He saw me listed in his state in her directory, looked up my yahoo profile, was interested in what he saw, and began emailing me. We emailed for about 2 months, then finally met. After our first weekend together May of last year, we knew it was meant to be, and have been together since. We plan to marry in Sept of 2006.
Don't give up hope. It can and DOES happen. Many of us here at the TMF are living proof of it.
Mimi
I forgot to mention in my post that prior to meeting Lazarus, I had been married for 11 years to former TMF member Djskiz. While he was not a born ticklephile, he happily obliged me in my fetish, and even attended gatherings with me and enjoyed himself immensely. However, we had difficulties in other areas of our marriage, and divorced for reasons completely unrelated to tickling.
Mimi
Mimi
Lauren Tyler
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Mimi,
Good luck with your new relationship! I hope it all works out for you!
Good luck with your new relationship! I hope it all works out for you!
Back in 1999-2000, I used to host a TICKLE CHAT room in Yahoo Chat (Before Yahoo's chat deteriorated so badly). I had a lady enter the caht room who was curious as to how anybody could enjoy tickling - she had been tickle-tortured as a young girl and she hated to be tickled.
We contimued to chat via IM and I kept volunteering to "Cyber-tickle" her so she could have an idea of what I was into. I stressed that I would only "tickle" her and it wasn't cybersex. I also stressed that for me, it is important that both parties have fun - not just me.
After a while, she finally decided to try the cyber-tickling. The catch was that she wanted me to do it on the telephone where she could hear my voice and inflections and ask questions as well.
Since that day, I have cyber-tickled her several times on the telephone. I also met her in her home state when I drove cross-country and I intruduced her to my playful, restrained tickling.
Since then, we have met for a weekend in Las Vegas and a couple of weekend meetings here in San Diego.
The bottom line, though, is that we first established a trusting friendship and that opened the door to the wonderful tickling encounters we have shared.
I have also met a few other friends in dating sites. Again, establishing a friendship is critical.
We contimued to chat via IM and I kept volunteering to "Cyber-tickle" her so she could have an idea of what I was into. I stressed that I would only "tickle" her and it wasn't cybersex. I also stressed that for me, it is important that both parties have fun - not just me.
After a while, she finally decided to try the cyber-tickling. The catch was that she wanted me to do it on the telephone where she could hear my voice and inflections and ask questions as well.
Since that day, I have cyber-tickled her several times on the telephone. I also met her in her home state when I drove cross-country and I intruduced her to my playful, restrained tickling.
Since then, we have met for a weekend in Las Vegas and a couple of weekend meetings here in San Diego.
The bottom line, though, is that we first established a trusting friendship and that opened the door to the wonderful tickling encounters we have shared.
I have also met a few other friends in dating sites. Again, establishing a friendship is critical.
