i hate being tickled

[Sexy_LiL_Meka]

Script 18 sky blue bold When ever my boyfriend comes over to my house he always wants to play and i know its going to end up with him tickling me and i fucking hate it so much it makes me mad you know...but then i like tickling hime because he's so cute and i just love him but its not fair because he's bigger then me and he can take advantage of that and its not fun after a while...do ya'll understand where im coming from?

 

[lust4feet]

Script 18 sky blue bold When ever my boyfriend comes over to my house he always wants to play and i know its going to end up with him tickling me and i fucking hate it so much it makes me mad you know...but then i like tickling hime because he's so cute and i just love him but its not fair because he's bigger then me and he can take advantage of that and its not fun after a while...do ya'll understand where im coming from?

well, I can candidly say that I don't because *please forgive me for my sin* I've NEVER been tickled by someone before. 🙁

But what I really wanted to say in this post is that there are many righteous and pious individuals here who would appreciate if you could try to refrain from the usage of billingsgate in your messages. Thank you and welcome to our community! 😉

 

[coolman]

sounds like you're being a bit of a hypocrite! 😛 . You give, you get!

seriously, if you really hate it, TELL him.

 

[TicklingDuo]

Welcome to the gang, Meka. It almost sounds like you don't so much mind it in moderation, but simply hate having it pushed too far. If I understood that properly, you may want to talk with him about it and suggest that he ease up and be a bit less vicious about it. I absolutely love to be tickled. But, I also hate it when someone just jumps me and goes to town with rough tickling. Sometimes, it's a simple matter of adjusting how you play. If he really likes tickling and really cares for you, I'm sure you'd get positive feedback.

Ann

 

[Novus]

You know what this means?

It means you are one of us. You are in the early stages of developling a love/hate relationship with tickling. You like to tickle but you don't like to be tickled but you can't get away with tickling without being tickled also. This will later develope into the switcher role where you learn to give yourself up to be tickled so that in turn your boyfriend will give himself to be tickled. As bonds of trust develope you will learn to like being tickled and it will be taken much further then you can now imagine.

 

[Barlow]

Why don't you set some ground rules? Obviously he enjoys tickling you, so if he gets you, then maybe you should be able to restrain him and get him? It could be fun.

 

[Krokus]

Hm...

My advice: Next time you see him, give him a swift kick in the crotch, and laugh at him as he crumples to the floor, yelping. Quite a good way to shift the power, no?

 

[Sexy_LiL_Meka]

thanx

well i wanna thanx ya'll for all of ur welcums and feedback to my post and im happy to be apart of something that we all have in common.😀

 

[drew70]

I get most of what you're saying. It would be cool to have him at your mercy for once, rather than vice versa. I recommend you trick him into agreeing to having himself handcuffed to the bed. Don't mention tickling, just tell him you want to try something a little kinky. Then when he's cuffed and helpless, let him have it!

There are a couple of things in your post I didn't understand, though. First, what did you mean by "Script 18 sky blue bold"?

Secondly, you describe yourself as "sexy," not only in your name, but in your signature. I don't doubt that you are, I'm just wondering how somebody makes that self-determination. How does one know if one is sexy or not? Is it something you see in the mirror? Or are you going by what people tell you? I hope you don't mind me asking, I'm just a little curious, that's all. 🙂

 

[venray]

Script 18 sky blue bold

Prolly tried to make all the text huge in blue and bold...

Like this

Ven

 

[Sexy_LiL_Meka]

....

when i say that im not being self centered on anything i've just been told that i was that's all and i just feel that i am so i decided to put that in my name...but im not stuck on myself or constantly looking or talking about my self its nothing like that...but anyway that was a good idea that you said i never thought of that...

 

[ISUmark]

lol its ok meka, confidence in oneself is very important...I mean she only put her name as lil sexy meka, and mentioned somethin in her profile..she isnt sayin, "IM THE SEXIEST person in the world!" it just sounds like she is confident in herself, which is good. everyone could put sexy in their name if they wanted to because at least 1 person in the world thinks you are sexy...you may not know it, but its true

 

[TickledToDeath]

Maybe you should ask him to allow YOU to tie him down on the bed so you could get significant paybacks or revenge.
If you don't want to go there, at least have him agree to some sort of handicap. One arm tied behind his back or something.

Also, allow him to tie YOU down and have him agree to tickle you very softly and sensually. Perhaps if you work up to the more intense tickling he appears to put you though slowly, you may come to enjoy it or even LOVE it or at the very least, hate it less especially if he LETS you get him back.

Just a thought.


TTD😉

 

[Sexy_LiL_Meka]

i dunno

yea thats probably why i don't like it because he doesn't let me do it back to him and i feel like it unfair you know what i mean and he tickles me really hard sometimes that it hurts so like when i say that i hate people get the wrong idea like im extreamly ticklish or something but its not like that...its just he hurts me sometimes and i just be wanting to kill him and he scares me sometimes because just today no lie eaither he was tickling the hel out of me and said that if anyone asked what me and him does all day tell them that he tickles me al day...im like this fuckin looney..its kinda funny when you think about it though...

 

[starfires]

Re: i dunno

... he tickles me really hard sometimes that it hurts so like when i say that i hate people get the wrong idea like im extreamly ticklish or something but its not like that...its just he hurts me sometimes and i just be wanting to kill him and he scares me sometimes because just today no lie eaither he was tickling the hel out of me ...

Let me get this straight: your boyfriend regularly does something severely unpleasant to you that hurts you and scares you, without your permission -- right? May I point out that it's a bad idea to be in a relationship with someone that hurts you, scares you, doesn't seem to care whether you like it or not, and is bigger than you?
I suggest you tell him quite firmly to stop doing that, and dump him if he won't. You must get plenty of other offers if you are as sexy as you say -- try dating somebody that will treat you like a person.

 

[Phineas]

yea, what he said.

seriously Meka, the more you post about it the more I wonder if the tickling is the issue... seems like beefo here has a power issue and just uses tickling as a way to exert it.

A few yars prior, I dated a lovely girl who had been abused by her boyfriends in the past. One of them used to tickle her until she couldn't breathe - he wasn't a tickle fetishist like the rest of us, it's just that it was something he could exploit. She hated it, naturally. On the other hand, once a loving, trusting bond was established, she regularly allowed me to tickle her silly for any great length of time, and she loved it.

I think you would do well to find someone other than your current interest. It'd be pretty easy, I'd wager. 😀