I have a question....

[sadira]

for 'lees and 'lers.....I've read comments about dungeons, dominas and subs and I'm curious to know how submissive you prefer to be as a 'lee and for 'lers, how sub do you prefer your 'lees?

 

[yeayeayea]

I prefer my lees to ultimately enjoy being tickled no matter what. I'm not the domineering, tickle-your-brains-out type of ler, i just like to make my lee giddy with ticklish excitement.

 

[TikleBelly]

I prefer my ticklees submissive enough to enjoy the power exchange of being bound and tickled. They need to be able to surrender themselves to the sensations and let the laughter flow. I do enjoy a bit of sassiness in her, just a few well placed smart ass words to egg me on! I however do not enjoy any excessive vulgar language.
I am not into a BDSM "Master / slave" type of arrangement with a woman, in fact I like to switch tickling roles with the right woman. I'm not usually into all out merciless tickle torture, unless the woman is really wanting it.

 

[yeayeayea]

perfectly stated, tiklebelly--only I won't reverse roles. I'm just insecure I guess, but for me, being tickled is practically rape 😛

 

[marcusb]

Yeah, what TikleBelly said.

I want them, above all, to have fun...

 

[TikleBelly]

Once upon a time I hated to be tickled, I would get really pissed off if a girl friend even tried to tickle me.
That changed when I was in my early 20's and I was at a friends house sitting between two female friends of mind. Out of the blue, one of them decided to tickle me and seconds later the other joined in. For some reason the combination of the sensuality and the affection of the tickling made it a positive experience. That took me by complete surprise. After that experience I started to enjoy being tickled by certain women, I would even make myself more vulnerable to being tickled around woman, hoping they would take advantage of it. I think part of that was the desired to be tickled but also it gave me a perfect reason to tickle them back. 🙂

Over the years my attitude toward tickling and being tickled has changed. Now I consider myself 80% tickler 20% ticklee, but that can change a lot depending on the woman I'm with.

 

[yeayeayea]

Despite my previous reply on this thread, I could see myself reaching that point in the future.

 

[unclebill]

Good question Sadira. I`ve visited two different dungeons in L.A. and have tickled a total of six different women over the last couple of years. Four of the women were submissives, one was a switch and one was a dom. In my opinion once you get their feet into a pair of stocks and their hands tied over their head exposing all of that ticklish flesh, it doesn`t matter what their title is because I see to it that they all giggle like schoolgirls.

 

[tickledorange]

I hate tickling people, so I'm totally submissive. I hate that "are you sure?" kissy kissy, goo goo, mommy daddy, "tickle tickle" crap part of tickling, but I love the rough gritty (almost) no-holds barred part of tickling. The part that makes you almost totally forget who you really are and drives you absolutely insane.

 

[steph]

Great question hon!
As a mostly lee, the more submissive the better. In my real life I'm pretty much in spaz mode, taking control, running around, making stuff happen so I think it's why I like playing this role so much~it's a different hat for me to wear, so to speak...

XOXO

 

[50greg]

steph-- I like that insight into your personality you just gave us. It fits nicely into the picture I had of you.

 

[sadira]

Thanks, gang, for all your great replies.

 

[TikleBelly]

But Sadira, the question remains how submissive do you prefer to be when you are the ticklee?

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

But Sadira, the question remains how submissive do you prefer to be when you are the ticklee?

I'll bet you anything that I could answer that question for you.