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[Hosetickler23]

** Admins this is going to Start a bit off topic but I will get it onto tickling asap**

As Steph can attest to as of late I have been having problems within my realationship many people actually some Idea an of what they are talking about. My girlfriend and I have come very close to breaking up I mean that Hasta la Vista a girl that actually enjoy's tickling (shes a Tickler and Ticklee) I was going to throw back, but I managed to save the deal today, I wont go into details. Now after a couple of weeks from Hell what would be the best way to make it up to her, also we have really been getting into nylon tickling which is normally pretty fun although it has been more then a month and though I am trying to avoid a "ticklish situation" it may be a good way to make it up to her.

btw. we only see each other like 1 or 2 days a week and I am not going to get into bed with her for ummmm for a while I also wont go into details i'll just say it is not ED. Also if I know you are giving me bad advice I will send a PM to you telling you that if you have nothing nice to say here don't say it. And yes I have changed.

 

[Adam]

Man, this really isn't meant as rude. I swear. I'm just really confused as to why you've posted this here, as it seems that there are only a few that actually know of your situation. Also, since I have absolutely no clue as to what actually happened between you two, I can't really offer any advice on how to make up with your girlfriend. I suppose you could start by being nice and attentive to her needs. Not just for a while, but all the time. That should build back any lost trust, if there was any. But again, I have no idea what you're getting at here. I really don't mean to sound sarcastic. I just really have no idea what you're talking about.

 

[Hosetickler23]

What I'm actually trying to do is figure out if I should actually let my girlfriend tickle me. What happend is that me focusing on nothing but her needs caused problems. I finally needed to worry bout me.

 

[lk70]

I didn't understand the first post either but what I'm getting now is she wants to tickle you and you don't like it?

If so, this is the same topic covered (albeit in reverse) many times. If it repulses you, if you HATE it, then you probably shouldn't. But if you just prefer to be the ler and leeing doesn't do it for you, then you should let her.

That's a serious simplification but it's the best I can do with the data I have.

 

[Hosetickler23]

Tickling doesn't repulse me personally but lately I have been trying to get away from it and yes I am a ler not a real big fan of being a lee so I guess when I finally see her on 8/31 I know what we will be doing

 

[Adam]

Oh, I see now. Thanks for clearing that up. If I were you, I'd probably start out slow. Say, maybe let her tickle you for a few minutes and see how you respond to it. If it isn't so bad, maybe continue a few more minutes. Baby steps, essentially. Hopefully you two can come to a compromise. I wish you the best of luck. 🙂