i met dtrell today...

[venray]

Husband. I repeat: Husband. "Won't tell your husband."

All of you who are saying "congrats" ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

Wow can you say the word husband again all Holy one....

 

[Mimi]

Oh B.S. No one on this site has the right to judge anyone else for any reason. She got to realize a fantasy at the hands of a trusted and experienced ler. She does not need nor deserve a morality check. Live and let live.

 

[wendynpeter]

Oh B.S. No one on this site has the right to judge anyone else for any reason. She got to realize a fantasy at the hands of a trusted and experienced ler. She does not need nor deserve a morality check. Live and let live.

Would you look her husband in the eye and say that?

 

[wendynpeter]

Wow can you say the word husband again all Holy one....

Certainly. Husband.

I really can't believe some of you people. Just because this website is an adult fetish site, that doesn't mean we have to support this kind of behavior, Mimi. I'm not a stereotypical amoral pervert. I AM all for the concept of the "ethical slut" and sexual freedom. I am NOT all for the concept of lying and deception and encouraging others to lie to their spouses.

You guys can flame me ALLLL you want for saying this, but you know I'm right and so do I. And if you don't, well, I hope no one ever trusts YOU.

 

[venray]

Certainly. Husband.

I really can't believe some of you people. Just because this website is an adult fetish site, that doesn't mean we have to support this kind of behavior, Mimi. I'm not a stereotypical amoral pervert. I AM all for the concept of the "ethical slut" and sexual freedom. I am NOT all for the concept of lying and deception and encouraging others to lie to their spouses.

You guys can flame me ALLLL you want for saying this, but you know I'm right and so do I. And if you don't, well, I hope no one ever trusts YOU.

What we KNOW is that you have a chip on your shoulder and you choose to judge others that you know nothing about...nothing at all about their personal situation yet you are so high and mighty and noble and perfect that you can sit anonymously by the light of your computer screen and dis everyone else.....

Typical troll in action....whose opinion means little at best to those you choose to look down your nose at.....

Someone really must have screwed you over for you to behave like a complete dweeb on a fetish forum.....Wow do I feel sorry for you....

 

[wendynpeter]

What we KNOW is that you have a chip on your shoulder and you choose to judge others that you know nothing about...nothing at all about their personal situation yet you are so high and mighty and noble and perfect that you can sit anonymously by the light of your computer screen and dis everyone else.....

Typical troll in action....whose opinion means little at best to those you choose to look down your nose at.....

Someone really must have screwed you over for you to behave like a complete dweeb on a fetish forum.....Wow do I feel sorry for you....

Well, interesting theory, but you're very wrong. I have talked with Isabeau for hours via telephone about just this very topic, and for hours more via PM and IM. I know *exactly* what their personal situation is.

I'm not going to let you bait me into a personal fight, Venray. Flame on.

 

[venray]

I shant fight you either ....as for flames...no...you have no right to judge anyone publicly here....that is not a flame...it is the simple truth...as I am sure you are not as perfect as you try to appear...

 

[tiklusilly]

I rarely post here - mostly like many others I just come here to decompress from what are often very stressful days. Life in today's world is full of judgment - everyone is constantly being judged or having to measure up to one standard or another in order to make it through the week.

The nice thing about a forum like this is - as a community we have the opportunity to let all that corrosive judgment go, hear each other's concerns and try to relax and enjoy each other's company. We all have this special interest in common, and it's so nice to be able to visit with others in a non-threatening, supportive setting like this usually is.

I mean no disrespect to anyone here, but I urge everyone to stay away from judging others and from name calling when you disagree with someone.

Sometimes old sayings have wisdom that can speak volumes. For example - "let he who is without sin cast the first stone" and "judge not, and ye shall not be judged". None of us are perfect, but those of us who look down on others inevitably lower themselves in the process.

Also - if someone has private information about someone else's situation through phone calls or private messages, this kind of public forum should not be an appropriate place to mention or discuss that. I'm sure this information, whatever it might be, was said in confidence. We all have a right to disagree and to express our feelings, but I would recommend that these kinds of comments which are based on private conversations be limited to private e-mails and messages between the parties.

Just my two cents - again, I mean no disrespect and hope that this is heard in the right spirit. Best regards to everyone in the forum - let's continue to make this a place where everyone can feel free to share their feelings and be free from hostility and judgment.

 

[Goodieluver]

Certainly. Husband.

I really can't believe some of you people. Just because this website is an adult fetish site, that doesn't mean we have to support this kind of behavior, Mimi. I'm not a stereotypical amoral pervert. I AM all for the concept of the "ethical slut" and sexual freedom. I am NOT all for the concept of lying and deception and encouraging others to lie to their spouses.

You guys can flame me ALLLL you want for saying this, but you know I'm right and so do I. And if you don't, well, I hope no one ever trusts YOU.

I suppose you think its wrong too if someone looks at porn and is in a relationship or married, cuz its "cheating"?

Izzy luv, dont fret, you didnt do anythin wrong

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Husband. I repeat: Husband. "Won't tell your husband."

All of you who are saying "congrats" ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

You guys can flame me ALLLL you want for saying this, but you know I'm right and so do I. And if you don't, well, I hope no one ever trusts YOU.

Oy, here we go again. Lumping sex in with tickling. It's not our place to tell izzy's husband, she is a big girl. We are happy for her for the experience and SHAME ON YOU for down playing that. We wouldn't tell her husband because we like her and don't wish to start an argument with them but would also give her advice on how to tell her husband if she asked. I have PMed with her too, she is a pleasant person to talk to.

I hope nobody ever trusts YOU. You seem like a person that would stab your own friend in the back if you didn't agree with them. You are subtley accusing her of adultery. Anyone that tickles another wants to have sex with them..that seems to be your motto. Maybe, that IS your true colors..The pot calling the kettle. It was a just tickle experience..get over it.

 

[fttickler]

Hmmmm I love a response that starts with OY...

Congrats Mel, GLad you finally got to experience what you have been waiting for. I for one find you a terrific person. Nothing but nice things to say about everyone. But in reguards to theis wendynpeter person( people/troll/REPUBLICAN ) I would be careful with who your chat with on the phone. Obviously some folks are just jealous that you got to experience something wonderful for yourself. You go girl. As for you WnP, Vote Democrat.

😛

 

[Bound2Switch]

I suppose you think its wrong too if someone looks at porn and is in a relationship or married, cuz its "cheating"?

Izzy luv, dont fret, you didnt do anythin wrong

Just one point. I'm avoiding taking anyone's side here. But I just want to point out to Goodieluver that LOOKING at porn and TOUCHING someone in a manner in which they deem to be sexual are quite different things. I don't think that offeres a suitable comparison for this discussion.

 

[leafstk]

Well, interesting theory, but you're very wrong. I have talked with Isabeau for hours via telephone about just this very topic, and for hours more via PM and IM. I know *exactly* what their personal situation is.

I'm not going to let you bait me into a personal fight, Venray. Flame on.

And you talking about her personal shit in the open like this is just as flame worthy, oh Holy One

I think Ray's right... sounds like you DO have a chip on your shoulder

 

[Bagelfather]

Let's all be cool like little Fonzies

I think there is a thread about this already, I don't think we need to get down to name calling here and mudslinging.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I will get this back to topic since we seem to be off topic. I want to say the Dtrell is one of the GREAT GUYS of the TMF. He is really a quiet guy and VERY RESPECTFUL. Isabeau the fact that you FINALLY met him is GREAT!!! I know him to be nothing short of a PERFECT GENTLEMAN. I am happy you guys made the connection. Anything after that is sour grapes in my opinion. 😀

 

[toneus79]

Congrats Isabeau, it will be even better the next time you try it. I know from past experience as a Lee, that having gone years thinking about being tickled, the first few times you are too nervous too let yourself really go.

Dtrell, how do you do it ? I sentence you to live in the tickle wasteland that is the UK. 😛

WendynPeter you are without doubt the worst kind of bigots. You sit there trying to impose your moral values on other people, purely because you are in the fortunate position of having what you and others want, available any time you want it. Not good at all

 

[aun_existe_amor]

The way I see it is that Isabeau did something she wanted to do and had a good experience. She is a grown woman and capable of making her own decisions. Whether she told her husband or not we don't know and maybe never will but she made that decision and is happy with it so that's all that matters. What's right for some is not right for others. Maybe Isabeau is the person some of us can take good advice from in the future.

Isabeau, as long as you're happy you don't need to listen to other people here. It's your life. You live it the way you think best. 🙂

 

[isabeau]

good grief i had no idea sharing some happy news would turn so bitter. wendynpeter how dare you? and i thought you were nice, seems to me you are experiencing sour grapes. anyway yes i did this behind davids back and i will probably tell him soon. the thing is this, i have asked and asked david to do this lately and he always says no or mentions church. life is short i wanted to experience this and dtrell was the one to give it to me. arent i allowed some happiness also? i have lived my whole life for others including david, its my turn for once. i am not asking sympathy here. god why is it every thread i start turns out this way?

i repeat it was not sexual in the least sex was the last thing on my mind yesterday. i was just worried it wouldnt tickle enough and that dtrell would be disappointed after my saying how ticklish i was.

AND GET THIS I FELT NO GUILT AT ALL IT WAS NOT CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND.

isabeau

 

[dtrell]

Congrats Mel, GLad you finally got to experience what you have been waiting for. I for one find you a terrific person. Nothing but nice things to say about everyone. But in reguards to theis wendynpeter person( people/troll/REPUBLICAN ) I would be careful with who your chat with on the phone. Obviously some folks are just jealous that you got to experience something wonderful for yourself. You go girl. As for you WnP, Vote Democrat.

😛

well i am a republican and i see nothing wrong with what went on. voting democrat surely never made anyone smarter.

tickling=not sex=not cheating. period.
put that in your pipe and smoke it "peter"...good name by the way, very appropriate.

 

[christine1010]

I know you asked your husband many times. You didn't require any disgusting sexual technique, you didn't require a huge diamond ring, you asked him to ... to ... to TOUCH you the way you like it. Just the touch. Is there anything easier to give? I am not judging anyone but I think it's his fault you had to do it this way. There was no sex - I am definitely supporting you.

 

[venray]

Yes. Please dont equate conservitism with narrow mindedness fftickler...(LOL)

D...you amaze me. You have met many that I would like to meet and have not yet gotten the chance (include yourself on this list)....

I have spoken with many who have had the chance to meet you and have gotten nothing but the best of feedback...

Mel......way to stick up for yourself, love....It is nobody's business to judge anyone else here, but you must not think it is just because you posted another thread....Dweebs will surface no matter what is posted.....they are not happy unless they cause pain to others....(or try to)...dont let anyone get to you.....

(funny, I said pretty much the same thing to another friend here just yesterday)


Ray

 

[chrisheaven]

Glad you had fun, Isabeau.
We've spoken about this privately and I wanted to support you in public too and say that I have found you to be a delightful, trustworthy and exceptionally caring person who deserves to be allowed to have some fun without having to ask for the approval of others.
Regards, Chris

 

[StockedAndGagged]

Just throwing my hat in with the others in offering congratulations to both.

I leave for 12-15 hours and all types of craziness ensues. 🙂

Hope this is the first of many occassions Isabeau. For all ticklers on the TMF's sake 🙂

CH

 

[kis123]

good grief i had no idea sharing some happy news would turn so bitter. wendynpeter how dare you? and i thought you were nice, seems to me you are experiencing sour grapes. anyway yes i did this behind davids back and i will probably tell him soon. the thing is this, i have asked and asked david to do this lately and he always says no or mentions church. life is short i wanted to experience this and dtrell was the one to give it to me. arent i allowed some happiness also? i have lived my whole life for others including david, its my turn for once. i am not asking sympathy here. god why is it every thread i start turns out this way?

i repeat it was not sexual in the least sex was the last thing on my mind yesterday. i was just worried it wouldnt tickle enough and that dtrell would be disappointed after my saying how ticklish i was.

AND GET THIS I FELT NO GUILT AT ALL IT WAS NOT CHEATING ON MY HUSBAND.

isabeau

I'm really sorry I even mentiioned your husband at all. I was really hoping that you had made some headway with him. He's been so close-minded about your tickling passions, I actually thought he had hit some sort of milestone. I personally don't understand why your husband has such a big problem with this. He practically forced you to explore on your own. Whether or not you tell him at all is YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS and none of ours!!!

Dtrell is one of the gentlemen (gentle-man) of this forum. He's tickled several TMF ladies and NO ONE has ever complained about a bad experience with him. I'm sure everything went fine-you're here talking about having a great time!

I do see wendynpeter's point to a certain degree. I used to be the type of person that just about any little thing outside of tradition in marriage would be considered cheating. I've grown up now and know that there's nothing traditional about marriage at all! There are so many things that happen in life that aren't even considered before people get married. People grow and change consistantly-what they thought was taboo in the beginning is much more acceptable. Think about what people bring in their bedrooms nowadays? I simply cannot judge what others do in their marriages anymore. If spouses would be just a little open-minded about things and not hand down demands and edicts from the mountaintop, maybe stuff like this wouldn't happen so much.

 

[isabeau]

thanks guys and dont worry kis. not your fault at all. of course i had qualms about doing this i never ever have done anything behind davids back before. but get this. dtrell had me tied up and he could have done anything he wanted. he didnt. all he did was tickle me. i plan on telling david someday but right now he is suffering major back problems, and i dont want to make it any worse on him.

i'm wondering if another man would have been such a gentleman under the circumstances? i mean there i was tied up and helpless with someone i had just met in person.

anyway i just wanted to share my experience with you all and to show people what a great guy dtrell really is.

isabeau