Yeah, it did seem a little unimaginative. Possibly she just didn't know that there are other ways.What the mother-FUCK???
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I need to talk to a lesbian....
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LMFAO! 
Artoo, you are more imaginative than me. Pardon this lowly TMF poster. She knows not the common norms.
Artoo, you are more imaginative than me. Pardon this lowly TMF poster. She knows not the common norms.
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Agreed. There's more to sex than "insert tab A into slot B", after all.
It's a fucking Halloween costume. Good Lord!
You lezbos/homos are a serious sort.
Maybe we should take up a collection and buy you a sense of humor.
(Artoo - You are the exception, you manip is hilarious!)
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Yes, presented as the basic nature of reality which can't really be avoided.
As a costume, it's funny. As a prescription, not so much.
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I don't know what "prescription" you are currently under the influence of, but that post made absolutely no sense.
If you're now proclaiming to be an expert on humor (amongst so many other things), that's the best joke I've heard in ages.
Thanks for helping to prove my point.
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Sorry it took so long to respond, my internet is completely messed up.
Anyway, Thank you all SO MUCH for your responses! (Except those that I pissed off. I really pissed you off...sorry, that wasn't my intent.)
The biggest thing that I got from this query (other than a really bad Halloween costume idea) is that labels are unnecessary, especially when unsure of what you are labeling.
My sexuality is fluid and flowing, and doesn't need to be tied down to a specific want and need when there are so many (one being to be tied down, ironically).
I also found out that I don't need to make a decision immediately. Just experiment and see what I like.
My plan is to just "go with the flow" without labels or time limits.
I appreciate all of your help, continue to talk if you wish, this conversation is fascinating and I hope it helped others as well!
Thanks again!!!
~SophiaMarie (you know, the one with the fluid and flowing sexuality. So hot.)
Anyway, Thank you all SO MUCH for your responses! (Except those that I pissed off. I really pissed you off...sorry, that wasn't my intent.)
The biggest thing that I got from this query (other than a really bad Halloween costume idea) is that labels are unnecessary, especially when unsure of what you are labeling.
My sexuality is fluid and flowing, and doesn't need to be tied down to a specific want and need when there are so many (one being to be tied down, ironically).
I also found out that I don't need to make a decision immediately. Just experiment and see what I like.
My plan is to just "go with the flow" without labels or time limits.
I appreciate all of your help, continue to talk if you wish, this conversation is fascinating and I hope it helped others as well!
Thanks again!!!
~SophiaMarie (you know, the one with the fluid and flowing sexuality. So hot.)
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Glad we could help, hon. 
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: TMF's resident flamer here, ready to throw in his two coppers.
I always knew on some level I was gay. It wasn't anything I could put my finger on in my early years, but I knew I wasn't interested in girls the way my friends were.
My one sexual relationship with a woman sent me into compulsive vomiting after the event took place (not the most charming of stories but it happened.)
Later on, as I grew older and more self-aware of sex and sexuality, I realized that I was sexually attracted to men, not women, simple as that. I have many dear female friends that I would do anything for.....except that one little thing.
So my advice to you, like others have said, is experiment with your sexuality. Try masturbating to pictures of girls, join a LGBT group (college campuses usually have at least one) but in the end, only you can discern where your heart and passions truly lie.
Hope you find what you're looking for. Please feel free to PM me if you wish to talk or blow off steam. I'm not the best advice giver, but I make one hell of a good listening post 🙂
I always knew on some level I was gay. It wasn't anything I could put my finger on in my early years, but I knew I wasn't interested in girls the way my friends were.
My one sexual relationship with a woman sent me into compulsive vomiting after the event took place (not the most charming of stories but it happened.)
Later on, as I grew older and more self-aware of sex and sexuality, I realized that I was sexually attracted to men, not women, simple as that. I have many dear female friends that I would do anything for.....except that one little thing.
So my advice to you, like others have said, is experiment with your sexuality. Try masturbating to pictures of girls, join a LGBT group (college campuses usually have at least one) but in the end, only you can discern where your heart and passions truly lie.
Hope you find what you're looking for. Please feel free to PM me if you wish to talk or blow off steam. I'm not the best advice giver, but I make one hell of a good listening post 🙂
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Duh
We're so "serious" because people like you put us down all the time. In case you don't know, we're normally on thin ice around stereotypicals.
You aren't aware of my sense of humor because it doesn't involve harassing other people for their differences. Any joke I could make up, you probably wouldn't get because it doesn't involve tying a non-consenting female down and tickling her out of her mind.
Exactly my point - you were making an implication - and it is heterosexuality is the "basic nature of reality". I don't appreciate someone beating around the bush instead of just coming out and saying it; if you think homosexuality is abnormal, then just frigging say it.
There are a lot of homosexuals out there, and those silly pictures do not make them any more or less abnormal, by the way, so the insults aren't necessary.
We're so "serious" because people like you put us down all the time. In case you don't know, we're normally on thin ice around stereotypicals.
You aren't aware of my sense of humor because it doesn't involve harassing other people for their differences. Any joke I could make up, you probably wouldn't get because it doesn't involve tying a non-consenting female down and tickling her out of her mind.
Exactly my point - you were making an implication - and it is heterosexuality is the "basic nature of reality". I don't appreciate someone beating around the bush instead of just coming out and saying it; if you think homosexuality is abnormal, then just frigging say it.
There are a lot of homosexuals out there, and those silly pictures do not make them any more or less abnormal, by the way, so the insults aren't necessary.
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Thanks to those who see it as an honest humor. *bows* It is how you see things that make this forum a doom or happy place. Sorry. There are images worst than that in the internet. If you got offended, then the problem is not mine, but how you accept things as is.
Again, it is not intended to offend.
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Sophiamarie, enjoy your stay here at TMF, and hope you find the right answers to questions that matter to you most. This place is male-dominated. At times I wonder how I survived until now. Believe me, there are gentlemen and good ladies around here. There are best people here I come across and it makes my residency worthwhile.
Again, it is not intended to offend.
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Sophiamarie, enjoy your stay here at TMF, and hope you find the right answers to questions that matter to you most. This place is male-dominated. At times I wonder how I survived until now. Believe me, there are gentlemen and good ladies around here. There are best people here I come across and it makes my residency worthwhile.
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Presumptuous Much
I'm not offended by that image! Get that through your head! I'm offended by the implications behind it. That image doesn't faze me. What the person means behind it - does.
Jeez.
I'm not offended by that image! Get that through your head! I'm offended by the implications behind it. That image doesn't faze me. What the person means behind it - does.
Jeez.
That was really cool to read. 🙂
Enjoy your journey discovering who you are. No labels needed. 😛
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Well I'm here and...queer. 😀
Although I can't give you advice on the ladies cuz I'm a n00b when it comes to the dating field. 😛
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When I was .. younger and one of my girlfriends already had an incredible rack and I wanted nothing more then to do things to her. As I got older, I just found myself strongly attracted to other women. I'm still evolving though. I enjoy both men and women.
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REally now?
I wasn't being rude to you at all, and you know it. That is a cope out - a crutch for someone who is acting like a homophobe. Are you a homophobe? I'm not sure, but you're acting like it ... and I'm not sure why...
I don't understand your point. That's all. Maybe you have good intentions behind what you say, but your crap goes right over my head because of the WAY you state it. Do you not choose your words carefully, or do you just open the flood gates and say whatever, without taking into consideration the readers?
I've been in many forums, many times; the fact that I'm new HERE has nothing to do with your obstructive comment, nor does it mean I don't know a jerk when I see one.
I posted one thread that went awry because of narrow-minded, spiteful snots like you. As it has been said by many people - and as I agree - there are a lot of idiots on the TMF, as well as pretty decent people. Luckily, I have found some good here and bad. Thanks to you - and the rest of the amoebas here - I know how to weed out the good fetish folk from the bad fetish folk.
Good. Less of feces I have to mop up off the floor. 🙂
(By the way - you said were done with me - so if you post more crap about how you think I'm being "rude" and how you think "I'm just a stupid noob", don't think one for one second that I'm not going to hold back and not hold that over your head. I will do just that, if you keep antagonizing me.)
^ Read yourself. Is it written with tact? It is rude. I already posted a general statement not specifically for you (which you quoted) to explain what I imply for good and yet you are still disturbed for a reason I do not know.
The only thing I understand now is that you are a TMF n00b with 13.0+ posts/day in very penis-dominated fetish forum.
Out there from where I posted, I see that you can't handle even your own thread and that you have massive conflicts with other veteran members here whom I actually find humorous and cool-spirited. Do you have any other specific inner problem in you? Answer is not needed.
I'm done with you.
I wasn't being rude to you at all, and you know it. That is a cope out - a crutch for someone who is acting like a homophobe. Are you a homophobe? I'm not sure, but you're acting like it ... and I'm not sure why...
I don't understand your point. That's all. Maybe you have good intentions behind what you say, but your crap goes right over my head because of the WAY you state it. Do you not choose your words carefully, or do you just open the flood gates and say whatever, without taking into consideration the readers?
I've been in many forums, many times; the fact that I'm new HERE has nothing to do with your obstructive comment, nor does it mean I don't know a jerk when I see one.
I posted one thread that went awry because of narrow-minded, spiteful snots like you. As it has been said by many people - and as I agree - there are a lot of idiots on the TMF, as well as pretty decent people. Luckily, I have found some good here and bad. Thanks to you - and the rest of the amoebas here - I know how to weed out the good fetish folk from the bad fetish folk.
Good. Less of feces I have to mop up off the floor. 🙂
(By the way - you said were done with me - so if you post more crap about how you think I'm being "rude" and how you think "I'm just a stupid noob", don't think one for one second that I'm not going to hold back and not hold that over your head. I will do just that, if you keep antagonizing me.)
There are days...
I find Orangevibe to be refreshingly straightforward.
Genuinely inquisitive, asking or stating her point openly, no pompousness, no sneaky side barbs,
just getting directly to the point. Honest.
If I feel someone has simply misunderstood me, or vice-versa, I'll try to email the person first.
(may not always help, but that's another matter).
This much is agreed, there was no reason for unpleasantness here.
On topic -- I may not be bi or lesbian, but there are definitely days I also wish I was. 🙄
Aside from the ignorant stupidity of the average knuckle-dragging fundamentalist homophobes who'd deny everyone voting rights outside their closeknit inbred families,
I'd imagine it's nicer to be better understood by one's significant other. 🙂
I find Orangevibe to be refreshingly straightforward.
Genuinely inquisitive, asking or stating her point openly, no pompousness, no sneaky side barbs,
just getting directly to the point. Honest.
If I feel someone has simply misunderstood me, or vice-versa, I'll try to email the person first.
(may not always help, but that's another matter).
This much is agreed, there was no reason for unpleasantness here.
On topic -- I may not be bi or lesbian, but there are definitely days I also wish I was. 🙄
Aside from the ignorant stupidity of the average knuckle-dragging fundamentalist homophobes who'd deny everyone voting rights outside their closeknit inbred families,
I'd imagine it's nicer to be better understood by one's significant other. 🙂
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to OP: YAY
I'm not a lesbian, but neither am I anything else for that matter. I really don't know how much help I can be especially in light of all the awesome advice you've seen so far, but I DO like to talk alot, so here goes:
I have a difficult time truly understand gender roles, gender standards etc. Most times, I don't feel like one or the other. Yeah, sure, I have a chick's anatomy but I don't get that "I feel like a woman" sensation. I don't feel like a man trapped in a woman's body either. It's also how I view those around me. I don't find someone attractive because they are a man, or a woman... they are simply beautiful. Maybe I have a strange obsession with things and people I find uncommonly beautiful, but such obsession has no bounds or standards.
So, if it helps, beauty doesn't have a gender. Why should attraction?
I'm not a lesbian, but neither am I anything else for that matter. I really don't know how much help I can be especially in light of all the awesome advice you've seen so far, but I DO like to talk alot, so here goes:
I have a difficult time truly understand gender roles, gender standards etc. Most times, I don't feel like one or the other. Yeah, sure, I have a chick's anatomy but I don't get that "I feel like a woman" sensation. I don't feel like a man trapped in a woman's body either. It's also how I view those around me. I don't find someone attractive because they are a man, or a woman... they are simply beautiful. Maybe I have a strange obsession with things and people I find uncommonly beautiful, but such obsession has no bounds or standards.
So, if it helps, beauty doesn't have a gender. Why should attraction?
