I think I am falling for my lee friend

[Joelovestoes]

Hey Everyone, I'm obviously new lol, just joined today actually and I'm glad I did because I'm faced with a situation that I never thought would ever occur.

You see, I've been a ler for quite some time now and have had the great love of tickling for AGES. Luckily for me I have a female friend that has been in the same "tickling" boat as me for just as long as I have been the captain lol. Anyway she allows me to tickle her pretty much whenever I want and I mean it doesn't just stop there, we confide in each other about everything and we do a ton of things together as well. But as of late, I'm finding myself thinking about her in other ways. We are not sexual or anything but the more I tickle her the more I want her in that way, and I just find that my attraction level to her has skyrocketed. I don't want to say that I'm necessarily falling in love with her, but I'm finding myself catching extremely strong feelings for her so much so that it could be love for all I know.

Are there any Lers that can possibly relate? Or am I just a solo case? I really want this girl in my life in terms that I don't want her being with another guy the same way she's with me. The thought of other men tickling her does not please me at all. PLUS she's like the best lee a guy could ask for. What to do? What to do?

Thanks

Joe

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

You said that you confide in one another about everything. Now's the time to ask yourself how much you really trust her. Is it enough to confide in her about this? Perhaps she feels the same? If you hide this from her, she could be more upset about that than (if she doesn't share them) about learning of your feelings. Be honest with her...and with yourself.

 

[TKL_Rebel]

You said that you confide in one another about everything. Now's the time to ask yourself how much you really trust her. Is it enough to confide in her about this? Perhaps she feels the same? If you hide this from her, she could be more upset about that than (if she doesn't share them) about learning of your feelings. Be honest with her...and with yourself.

the advice wont get much better than this

i will say, don't let some people of this forum sway u to try and be with her just because she likes tickling, cause i know some people on here would be with someone, purely for tickling!

confide in her about this for sure... best thing to do...

EDIT: oh, and share of ur adventures with her in the true story section please 😉

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I haven't got any advice for you - but I sincerely wish you good luck 🙂

 

[WorkInProgress]

There's nothing strange about it at all. Considering the fact that you have both a close friendship and an activity that involves stimulating each other's bodies, it's to be expected that such feelings will likely arise. The only question is, does she feel the same for you? If so, then the next step will take care of itself, and if not, and if you desire the friendship and the tickling to continue undisturbed, then you'll need to communicate this to her. Whatever you do, I see no point in dragging it out, or in making it a big emotional production. If you ask her directly whether she'd be interested in trying out a romantic relationship and seeing where it goes, she should answer you directly, and thoughtfully, whether it's yes or no.

 

[gitcheycoocoo]

Sounds to me like you have a true gem and you damn sure know it. Do not know how long you have been together but sounds like long enough to know you both have a thing for tickling and you can confide...so confide. Tell her that tickling turns you on sexually. She may say what the hell took you so long...get it on!!!

 

[me4o]

I think you should tell her about your feelings. If you miss this chance, you might end up miserable. Life is all about taking chances, if you ask me. So, go ahead, what's there to lose 🙂

 

[Lord Doctor]

I say spill the beans.
P.S. If there's a smile than only you ever see from her (No, not from tickling her!) then you're possibly pretty much there already.

 

[TicklesFemales]

I say yes tell her. She may feel the same way about you. She obviosly loves to be tickled if she lets you tickle her anytime you want to. If you don't snatch her up someone else with a tickling fetish will that is for sure. Its hard to find a female ticklee that enjoys being tickled.

 

[TickVix]

There sounds like there is definite chemistry in the air with you two. If it weren't I doubt she'd let you tickling her on a regular basis 🙂. By the sound of it I'm sure she's just as interested as you are. So with that said, go and get your LEE! 🙂