I met someone through an online dating service a couple of months ago and she seems like the one forever. We've been taking things slow but we talk a lot on the phone - last night being 5 hours. *Note* I don't talk long on the phone at all. When we are on the phone, for the most part, it's at least 3 hrs at a clip. We've been on quite a few dates and except for differences on things that really don't matter too much, we're on the same course. I decided this time that I'm not going to date anyone unless they were into tickling, so I told her right from the beginning that I'm an imp and engage in tickle fights and could she handle that, to which she replied, "I have weapons" - meaning a pillow.
I have a feeling that she's not into it as much as I am, even though she thinks the expression on my face as she lightly tickles me is "so cute". Hey, as long as she's not opposed to it, that's fine with me. I finally worked in a conversation about being a leg man and my love of feeling nylon/silky things and even though she doesn't consider herself as a "girlie girl" she said she likes to wear forms of hosiery from time to time and my jaw went
. In todays stupid bare leg fashion trend, that meant a lot to me, lol.
We both decided we don't want children, we are both heavy thinkers, which can be bad for over analyzing things from time to time, but we'll at least understand each other for doing it. She gets sarcasim and dishes it out quite well. I'm an honest and open book and her as well (but a bit slower as women are generally are more cautious ) so there aren't too many things she doesn't know about me, except for me being here. Now, with that, I don't think she will ever come here because she doesn't like attention drawn to her. I might eventually tell her about me being here but that's something I'm not going to worry about right now. We've talked on subjects like living together and marriage and the whole living together thing won't be happening for a long time, so I'll probably be here for a while. There will be no photos or meets, unless she totally surprises me somehow but I doubt it. She is a tiny thing of 5' 2'', so to see me standing all of 6'4'' next to her is amusing. Overall, she's smart, funny and very youthful in attitude. I know it's still early yet but mentally, she's the best one to come along in all my dating.
So, wish me luck and cross your fingers for me... and her, the poor thing
Anyone with the whole seperation of relationship and this place and how you dealt/deal with it, feel free to opine.
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We both decided we don't want children, we are both heavy thinkers, which can be bad for over analyzing things from time to time, but we'll at least understand each other for doing it. She gets sarcasim and dishes it out quite well. I'm an honest and open book and her as well (but a bit slower as women are generally are more cautious ) so there aren't too many things she doesn't know about me, except for me being here. Now, with that, I don't think she will ever come here because she doesn't like attention drawn to her. I might eventually tell her about me being here but that's something I'm not going to worry about right now. We've talked on subjects like living together and marriage and the whole living together thing won't be happening for a long time, so I'll probably be here for a while. There will be no photos or meets, unless she totally surprises me somehow but I doubt it. She is a tiny thing of 5' 2'', so to see me standing all of 6'4'' next to her is amusing. Overall, she's smart, funny and very youthful in attitude. I know it's still early yet but mentally, she's the best one to come along in all my dating.
So, wish me luck and cross your fingers for me... and her, the poor thing

Anyone with the whole seperation of relationship and this place and how you dealt/deal with it, feel free to opine.
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