I think there's hope?

[luvn2laf]

So my boyfriend claims not to be a ticklefile. But yet, he humors me. Well, his skills are getting a better and yesterday when he was tickling me, I managed to turn so I could see his eyes. Now, normally my eyes close when being tickled hard, but something told me to open them and I saw a look of...umm... intense pleasure? It reminded me of a look I've seen in other ticklefile eyes when tickling.

Is it possible someone can really be swayed into becoming a ticklefile? I would love it if he would be interested enough to start lurking out here.

 

[Brutus]

Hey girl...long time no speak. 🙂

I definitely believe one can be swayed seeing as I've done it in the past. If he really cares about you and know hows much you enjoy it, why wouldn't he learn to love it?

TTFN

 

[luvn2laf]

Hey, Brutus! Thanks for the response!!! I sure hope so. He's really special to me.

 

[Newcastle Uni]

Could you perhaps describe what you do to get him to tickle you........

actually i would like to know how you got him (and other people) to tickle you before he knew you liked it. Perhaps i might recognise some of the 'signs' as it were.

 

[luvn2laf]

Could you perhaps describe what you do to get him to tickle you........

actually i would like to know how you got him (and other people) to tickle you before he knew you liked it. Perhaps i might recognise some of the 'signs' as it were.

Well, I met him at a Halloween dinner/dance for singles. I went dressed in a red skirt with a tickle me elmo shirt that was tight and showed a strip of my waist. Plus a wonderwoman cape, boots and wrist cuffs. I was looking for someone open to tickling. He was the only one to make a move. We were standing around chatting during the dance when he reached over toward my sides with his finger. I blocked him (foolishly and instinctively) twice, but it got my attention. He didn't try again, but he did say later as he walked me to my car that he wanted to know if Elmo was ticklish. I didn't tell him, but just said I wondered if he was.

I brought up Elmo when we first talked on the phone and stated that to answer his question, yes, Elmo was ticklish. Just to keep it in his mind, ya know?

On our first date he tried tickling my knee while we were watching a movie. He seemed disappointed when I instinctively moved away and I told him it was just an instinct - don't let it stop him. On our second date I told him about my tickling interests over dinner. I hid behind "Elmo" which has become my nickname. I'll never forget that second date. After dinner we were going bowling, but he parked at another end of the lot, adjusted my seat so I was almost laying down (still had my seatbelt on!) and proceeded to tickle me like crazy. Of course, he didn't know my hot spots yet, but over time "Elmo" has shared some secrets with him.

I dated one other guy who tried tickling me, but he wasn't any good. But that one came up when he asked what turned me on. I blushed and said that tickling did. Which wasn't true, I just wanted him to tickle me and knew he'd respond to that. Of course, he couldn't tickle worth a darn and barely got a chuckle out of me.

 

[witchtickler]

Wonderful post!!!!! DAMN now I gotta go out here and find me a tickle victim. That's the problem with me though, my girlfriend is not into tickling so I gotta come up an idea on how to move slowly into it and hope she is receptive to it.

Anyways, I really enjoyed your thread. THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!

witchtickler

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

He may not be a ticklephile to others but only to you. And yes, I know for a fact he was enjoying it other wise he wouldn't of took advantage of it, whenever the opportunity arrives.

 

[luvn2laf]

He may not be a ticklephile to others but only to you. And yes, I know for a fact he was enjoying it other wise he wouldn't of took advantage of it, whenever the opportunity arrives.

Thanks! I like the sound of that message. 🙂

BTW: I love your sig - so if my life is a gooey mess, can I freeze it to make it easier to eat?

 

[phfttklr]

Hey luvn, it sounds to me like he's into it. I can't say he is a ticklephile but at least he tried a few times, which is probably more than any other person looking for just a casual tickle. Maybe he's just too shy to open up about it still? I think in time he'll come around. I don't think he'll need too much more prodding tho. Next time he asks you a question, tell him he'll have to tickle the answer out of you. Good luck and have fun.

 

[Em Es]

Is it the tickling or is it YOU?

Maybe turning you on is what put that look on his face, Luvn2laf!

I wish my wife would at least indulge my tickler urges the way your boyfriend does your ticklee urges! Women have all the control.

Your boyfriend knows you could easily get 😎 other men to tickle you. It's a lot harder for a man to "find someone else." So make sure he tickles you good and often!

 

[Mitchell]

Luvn, that is great news that he seemed to derive pleasure from tickling you. It sounds like real progress. While he may not become a true "ticklephile" like us TMFers overnight, the fact that he seemed to be feeling pleasure or interest in the act of tickling you I think is a sign of good hope.
Iam very happy for you. I hope progress in this area continues. Good Luck! Please keep us posted of any new developments. Take care.

Mitch

 

[lk70]

I'll never forget that second date. After dinner we were going bowling, but he parked at another end of the lot, adjusted my seat so I was almost laying down (still had my seatbelt on!) and proceeded to tickle me like crazy.

mmmmmm.....NICE!

 

[john_smith]

I really hope someone can start liking tickling because my girlfriend is the most ticklish girl i have ever met yet she HATES tickling. It sucks.

 

[luvn2laf]

Thanks all! I feel better. Just need to figure out how to encourage him and give him some pointers without pushing him too far...

 

[AquaFeline]

Maybe turning you on is what put that look on his face, Luvn2laf!

I wish my wife would at least indulge my tickler urges the way your boyfriend does your ticklee urges! Women have all the control.

Your boyfriend knows you could easily get 😎 other men to tickle you. It's a lot harder for a man to "find someone else." So make sure he tickles you good and often!

I hate to be bitter but ya know, women don't always have all the control... when it gets to the bare reality of sexual activity some men will follow their instincts and no amount of guiding will get them to change their ways. Of course, that's when you dump 'im. 😉

 

[luvn2laf]

AquaFeline - I agree with you. I do not ever assume that I have the control in a relationship - tickling or otherwise. That would lead to an inbalance in the relationship in my opinion and would not be something I am comfortable with. I think a lot of men are willing to give in to a lot of whims that a woman has, but I wouldn't say that the woman has "control."

 

[switchtickler]

How to get your girlfriends to let you tickle them

It's when a woman feels like her body is being used to fulfill some man's fantasy/fetish, and her own interests are not being consulted, that she'll get really grumpy about the subject and give you a flat out 'No'.

But you can present it as a way to learn how to please her body. Everyone likes to have attention paid to them - to be the focus of your partner's attention, to have them thinking up new ways to drive you wild. . All women I know love partners who "kiss every inch of my body" "give me massages when I'm tired" "he knows all my spots and he plays them like a piantist!" Present exploratory massage/gliding touch/tickling as a way of learning her body, learning her responses, and mix it in with healthy doses of massage and foreplay. Mmmmm . . foreplay. Women love foreplay. We really really do! And men often don't give us enough. Good tickling can be excellent foreplay - but most women have never thought about it that way and may have to be introduced patiently and thoughtfully to the idea. And boys, please be patient! Yes, you've been dying to tickle her and you could go for hours. But start out very small and don't push it - give her the space to make up her own mind and learn to enjoy it. Leave her wanting more (not less).

Also compromise is sweet - you both win! Maybe there's something she'd like more of from you (hint: it's called oral sex).

 

[CaptainQuantum]

Is it possible someone can really be swayed into becoming a ticklefile? I would love it if he would be interested enough to start lurking out here.

Well keep in mind that it's not like you're trying to get him to like the taste of spinach, or become a Bette Midler fan ::shudder::

He's tickling his girlfriend. Guys who never in their lives have gotten aroused (so they would say) by tickling females still do it quite naturally, and quite often. There's obviously something they enjoy about it. And it's not a very long jump from "damn this is fun", to "damn this is hot."