I tickled my co-worker today!

[enlightened]

I work with this really GORGEOUS man in an office, and we always get along great. I admit to having a terrific crush on him. He's been playing alot of tricks on me lately, and I've been threatening to tickle him for a long time. He would just look at me and say stuff like, "Oh no you won't" and "Don't even think about it."

Well today he played a really sneaky trick on me, and ran away back to his desk laughing about it. I got up and ran after him, saying "You're going to pay for that!" Other people in the office saw the trick, and they were all laughing. Well, he sat down at his desk, still laughing, with his elbows on his desk and his head in his hands. His underarms were perfectly exposed, so I came up behind him, at first to "massage" his shoulders, which he loves. Well, I slowly moved my hands down his back, and then sneak attacked his underarms. He absolutely was NOT expecting that and jumped out of his chair, in a fit of laughter. I pulled back, and grinned at him. He looked at me, still laughing and said, "Don't you dare do that again!" Then he sat down, and I immediately did it again. I only did it for a few seconds, but it was enough to get my point across. I had no idea he was that ticklish - he literally jumped three feet out of his chair both times, and laughed uncontrollably. He looked at me again, grinning, and I just said, "I can use this!"

I would LOVE to get him alone for a couple of hours! Any suggestions on how to do that?

 

[Coffee]

Good for you. I bet he will play more tricks on you now just to get tickled more.

 

[Em Es]

Invite him to lunch

Enlightened, invite him to meet you for lunch this Saturday. If it goes well, after lunch you have the rest of the afternoon. During lunch, do the things you do to show a guy you like him. He will get the hint and, if he finds you attractive, too, will take your bait.

But if you realize the connection isn't what you hoped, pick up the check and go your separate ways. The day will still be young, so you can hook up with your friends that night!

Please let us know how it goes!

 

[enlightened]

got him again today

He started picking on me again - in fact, said something on purpose to be shocking to try to make me blush! (He succeeded!) I told him I would "sneak attack" him again if he wasn't careful. He said, "I would LOVE to see you try!" We went a little back & forth and he made mention that "it was fun last time." I accused him of trying to use reverse psychology on me, making me think he liked it so I wouldn't try it again - he just smiled and got back to work. Well, later, I had to take something over to him, so I got him AGAIN. He just grinned at me and said "Payback is coming, young lady!" Before he left for the day, he reached over and got me on the neck!

The next few days are going to be very interesting!

 

[Em Es]

It starts in grade school

As you may have learned in grade school, Enlightened, when a boy teases and picks on a girl, that means he likes her. And with your tickle attacks, how could he doubt your attraction to him?

If he has not asked you out, the reason could be one of these:

He has cold feet, especially since if he asks you for a date and you say no, he worries the whole office will know you shot him down;

He has a girlfriend; or

He worries you may be a teaser and only flirting with him to play with his head

It's Wednesday. Why not suggest meeting for lunch this Saturday? If he does not accept or come up with a good counter-offer ("I'm busy then. How about Sunday morning brunch?"), either he's seeing someone or he does not want to date you even if he enjoys the office play.

Whoever wants this to happen bad enough will bust a move.

 

[enlightened]

update

Well, he and I went at it again today, it was really wild. I brought something to his desk again, and he jumped when I just came up to his desk. He said, "Are you going to sneak attack me again?" I said, "Not unless you deserve it." Then he smiled at me and said, "Well, it WAS kind of fun." We had mock arguments all day long, one thing and another. Then he asked if I would like to work directly for him, as his personal assistant. I said, "Will it get me out of customer service?" He said "Oh yeah!" I said, "I'm there, baby!"

And by the way, we have a lunch date for Saturday. 🙂

Do I tickle on the first date? Or make him wait for a while?

 

[Em Es]

Either wait, or just a little as you part

So you invited him to Saturday lunch and he accepted, Enlightened? Good show, young lady!

If I were you, I'd try to resist tickling him when you get together. This will be your first encounter outside of work, correct? As you won't have the safe limits of the office, I think playing it safe the first time around will set a good tone. If he respects you, he won't wonder why you didn't start any tickle play.

Of course, that does not mean you should be a cold fish. Make sure you touch his arm, smile, and so on - assuming the date is going well. When you part, you can kiss him, too. And if you can't help it, then at the very end, a quick poke to his midsection will let him know you don't limit your tickle fun to the office!

Please let us know what happens on Saturday!

 

[enlightened]

The Big day

Only about 16 hours to go before our big lunch date!

I'm REALLY looking forward to this one! And just to be a brat, I'm going to wear a sleeveless blouse, and sit ACROSS the table from him. Makes it easier to play footsies under the table. I'll be wearing sandals - let's hope he is, too!

 

[Em Es]

A little teasing is always in order . . .

Enlightened, a little teasing is always in order - as long as it is a preview of what's to come, not a glimpse of what isn't going to happen! You sound like a dream come true, as your colleague is learning.

 

[enlightened]

Lunch was great!

We met at the restaurant, and of course, I asked for a booth - and made sure to sit ACROSS from him!

We had a lovely lunch. I wore sandals, so halfway through the lunch, I slipped them off my feet, and put my feet up on the seat on his side of the booth! He looked a little surprised, then slipped his shoes off and did the same thing!

Through lunch we stroked each others feet a little bit - no tickling this time. I admit I poked his midsection with my toes a time or two, until he grabbed my ankle and held on for a while.

We're meeting again tomorrow.

 

[Em Es]

The only thing I don't get . . .

Thanks for the update, Enlightened. I am sure you read my PM by now.

Publicly, the only thing I will say is: How come, except for one post by Coffee, I am the only one participating in this thread? I would think lots of TMF people following along would want to comment! You are a dream, Enlightened, a female tickler not afraid to go for it.

 

[enlightened]

brunch, lunch & dinner!

...is waiting for little old me today.

And he is probably going to get it good! 😉

 

[Em Es]

"Holy" Sunday?

So, Enlightened, yesterday did you show your gentleman friend a "holy" Sunday, as in, "Holy cow! This girl likes to tickle!"

 

[enlightened]

I got him!

We had the most amazing day! We spent the whole day together, and in the evening, we were both pretty tired. He had been a perfect gentleman, and I hadn't "attacked" him even once.


Well, we got back and he kicked his shoes off. I told him "I want to do something really sweet for you." I went into the kitchen and got a big pan, and filled it with warm water, and came back with a nice soft cloth. I then took his socks off, and very slowly washed his feet for him. Then I gave him a nice foot massage. He leaned back and looked like he was in heaven! Then I kept putting his feet back into the warm water as I massaged his feet. I started on the top of his feet, then worked my way around to the soles of his feet, the toes, the arches. Then I lightly began tickling his feet now and then. He jerked the first time, but he didn't pull his feet away. So I kept up the slow torture, the long strokes, the soothing massage.

Then I started to lick his feet, very slowly, long licks on the balls of his feet, then lightly sucking on his toes. He's extremely ticklish there, but he wasn't sure whether to laugh or moan! I kept up with this torture until the water got cold, then I just massaged his feet and legs for him. Then I took a soft towel and very gently dried his feet, paying particular attention to the very sensitive areas between the toes. He was going crazy by this time - he actually was begging me to tickle him some more!

THen I got him to lay on his stomach, and gave him a nice back massage. When he was nice and relaxed, I gently started tickling him on his sides and under his arms. He jerked and laughed, but he didn't fight back - he actually enjoyed the entire episode. This went on for a long time. We both finally fell asleep, and barely made it to work on time this morning!

We'll be seeing a LOT MORE of each other!!! 😉 😉 😉

 

[Em Es]

So far, so good!

Did he remove his shirt for the back massage, Enlightened?

As you tickled him, did he try to tickle you? Would you like that if he did?

Thanks for the update! Please keep the info coming.

 

[toymasters]

Alright.

So you suck his toes, wow. So what did he think of that.

 

[enlightened]

Did he remove his shirt for the back massage, Enlightened?

As you tickled him, did he try to tickle you? Would you like that if he did?

Thanks for the update! Please keep the info coming.

No he didn't remove his shirt - it was fun just the way it was. And no, he didn't try to tickle me - at least, not yet. 😉

Today at work, though I got a LOVELY back and shoulder massage on our lunch hour.

I told him he desperately needs a pedicure - and that's what we're going to do this weekend! 😉 Hmmm... we can have a lot of fun with that. Nail file, soft brush, etc etc

 

[enlightened]

whaddayathink?

So you suck his toes, wow. So what did he think of that.

He was in agonizing ecstasy! 😉

 

[Em Es]

Who is going to give him the pedicure?

Enlightened, are you going to give the pedicure to your boyfriend? I am sure you will do an extra-ticklish scrub of the soles of his poor feet! And who knows how many times your fingertips will accidentally tickle those feet as you doll them up!

If you are going to take him to a nail place, maybe tip the pedicurist in advance to make it a ticklish one!

I can't wait until he starts tickling you, by the way! Where are you ticklish?

 

[enlightened]

Enlightened, are you going to give the pedicure to your boyfriend? I am sure you will do an extra-ticklish scrub of the soles of his poor feet! And who knows how many times your fingertips will accidentally tickle those feet as you doll them up!

If you are going to take him to a nail place, maybe tip the pedicurist in advance to make it a ticklish one!

I can't wait until he starts tickling you, by the way! Where are you ticklish?

not gonna waste the money on a nail place! NOBODY gonna tickle his feet but me!

my ticklish place is a secret. He'll have to figure that out for himself.

 

[Em Es]

Short statements say a lot

Enlightened, your remarks, "not gonna waste the money on a nail place! NOBODY gonna tickle his feet but me" and, "my ticklish place is a secret. He'll have to figure that out for himself" say a lot about you. While assertive enough to go for what you want ("NOBODY gonna tickle his feet but me"), you nonetheless reserve a little mystery ("He'll have to figure that out for himself") for him to unravel.

What a charming blend of boldness and enigma. He would be a fool to pass that up!

 

[paracarl44]

Just Started to Read This Thread.

It sounds like that you have a nice relationship building out there in AZ.
Can"t wait until he gets his revenge and finds your Secret Tickle Spot.

 

[enlightened]

we....

Enlightened, your remarks, "not gonna waste the money on a nail place! NOBODY gonna tickle his feet but me" and, "my ticklish place is a secret. He'll have to figure that out for himself" say a lot about you. While assertive enough to go for what you want ("NOBODY gonna tickle his feet but me"), you nonetheless reserve a little mystery ("He'll have to figure that out for himself") for him to unravel.

What a charming blend of boldness and enigma. He would be a fool to pass that up!

...are meeting again tomorrow!

He said he's going to wear a silk shirt for me! 😉

AND I get to give him his pedicure. Hmmm... Got LOTS of ideas there!!!

He is SOOOOOO going to get it!! 😉 😉 😉

 

[enlightened]

He got me!!

And oooooohhhhh, it was GREAT!!!!

 

[Em Es]

Don't stop there. Please!?

Enlightened, don't leave me hanging! How did he get you, and why was it great?!