I want more real life friends from here.

[kucheeku]

Adding that this just happened, and went awesome. Got a brand new TMF friend.

Very cool. That's how it's done. 🙂

 

[kcantankerous]

Hello All,

I know my profile is woefully spartan.

About me:

I love to write. On my FB I write about my experiences - try to do it in an entertaining fashion. I deal with depression and suicidal tendencies so I right about that too. I love world history, specifically around WWII. I am a huge football fan. My best attribute is cultivating solid friendships. My vices are legion. I love music from classical, to 80s, to alternative. I enjoy anime, war movies, and business movies. At parties I tend to hang back and observe. I am more interested in what goes on outside of the U.S. than inside news wise.

I tend to be optimistic about others, and pessimistic against myself. I admittedly am way too hard on myself. I love learning about people. I am unusually interested in learning how happy couples meet. I love business news if all kinds. As for fetish: I love feet and tickling, as do most of us here.

I tend to put women on pedestals, and I love to debate. I even take a side I do not agree with for that purpose. I am not a a troll though. Hope this random info is helpful.

Thanks,

K

 

[tickletherapist]

Just remembered that the best movie about friendship in my opinion is The Cable Guy with Jim Carrey 🙂

 

[ISUmark]

I know one person in real life from here because we met here and used to date. I'm open to having RL friends on here for sure. Yea there are creepy people but theres also a lot of awesome people as well. I dunno though its kind of tough here unless you've gone to gatherings or are fairly active. Sometimes you try to be friends with someone randomly but then its all weird because its out of the blue. I'd say the difficulty of meetings new friends for me IRL is my crazy work schedule mixed with the fact that all I want to do when I'm not at work is hang out at my apartment and smoke.

 

[kucheeku]

I know one person in real life from here because we met here and used to date. I'm open to having RL friends on here for sure. Yea there are creepy people but theres also a lot of awesome people as well. I dunno though its kind of tough here unless you've gone to gatherings or are fairly active. Sometimes you try to be friends with someone randomly but then its all weird because its out of the blue. I'd say the difficulty of meetings new friends for me IRL is my crazy work schedule mixed with the fact that all I want to do when I'm not at work is hang out at my apartment and smoke.

Well, you and I seem to have a few common interests via your profile. Contact me sometime if you'd like to chat.

 

[Park CollegeO]

There are definitely some pretty cool people here. Then you have the hidden gems and if you're lucky enough to get to know one, kudos!

 

[kcantankerous]

I think your threads are pretty cool. Usually gets people talking and a lot of times some good advice gets handed out, but I would not say you sound emotionally needy. I don't see anything wrong with what you post. Keep doing you. Trying to make friends being anyone else just sounds crazy lol

Fun attracts, but "real" makes friendships

Hello Chicago,

Thank you for your kind words, and encouragement. I actually have horrible self esteem, especially around women. Therefore, I truly appreciate compliments from ladies like yourself. I enjoy your comments and posts throughout this forum as well.

Thanks,

K

 

[kcantankerous]

I figured you would.



Yeah, me too. And so then you know quite well that such friendships are organic, not self conscious. Sometimes you pick friends, but mostly they evolve over time.

I never suggested you not "be real", lol. Or to stop posting your threads. Like the one about the escorts which pretty quickly ended up with people making stereotype dick jokes, I mean....you really want to be friends with these people, anyways? lol

I meant accentuate your lighter side. Another one of your threads you're talking about how your suicide is imminent, I mean.....that makes one nervous, geez, what if I say the wrong thing.........

I know I wrote you once in friendship! i'll do it again now! I'll bet I end up your closest friend here, watch......lol

Hello Internet,

My candor about the escorts and my suicidal tendencies that I have expressed here are ones that I also express on FB without filter to those connected to me. I would say that some of this is due to my self destructive tendencies - the degree of openness. The intriguing thing is how much support I have received as a result of my openness. I lost some folks along the way as well, that is unfortunate. However, I am probably viewed as the most authentic person anyone else connected to me knows.

I don't just talk about my self hatred and such, my interest run the gamut. The biggest compliment I receive is my writing style. I don't get as detailed on the forum as I do on FB. I am also pretty candid offline as well. I have gotten kudos from various people in my life - some of which that I thought felt negative towards me. Everyone knows someone touched by depression and various mental illnesses. I have come to grips with those just being a part of me, much like our paraphilia/fetishes are a part of us.

I know in one thread, I replied to a comment with a basic fuckem - referring to people you are afraid my judge you. I am slowly taking that tact in my personal life. I don't mean that I will go around dumping my fetish on everyone I meet or flood my social media with it. However, I no longer wish to hide that aspect of myself with the same vigor as I once did.

Just like Shrek, I am a layered stinky onion. I am an optimist when it comes to my friends. A pessimist about my own prospects.

Thanks,

K