I want to tickle my girl cousin is that weird?

[Helena]

Hello!

I have a very vivid imagination. and I've had TONS of whacked out thoughts.
Thinking about doing anything as a fantasy hurts no one. Instead of keeping your thoughts to yourself, you just wrote them down. That's brave. Most of my weirdest daydreams I would not post for feedback.

You tickled each other when you were children. There is nothing wrong with what has already taken place.

The problem is that you are an adult now, and have developed tickling as a fetish. I think it's fine to fantasize about tickling her. I would say you shouldn't actually do it in real life. It's just my opinion..... 🙂

 

[WorkInProgress]

In my view, what's at stake is not whether people here think you're weird, or whether you'll have a genetically sick child (I don't get the impression you're planning to have a child together), but rather, whether she will think you're weird. If you give her foot or her belly a little tickle once, she won't think anything. She'll laugh and tickle you back. But the trouble is, given that you're "one of us," you're not going to want to stop at that. You're going to want to do it again, and then again, and then a little longer, and there will come a point when she'll ask you point blank, "What are you doing? How come you always want to tickle me?" That's where it could get a little awkward.

My suggestion would be to think of her as your sister, and not do anything with your cousin that you would not do with your sister. And again, it's not so that Maniac Tickler and Rhiannon won't think you're weird, but rather, so that your cousin won't think you're weird.

 

[proud2tickle]

wow that is good words of wisdom workinprogress... he is right everything is about control if u can control your urges then your fine. i think its about prospective.... like if you have a tickling fetish and u tickle your kid or someone that isnt sexual to u i mean its ok. the problem and the reason why the forum is set up like this is because most people do here take tickling sexual.... for me its only sexual when a beautiful girl is involved i mean i have tickled close family members guys even but that wasnt sexual like i said its all about urges control and how u feel

 

[milagros317]

I am weird for wanting to tickler her?

No, you're not weird, as long as it's friendly (as opposed to sexual) tickling. 😀

 

[kis123]

I think you need to expand your circle of attractive women. When people don't, drawing the line between family(such as cousins) and available women gets tougher. I think this is the case here. I'm 100% certain that if you could tickle another cute girl that wasn't your cousin you'd go for her instead.

Get out there and meet new women and leave your cousin alone. Nothing good can come from this path. I know there are some platonic ticklers/lees out there.....but even among vanilla couples...tickling amongst two attractive people can lead to other places...if that doesn't happen at least one person wants it to lead other places. No bueno!

weird? No. You're 19. Good...No.

GQ

When I first read this reply, I admit my first response was "here we go again....". But after giving it some thought, I believe this is a good response.

I'm not trying to beat you up about your cousin; she was probably some of your first tickling experiences as a child. I was first introduced to tickling by a sister; it was a relaxing way of stress relief from my less than stellar childhood. But we got to a certain age (13) and she started playing with the boys while I had my own growing and experiences to learn on my own.

I'm not trying to embarrass you in any way Imlatino, but didn't you recently post a thread about relationship problems? It's easy to want to revert to what seemed much easier in the past (i.e. tickling your cousin who must have been into it to some degree or you wouldn't be considering it now). But I don't think it's such a great idea to tickle your cousin when you should be looking for a lady friend to tickle the way you really want to. In other words, tickling your cousin limits your experience while finding a lady friend to indulge in will expand your horizons and you don't have to limit yourself to a family member.

It's okay to play with your cousin for a little fun and a few pokes, but will that really satisfy you in the long run?? I think you already know the answer to that.

And at age 19, almost everyone's "psycho", both guys and gals so be patient and that lady who'd love to indulge your fetish and whatever else you can think of will come along.

 

[Imlatino]

I am not talking about sex or marriage either btw. Just a friendly thing. No tying up or anything. Its just been in my mind its not like I will go out and do it you know.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Dude, when it comes to your cousin, don't ask. Just tickle. 😉

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

When we were little we tickled each other all the time, she always won the tickle fights because I was the most ticklish. She could always take the tickling somehow.

We are at least 19 so I am not talking about tickling a little girl.

We are starting to hang out a lot more but I never get to hang around her house, let alone her room.

I am weird for wanting to tickler her?

I think the fact you are asking this question already means you know the answer whether you want to admit it or not .

 

[flfootmod]

i have a cousin thats a few older than me... when I was probably around 9 or so I spent the summer with my aunt & uncle and her... back then it was all innocent fun... i have to say those days solidified my love for being tickled... she was older than me and also bigger and stronger... but I was infatuated with her feet and soles and would try desperately to tickle her feet... but everytime I would start to get her good she would turn the tables and tickle me in return on my feet... I had no chance to stop her and she would get me good too!!

 

[Imlatino]

So today I tickled my girl cousin on her feet! It was soooo awesome! I think she knows I have a foot fetish and so does she because she kept putting her feet where I could see them.

We were in the jacuzzi and she put her feet up in the water so I could see them, then we hung out by the stairs of the jacuzzi and she kept putting her feet like near my hands and face.

So next time she put her feet by my face I went ahead and grabbed her nice feet and gave them a nice little tickle!

She said ahhh and put her feet back, it was a very playful moment, and tomorrow we might end up in the jacuzzi again!

 

[primetime]

Honestly, as long as it isn't sexual, you're cool tickling her. If it is sexual, well... to each their own I guess.

Can WE tickle her too? lol

 

[Imlatino]

haha yea well did not get to tickle her the second time but who knows.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I don't think it's weird at all! I have cousins I'd love to do that to!

 

[WorkInProgress]

haha yea well did not get to tickle her the second time but who knows.

Congratulations on the first time.

A word to the wise: What will freak her out is if she comes to suspect that you actually spend periods of time thinking about whether you'll tickle her. This is where the better part of valor is discretion. (Amazing, how some of the most enduring nuggets of wisdom come from the lines of Shakespeare's oafs. That one is from Falstaff.)

 

[Imlatino]

Sure I will keep tickling to a minimum, I will not tickle her every time I see her. Man I will have like the next 5 months to hang out with her (at least) because we are going to be riding together and possibly hanging out at college =D

 

[GQguy]

Sure I will keep tickling to a minimum, I will not tickle her every time I see her. Man I will have like the next 5 months to hang out with her (at least) because we are going to be riding together and possibly hanging out at college =D

Dude...focus on meeting new chics. Would you tickle your male cousin? Would you be giddy about chillin with a male cousin for the next 5 months? No. Because you're not gay right? But that shouldn't matter because your tickling your female cousin is platonic right? So if you were in fact an equal opportunity tickler you would tickle your male cousin too. That i'm assuming is not the case.

You sound like you have a crush on your female cousin bro. This will not end well. Ask her to introduce you to her friends at college and tickle them.

GQ

 

[Vidian Vixen]

I would go with how you and your cousin feel about it..do you feel weird wanting to do it? or is she weirded out that you want to do it? 🙂 if everything is ok, then go for it..as long as it isnt taken to another level..Just an opinion 🙂

 

[Phineas]

or is she weirded out that you want to do it?

Something tells me the answer to this question would vary depending on whether or not she knew that he was posting about wanting to tickle her on a forum devoted to sexual fetishes.

But, I'm not willing to rehash that old saw again...

 

[Adam]

Whenever family is in the equation, I don't tickle. For some, tickling is not a sexual thing so tickling family members is just a form of horseplay. But if it does make you hot and bothered, best not go down that road. Of course, I'm just relating how I would personally feel doing this myself.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Since my mother and 2 of my sisters know that I'm into tickling, go to and host events related to tickling, and married a guy who is also into tickling... I don't tickle anyone in my family. It would just be hard to explain that it is only sexual to me when that is the intent.

Weird that you want to tickle a family member? No I want to tickle a lot of people. BUT I worry about the time spent trying to get chances to tickle her. (Thinking of ways... Spending time plotting the future etc.)

Like GQ said, get some female friends/ girl friend to tickle. Just my opinion since you asked. You are welcomed to tickle whomever is cool with it. Even if it is a cousin.

 

[Usually`Bubble]

My older male cousin tickles me all the time and has been my whole life. He has no idea about my interest in tickling so it's not sexual with him at all and I know he does it just to irritate me in front of everyone... Which it does immensely. All in fun though.

 

[fonzieluck]

ok so personally, I'm 23 and I have a cousin who is about 37. when I was younger and first introduced to the tickling fetish, I have thought about being tickled by her and tickling her as well. On many occasions I thought about asking her to get involved with it. however, the older I got, the more sexual tickling became to me and I can no longer think of doing it. what i say is, if it is PURELY only about tickling, then I say go for it and ask. The worst thing that she could say is no. But I would always be afraid just in case any sexual feelings should arise, it would be very wrong as well as very uncomfortable.

Tickling is a great connection between two people because basically the tickler has control over your thoughts, actions, and body. If your cousin likes that, then go for it.