Ideal victim attitude towards tickling

[ThePits]

I'm a #4 style lee

 

[yinzer]

If I'm being honest, there's something really hot about seeing a 1 being tickled, and a 2 is ok in that scenario too. If I'm doing the tickling, 3 is preferred.

 

[D-Tickler]

For me, it's definitely 3 and/or 4, because I want to bring a joyful & delighted atmosphere to the lee 🙂

 

[Miss_Gigglish]

For me, it's definitely 3 and/or 4, because I want to bring a joyful & delighted atmosphere to the lee 🙂

I like this approach of yours. Surely you make a lot of women laugh in your area?

 

[--Sentinel--]

3 and 4. Never 1.

 

[tickle_prince]

for me, it has to be 3 and 4

tickling can still be playfully intense and torturous without having it be dark scenario , depending on the person your tickling and how you tickle that person most ticklish points, but I always prefer this more playful side

 

[D-Tickler]

I like this approach of yours. Surely you make a lot of women laugh in your area?

Thank you for your appreciation! I could be a delighted or at least respectful tickler for many women in the ideally framed situations.
However, in reality, I've never had many chances to properly tickle women, which has made me become a depressed tickler.

To know the reason(s), please carefully read this post of mine:

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Thread 'New M Ler in EU. I wanna explain what has made me become a depressed tickler.'

Oct 22, 2025

Here is my extended content of that post: https://www.ticklingforum.com/threads/new-here-a-depressed-male-tickler-in-europe.460918/
As I briefly described in that post. I just decided to make an account for this site after a moderate period of hesitation.
I currently live in an European country, but originally come from somewhere in Asia. Notably, I've gotten obviously more authentic self identity based on the socio-culture of where I currently live than that of my homeland.

My username 'D-Tickler' basically indicate that I'm currently a depressed tickler. My tickling experience has...

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[ticklingj]

I definitely prefer 3 or 4. If she hates it, it's not fun for either of us. I personally love a bit of defiance. When I was discussing safewords with one tickle partner, she looked at me quizzically and goes "I don't need that shit". I'd threaten another girlfriend with tickling when she got fresh and she'd say "don't threaten me with a good time".

 

[Phantom_839]

I'd say I'm a 3.5???? Seriously, where is the option for "loves it, but doesn't have the courage to openly ask for it"?

My ultimate fantasy is having the person I yearn for ambush me with a playful tickle attack. That way, I can enjoy being tickled with having to ask for it.