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Ignore list grows longer

Wolf said:
It's important for people to share their pain.
That's the only way the healing can begin.
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Like group therapy. I think it's very helpful. Maybe we should all have a group tickle and that would be oh so helpful too? Which reminds me, I did see something on TV once about tickling being a form of therapy, supposed to make you happy or something...so if all these people here are so much into tickling, why all the hostility that makes them have to be in the ignore lists? I can't imagine these people being into tickling. Sounds more like...I don't know....what do you call those people that wear black shiny leather and carry whips and all that stuff???????? :dancingmonster:
 
I should also add that, the person I last mentioned, not the one who ignored me because of my jelly bean litany but the last one I mentioned, well it says on their profile it's a female, and I find this very hard to believe...I never really encounter this kind of talk, or attitude, from females, just males. Which leads me to believe it's a fake profile, but then I could be wrong. If I'm wrong then this is a very rare case. It definitely sounds like a male who has a rather severe problem and needs to knock people in chat rooms, very much like a troll. the avatar which is used is definitely not feminine.
 
The gender on the profile may have been changed at the time I was talking to this person, because they knew I was about to look at their profile. But it's best I don't go into further details, hopefully I didn't expose too much already. But my point being; yes, now I'm getting a glimpse of how bad things can get and why this "ignoring" thing may be necessary. I just had another encounter with this person now. It was very brief, but it was enough for me to know.
 
Rickytickly said:
The gender on the profile may have been changed at the time I was talking to this person, because they knew I was about to look at their profile. But it's best I don't go into further details, hopefully I didn't expose too much already. But my point being; yes, now I'm getting a glimpse of how bad things can get and why this "ignoring" thing may be necessary. I just had another encounter with this person now. It was very brief, but it was enough for me to know.
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Are you by any chance referring to me?
 
GirlMeetsTickle said:
Are you by any chance referring to me?
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No. I know you from chat but I definitely never had any problems with you. This person is new to me, and I'm still trying to find out if it's all just a big joke, and I won't ignore him/her, not yet anyway.
 
Rickytickly said:
No. I know you from chat but I definitely never had any problems with you. This person is new to me, and I'm still trying to find out if it's all just a big joke, and I won't ignore him/her, not yet anyway.
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Ok, just checking. You wouldn't be the first to think I'm a 'fake'...it's rare but it's happened. Ironically enough, by someone who had fake written all over THEM. LOL
 
GirlMeetsTickle said:
Ok, just checking. You wouldn't be the first to think I'm a 'fake'...it's rare but it's happened. Ironically enough, by someone who had fake written all over THEM. LOL
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Well I was just told by a friend that there are a lot of fake profiles here, which doesn't surprise me, and it also worries me because a couple people came in PM'ing me in chat claiming to be female who I friended, and I can't really say they are for sure...it wouldn't bother me so much except for the fact I have pics of myself in my private album they can steal....but three of my female friends I know are real. I may just remove the other two because they PM me then disappear, then I message them and they don't answer. Better not to take chances if they're not even gonna communicate.
 
I'm looking at these friends I just made, their activity on the site, and THEIR friends, etc., and I think yeah, they're probably OK. I guess I get paranoid about having pics of myself on my profile, but at least it's set so only my friends can see them. To me it's important that my friends know what I look like. But yeah, I'll be careful who I friend. I'm not saying there's a reason anyone would want to steal my pics, but there's all kinds of crazy things people do, like they will use your pics to make a fake Facebook page, and that's just ONE example. I think my pics have already gotten out on the net anyway, from when I was on Facebook in the past and I'd yet to learn about the settings there.
 
Rickytickly said:
I'm looking at these friends I just made, their activity on the site, and THEIR friends, etc., and I think yeah, they're probably OK. I guess I get paranoid about having pics of myself on my profile, but at least it's set so only my friends can see them. To me it's important that my friends know what I look like. But yeah, I'll be careful who I friend. I'm not saying there's a reason anyone would want to steal my pics, but there's all kinds of crazy things people do, like they will use your pics to make a fake Facebook page, and that's just ONE example. I think my pics have already gotten out on the net anyway, from when I was on Facebook in the past and I'd yet to learn about the settings there.
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Yeah, I feel ya. When I first made my profile, I accepted friend requests from 'girls' that probably are fakes. Meh. Kinda the risk I'm willing to take to talk with actual women. Haven't bothered to sort through them, yet. Maybe never will. Then again, I don't have pictures of myself up. My rule of thumb is giving folks the benefit of the doubt. Doesn't mean I'm not in my right to suspect. Especially 'girls' that PM me the second I enter chat, are overbearing, ask to sniff my feet, and use like over-the-top porn slut talk, because that's like their only reference into how girls talk to eachother *rolls eyes*For disturbing as it is...chances are very high (almost certain) that I've rp'ed with dudes posing as girls. And I'm sure they busted a biiiig fat load over it. Good job, dudes! You virtually castrate yourself in order to talk with girls. The FUNNY thing is to think of the times when 2 dudes rp and each is under the impression that they're chatting with a girl. It happens, guys! Don't forget it.

What actually has bothered me is when someone accused me in chat and began referring to me as 'it'. THAT is not ok. It's fine to suspect, and try to get the truth respectfully. Like ASK 'Is GirlMeetsTickle' a fake?" I'm fine with people asking. I ask, too. It's when the accusations that they 'know' I'm fake start flying. That's bull... because they COULDNT know something that's false.
 
GirlMeetsTickle said:
Yeah, I feel ya. When I first made my profile, I accepted friend requests from 'girls' that probably are fakes. Meh. Kinda the risk I'm willing to take to talk with actual women. Haven't bothered to sort through them, yet. Maybe never will. Then again, I don't have pictures of myself up. My rule of thumb is giving folks the benefit of the doubt. Doesn't mean I'm not in my right to suspect. Especially 'girls' that PM me the second I enter chat, are overbearing, ask to sniff my feet, and use like over-the-top porn slut talk, because that's like their only reference into how girls talk to eachother *rolls eyes*For disturbing as it is...chances are very high (almost certain) that I've rp'ed with dudes posing as girls. And I'm sure they busted a biiiig fat load over it. Good job, dudes! You virtually castrate yourself in order to talk with girls. The FUNNY thing is to think of the times when 2 dudes rp and each is under the impression that they're chatting with a girl. It happens, guys! Don't forget it.

What actually has bothered me is when someone accused me in chat and began referring to me as 'it'. THAT is not ok. It's fine to suspect, and try to get the truth respectfully. Like ASK 'Is GirlMeetsTickle' a fake?" I'm fine with people asking. I ask, too. It's when the accusations that they 'know' I'm fake start flying. That's bull... because they COULDNT know something that's false.
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I get the same PM's from guys a lot, so I understand. There were very few that I got claiming to be girls, and of those, they didn't come on with that usual kind of talk, and I checked them out, well sort of, and thought they were ok to friend. One of them actually DID come on to me with arousing sexual talk, and I friended her, then later unfriended her after I got suspicious. But then a friend of mine told me, no, I know her, and she is definitely a she, so the whole thing is messed up, to be honest. I don't think there's always a 100% sure way to know, it's just a matter of using your gut feeling. At this point I just figure my desire is worth any kind of risks I might have to take. If I make a mistake, well, what the hell, I can't see that there's anything I'm actually going to lose. Let them take my pics, whatever. Peoples' pics are all over the net as it is, and they don't have my name on them at least. But yeah, I'm definitely going to be careful about who I let in, now that I know what this place is like. And it's not just this site either, but the net in general.
 
Oh and one more thing (and there's always "one more thing") and that is, just because it's a female it doesn't always mean she's OK, that I learned. Usually that's the case, but there ARE a few exceptions, and I learned this from personal experience, not here, but other places on the net.

I could go into all the sordid details but, I'll spare everyone. But just remember, EVERYONE is a potential nutcase. Hey, look at ME!!!! <{^v^}>
 
Rickytickly said:
Oh and one more thing (and there's always "one more thing") and that is, just because it's a female it doesn't always mean she's OK, that I learned. Usually that's the case, but there ARE a few exceptions, and I learned this from personal experience, not here, but other places on the net.

I could go into all the sordid details but, I'll spare everyone. But just remember, EVERYONE is a potential nutcase. Hey, look at ME!!!! <{^v^}>
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Oh, for sure! I wasn't implying that. However, while I don't doubt it's the case that I've spoken to "non-OK" actual women...there's really no way for me to *know* they're legit anyway. For me, I pretty much trust when people will vouch for them and say "yeah, they're legit. we've spoken" or "we've met at NEST", etc, and don't see people claiming otherwise. At that point, even if someone "Is really a girl"...doesn't mean I click with her. She can still rub me the wrong way. But yeah, it's not like I'm only averse to guys who lie abt their gender.
 
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GirlMeetsTickle said:
Oh, for sure! I wasn't implying that. However, while I don't doubt it's the case that I've spoken to "non-OK" actual women...there's really no way for me to *know* they're legit anyway. For me, I pretty much trust when people will vouch for them and say "yeah, they're legit. we've spoken" or "we've met at NEST", etc, and don't see people claiming otherwise. At that point, even if someone "Is really a girl"...doesn't mean I click with her. She can still rub me the wrong way. But yeah, it's not like I'm only averse to guys who lie abt their gender.
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I was the one who was implying it, not you, GMT. But I had two very traumatic experiences with girls from other sites, which is how I know, and I KNOW they were girls because I saw them both on Skype. I've since learned that both were cases where, they pretty much zeroed in on my loneliness issues so played on that, and it worked. I forget what you call those kind of people but it's probably the same kind of thing that men do a lot. So they got power out of playing games with me, and I found that I wasn't the only one online they were doing it to. And there are many like this on the net, and I'm sure in real life too, but of course the net is their playground since it's the ideal place to trick and deceive people.

I may still be desperate and lonely but at least I'm a lot smarter now. 😉 So it wasn't even about lying about gender; they were open about that from the start. But yeah, there was a lot of lying involved, etc.
 
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Rickytickly said:
Not a lot. I think the conversation turned from the ignore list here in TMF to the catfishing, etc. on the net in general but it's still all the same thing.
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Fear is good. After all. That keeps the forums full. Lol.
 
duderino84 said:
Fear is good. After all. That keeps the forums full. Lol.
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It may be for some, in fact it MUST be if they're causing it. But personally, I'd sooner avoid whatever will cause me that fear, and I'm learning more and more all the time what I need to do to stay safe...of course you can never be TOTALLY safe, but then this is the risk I'm willing to take to be here.
 
Rickytickly said:
It may be for some, in fact it MUST be if they're causing it. But personally, I'd sooner avoid whatever will cause me that fear, and I'm learning more and more all the time what I need to do to stay safe...of course you can never be TOTALLY safe, but then this is the risk I'm willing to take to be here.
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Well yes, generally it's important to try to stay positive, but I just tend to notice on forums throughout the net people tend to post about matters they find concerning, across a spectrum of interests. And if a thread follows an ambiguous nature like Philgill managed to give an example of, it gravitates from an ignore list to a list of things people should work on ignoring.

There are exemptions from my general statement tho. ...like reddit!
 
duderino84 said:
Well yes, generally it's important to try to stay positive, but I just tend to notice on forums throughout the net people tend to post about matters they find concerning, across a spectrum of interests. And if a thread follows an ambiguous nature like Philgill managed to give an example of, it gravitates from an ignore list to a list of things people should work on ignoring.

There are exemptions from my general statement tho. ...like reddit!
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Yeah I agree it's a good topic for a thread. But personally I have trouble dealing with the hazards of socializing on the net, compared to most it seems, which is why I've posted so much about this, so yeah you definitely have a point! And I've heard of Reddit but I've never been there...I just left Facebook in June, partly because it became useless to talk to people I couldn't meet in person, and, again, because of abuse I encountered there, which I never encounter in real life. But TMF I'm willing to put up with because at least my interest in tickling is strong enough to overcome any negativity that may come along.
 
...and not that I expect to meet anyone in real life from being on TMF either; it's possible but I don't expect it, no. But at least it's a hell of a lot more fun being here than on Farcebook, or any of the other social sites I've been on! 😉
 
Rickytickly said:
Yeah I agree it's a good topic for a thread. But personally I have trouble dealing with the hazards of socializing on the net, compared to most it seems, which is why I've posted so much about this, so yeah you definitely have a point! And I've heard of Reddit but I've never been there...I just left Facebook in June, partly because it became useless to talk to people I couldn't meet in person, and, again, because of abuse I encountered there, which I never encounter in real life. But TMF I'm willing to put up with because at least my interest in tickling is strong enough to overcome any negativity that may come along.
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Facebook is becoming more intrusive of it's members, really (like I leave my GPS on my phone and facebook asks me if I've visited xyz location later on? WTF?). At one angle it's a closed door policy; on another it's an opinion fest where people find something to debate eachother at length about. I just hold my tongue there.

Reddit it's kind of what people mean when they talk about "shit-posting". It's a hub for multiples of specific topics to find their niche. Even tickling. And it's kind of a step up from Tumblr which just emphasizes posting. I joined because in 2012/2013 I was going to school for IT education and shortly after found that field experience comes very sparingly to people in the real world, so reading about various topics (a lot of people post stories or IT-related memes) convinced me to create my own learning plan. It both is and isn't an opportunity to communicate/learn.

My advice, throw everything you can at the proverbial wall and only pay attention to what sticks.
 
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