Important question for all of you lers. Please help!

[XIII legion]

Hello,

I actually have a little question for all those people whom consider themselves basically as lers. Since some time my gf and I find much pleasure in me being tickled by her. She has grown out to a very good ler I have to admit. She surprised me every time by her tickling styles. She never concentrates long on one particular spot , but changes at unexpected moments. Just great being her lee I'd say.

But we actually would like to change roles one day. There's one small problem : she is hardly ticklish, except her armpits. And sometimes her feet are a bit ticklish too, but strangely enough that is only the case when her feet are feeling (somewhat) cold. If not I can tickle under her soles or inbetween her toes all I want : no reaction.

So, I'd like to ask everyone actually: how would I try to "make" her more ticklish. She really doesn't flinch when being tickled in the sides, stomach or legs. We both know about her armpits, but she also wants to be tickled on different spots though. But as said : she is - or so it seems - barely ticklish.

Can anyone give me suggestions on how to tickle "good". Or telling me about rather un-common spots to tickle?

I'd be very pleased to read all of your advice. Yes, mostly I'm her lee, but we'd like to change roles very now and then.

Thank you and I look forward to see tons of "advice".

 

[tklr1993]

Part of it is the psychology of it, some people aren't prone to surprises, being scared or unexpected feelings ie; someone not scared at all in a Haunted House. First suggestion is to use a blindfold and keep moving so she never knows what's coming next. Use tools, preferably silent ones, and maybe throw some teasing in there. Could work! I wish you luck.

 

[XIII legion]

Thanks for your kind answer. We have had lots of good times with me being her "willingly" lee. She turned out to be quite a merciless tickler. Using every benefits of multiple ticklish spots of mine, while combining the element of surprise. Also the use of a blindfold. I tried this on her too yet, but still... she's not really reacting to it, except for her armpits.

She even like to tease me by saying things such as : "have you started yet sweetie, I don't feel anything". This makes me grumble anytime (but in a friendly manner of course)

And is it normal that her feet are only ticklish when feeling cold? I mean : it's summertime now... can't really expect her to keep her feet in the freezer for two minutes or so. Haha. But its a fact that, when her feet are warm or at normal temperature not even a brush, feather or electric tootbrush works.

But we'll try it out.

In fact I'm having a "luxury" problem : I have a very willingly ticklee and a superb tickler... but I'd like to have her screaming once. Or maybe I do tickle to soft I don't know

 

[tklr1993]

Hmmmm.... Have you tried tying her down? The fact that her feet are ticklish only when cold leads me back to the psychology thing and that she only seems ticklish when she is out of her comfort zone. Now, I want it on the record right now that I'm not suggesting you should kidnap and tickle her or go past any limits, but maybe you should try doing something that's a tad foreign or something new. Maybe try going somewhere different, different tools or different techniques. Have you ever seen the people that bind their ticklees using the headrests in a car? Just an idea.

 

[XIII legion]

Great idea about the headrest in the car! It would suit perfectly (I guess and hope) , since she is currently going for her driving lessons. We might do such as a "pause" while I'm helping her in learning how to drive. Of course we'd drive somewhere a bit more hidden ;-). Maybe that would stop her teasing me with this so "hated" sentence : "have you started yet , I don't feel anything"

You seem to be an "experienced" one. Guess your gf/wife has an ideal tickler with you. Maybe someday I'll be that too, haha. Of course its not a life-task or so... but fair is fair : if she WANTS to be the lee at times, how could I refuse?

 

[tklr1993]

Haha, thanks for your nice comments. Unfortunately I'm a ler currently without a lee. I'm looking though, so wish me luck!

 

[XIII legion]

I do wish you best of luck with that naturally

 

[tklr1993]

Thanks. The search is on! Where it'll wind up I'm not sure yet. I have tickled a couple people in the past and great fun was had by all so that's good! It never went any further than that though. You're a lucky guy to find someone!

 

[TicklingTips]

Have you tried the opposite? I remember some people saying on here that they need to warm their feet up with, say, a hair dryer, to make them ticklish. Personally, I've never found feet to be more ticklish cold - always when warmer.

Also just in general, try to surprise her with tickling. It seems to make everyone more ticklish.

 

[XIII legion]

I know ... I find it a bit strange too that she has only ticklish feet when they are cold. Indeed, most people are more ticklish on the feet when they feel warm(er).

But actually even though we have to find our ways to make her "enjoy" being tickled a bit more I can't complain : a gf who does not "run away" after hearing about my tickle fetish AND actually willingly to explore this together.

 

[GeddyP]

Hello,

sometimes her feet are a bit ticklish too, but strangely enough that is only the case when her feet are feeling (somewhat) cold. If not I can tickle under her soles or inbetween her toes all I want : no reaction.

I don't normally think about tickling with ice cubes (mostly because I don't want them used against me, it part tickles, part hurts on my sides), but in this case I'd make an exception. Either the ice and/or the melting water itself might tickle, or her feet might cool off enough that they will then be ticklish.

 

[WorkInProgress]

What I would do is work over her whole body and keep coming back to the armpits. Given that she's ticklish there, there's no danger of its being a total loss. But for the rest of her body, keep her guessing where your fingers are going to go next. Also, see how she'd feel about your sneaking up on her from behind and going for the ribs.

 

[the tickleshow]

Have you tried tickling her feet with sheer nylons on? That seems to heighten the sensation.

 

[chevyhs]

Maybe an under bed bondage set and blindfolding her and tickling her sensually first and she'll probably relax and trust you more she can enjoy being touched

 

[GeddyP]

What I would do is work over her whole body and keep coming back to the armpits.

I forgot that - once you have her going from tickling her underarms, other parts might make he laugh too.

One other thing that might help: Some women are more ticklish right after they have an orgasm (specifically one female TMF poster; I can't remember her name right now to give her credit), or someone who is ticklish in some spots but not in others becomes ticklish pretty much everywhere for a couple minutes afterwards. (Or, it might backfire, and she's pooped afterwards and isn't ticklish anywhere.)

 

[XIII legion]

Thanks for all your kind answers/advice people. It's cool that, given the fact that I'm only half a week registered, so many people would like to help me (us) out.

We're in for some re-newed tickling fun I guess tonite. That is if I can still catch my breath after she has tickled me thoroughly , but maybe this time I might be able to threaten her in not going too far... since I've read some nice information when it comes to changing roles with her being the ticklee again. Naturally she'll smirk at me, but little does she know I've read some experienced comments. Hehe.

If desired I might try and write a little "true story post about the experience we tried out tonite.

However, do excuse me if my english would read a bit rough, cause it's not my main language.

Thanks again for your answers and ... happy tickling!

 

[gentlefeather007]

Possibly try a relaxing massage first, get her relaxed and limber before tying her and tickling her, use some hydrating or moisturizing lotions or oils and don't rush the tickling, take your time, catch her completely off guard and keep her guessing, also try varying degrees of touch from extremely light to digging in, in either case you can't lose since she isn't that ticklish anyway you may put her in the mood for other fun, who knows!
Good luck

Paul

 

[06Alphaman]

I think it is a difficult challenge. In my experience...ticklishness is not usually a choice. Some people can will themselves to not be ticklish...but I have not heard of someone being able to be "made" more ticklish.

There were a lot of good suggestions here already. I think the task is to try different things and find her ticklish places and/or under what circumstances she is ticklish. But I don't think you can make her be more ticklish. That's my opinion though...it's not like I would "know"

My ex wife was ticklish...but hated to be tickled. Too bad for me. But whatever. Then, I found a circumstance where she loved to be tickled. Just one type of situation...and she didn't even laugh...she would climax. Great. You just never know.

So my suggestion is just to have fun...try different things...and discover if anything works better than others. It sounds like she is up for it. Seems like it would be fun.

And if "cold" is her thing...then...cold might be the thing to explore. Ice, Ice, baby.
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There is an old video of an old (late 80s/90s) porn star, Tiffany Storm...where she is tickled with ice. It seems clear that she didn't really even know how ticklish she was from the ice until it was happening. She even talked to the crew while laughing ("guys, I'm losing it"). It didn't seem like she was acting.

 

[06Alphaman]

http://www.hotmovies.com/video/9064/Quivering-Quims/

But you have to have an account to see the scene.