in over my head?

[steph]

Hi Friends---interesting thing happened to me--I've been approached by a female video producer who lives locally. Have no idea what kind of scenario they have in mind--I've only gotten a brief intro letter, and she seemed really nice, they're looking for a 3rd girl for a vod shoot and she wondered if I'd be interested. (I AM a little intrigued, I must admit....) Thems of you that know me, know I'm married and "in the closet." (He's not into it.) I figure I have a few options and love to get some thoughts from anyone who can relate. I can:

a) always politely decline
b) duh, find out more....
c) approach the mister and "out myself"
d) appear in disguise

Other options? Your thoughts would be way appreciated...
XOXO

 

[Faramir]

Personally Steph...I'd say make very sure you know who you are dealing with before jumping in with both..erm.. feet ..!

 

[steph]

🙂

Great point honey! (Ya, I figure I can always "just say no".)

 

[qjakal]

Time & Trials

I'd say go with "C". I'm aware that it's the most risky choice, but it also has the greatest possible gains, and I like to gamble big when I throw 'em.....

Worst case you're right where you are now, saying "I must have been on too much prescription medicine when I told ya that hon..."

*Shrug*...lots to be gained, little to be lost.

My 2 cents from the cheap seats...

Q

 

[steph]

i just thought of something!

They're from Tero's site actually. I wonder if he knows them or if he's back from Hawaii....Yoo Hoo, Terry--are ya OUT there??? Holeer back!

 

[Faramir]

What kind of video is it going to be...(probably a dumb ?, but I had to ask)..!?!?

 

[steph]

Re: Time & Trials

<gg> Thanx QJ-I need to clarify-he actually knows how much I love it but just isn't a fetish he possesses (He only turns "ler" when he wants to get laid pretty much...)
XOXO

I'd say go with "C". I'm aware that it's the most risky choice, but it also has the greatest possible gains, and I like to gamble big when I throw 'em.....

Worst case you're right where you are now, saying "I must have been on too much prescription medicine when I told ya that hon..."

*Shrug*...lots to be gained, little to be lost.

My 2 cents from the cheap seats...

Q

 

[steph]

no clue

No clue at all--she just intro'd herself and said she was looking for friends and told me a little about her biz...Obviously I need a LOT more info before deciding....

What kind of video is it going to be...(probably a dumb ?, but I had to ask)..!?!?

 

[Faramir]

Re: no clue

No clue at all--she just intro'd herself and said she was looking for friends and told me a little about her biz...Obviously I need a LOT more info before deciding....

then I would DEFINITELY say...find out MORE..!!

 

[steph]

yep

Me thinks the same. <gg>

I guess I should have said "If everything checks out, then what???"
XOXO

 

[Deleted member 2452]

my thoughts, since you asked

1) first, find out more. what have they done to date, how much are they paying, what is expected of you, etc.
2) next tell them you want me to come along to help with the m/f, and f/m sceens, hehehe
3) baring #2, tell your hubby, after you have all your facts straight, and have him come as your body guard, and to learn!

i want a copy of anything with you in it!

steve

 

[qjakal]

Re: Re: Time & Trials

<gg> Thanx QJ-I need to clarify-he actually knows how much I love it but just isn't a fetish he possesses (He only turns "ler" when he wants to get laid pretty much...)
XOXO

Basically same with my other half...lol..isn't life funny (but not in the right way). Q

 

[The Sean Man]

Press her for all the information you can get. If she's legit, you should get all your questions answered. If she's skittish about giving you the details, follow your intuition and politely decline.
There was a good episode of MTV's True Life where a young girl was approached by a woman producing wrestling videos. She explained she produced legitimate 'sports' videos featuring women wrestling. Of course, as things turned out, this included dressing in skimpy clothing (playboy bunny and such). At the end of the show, the girl felt pretty used.
As always, mind your spidey-sense.

The Sean Man

 

[steph]

Re: my thoughts, since you asked

<gg>

Will do except for the last part (jealous type)

Well then again...Maybe you're onto something. My only lesbian experience was about 2 years back--he had gone to bed and the neighbors across the street and I "kept the party going..." Georgie dared his 19 year old stripper girlfriend, Fallon, to make out with me and she did. I thought it was hysterical and pretty harmless fun so I mentioned it one night to his best friend Jason who told me he found it to be "so hot--you ought to tell him." So I DID. And he went ballistic!!!MONTHS later he aditted he was just mad because Georgie got to be there and he didn't! LOL! Funniest of all, I found out the next day that both of them were too drunk to remember! Guess I shoulda kept my mouth shut after all <gg>

1) first, find out more. what have they done to date, how much are they paying, what is expected of you, etc.
2) next tell them you want me to come along to help with the m/f, and f/m sceens, hehehe
3) baring #2, tell your hubby, after you have all your facts straight, and have him come as your body guard, and to learn!

i want a copy of anything with you in it!

steve

 

[steph]

Re: Re: Re: Time & Trials

Yeah I know, it really sucks!

(Brightens up) Then again, it's allowed to meet a couple of cool folks here

XOXO

Basically same with my other half...lol..isn't life funny (but not in the right way). Q

 

[Scooby6993]

Option B

B sounds like the good choice for now....since your already kinda intrigued.

 

[steph]

Re: Option B

I concur in spades <gg>

Thanx to all who replied 🙂

B sounds like the good choice for now....since your already kinda intrigued.

 

[SmileyTkls]

I know I'm coming in after all the comments are in, but I'd just say check and see, be cautious, but whatever, let us know what happens! LOL. <Ahem> Thoughtfully offered for you consideration. 😉

Smiley

 

[steph]

an update for all who answered...

Ok, I just checked out Kim's site. It's pretty small. She's posted an ad looking for models to do the vids--it's mostly a foot & tickling fetish board--her ad states "no sex, no nudity." So that's one question answered...I responded to her msg and am now waiting to hear more. Thanx again!
XOXO

 

[steph]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Thank you baby--see my update...

I know I'm coming in after all the comments are in, but I'd just say check and see, be cautious, but whatever, let us know what happens! LOL. <Ahem> Thoughtfully offered for you consideration. 😉

Smiley

 

[Scooby6993]

Option B

Glad I could help steph, hope it works out for ya!

 

[Tickler Bart]

Re: over my head?

Steph,
I want dibs on the FIRST copy you make. I wanna see you tickled. Especially your bare soles. Hee hee.

 

[steph]

awwwww Bart!

Ok then--plans have changed.

Lauderdale 2005 has now become Sactown 04 (the vid will apparently be shot next week...)

So I'll e-mail Kim, tell her I'll ONLY agree to do the vid if she pays to fly out my own personal foot tickler from Florida, okay?
XOXO

 

[catman7]

.....if you're ever in South Texas and need a personal foot tickler,Steph, just let me know! 🙂
I wish there were more gals like you down here!!

 

[steph]

(blushes)

Aw Cat, you're so sweet! I think there are several of you Texans out there that have extended invites (too bad I'm terrified of flying or I'd plan me a trip to Texas!) I've actually been asked several times if I'm FROM Texas (natural flirt, ya know???) Y'all are just so adorable!!! <gg>

<I wish there were more gals like you down here!!>
Now that IS a damn shame! All you talented, willing hotties going to waste....

And if I ever get the guts to make it onto that plane, I'll let ya know..Thanx honey!!
XOXO