Interesting discussion

[Jerry67911]

I've recently joined an on line dating service. My current situation does not allow me to meet many single women so I figured what the hell. Overall, I've been disappointed in the experience but there is one woman I have been getting along great with, that could make it all worth while.

I'm not looking for one of us, that would just be a major added bonus. I do mention tickle fights in my list of many favorites but that's it. The woman I'm talking about does not mention tickling in her bio BUT today, we were talking on the phone about our "perfect day", and hers included a tickle fight. Door open. So I asked her if she was ticklish. She rufused to answer but asked if I was. I said I won't tell if she won't and that is the end of the story. But I'm encouraged there could be more to the story down the road.

 

[drew70]

Super cool, Jerry. She sounds like she could be very promising. I hope it turns out that she digs tickling as much as you do. Good luck.

 

[luvn2laf]

Awesome!

The fact that she mentioned what you had in your profile indicates that caught her eye. I looked for tickling in profiles back when I was looking online. And the fact that she wouldn't answer you is a good sign, too. Shows a fun spirit that invites you to find out for yourself! When I met my boyfriend I was wearing a tickle-me elmo shirt and when he said he wanted to know if Elmo was ticklish, I couldn't answer either. I responded just like this woman did with a "Are you?" to which he didn't respond either. So in my opinion - that is wonderful news for you!

 

[Jerry67911]

The fact that she mentioned what you had in your profile indicates that caught her eye.

Thats what I thought too. I hope we're right.

 

[Jerry67911]

And the fact that she wouldn't answer you is a good sign, too. Shows a fun spirit that invites you to find out for yourself!

I thought that too.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Jerry: If she's open to tickle fights, then you already know she's into tickling. The only question is how much. To use an analogy with my other eccentric subculture, naturism, I have friends who will go to a nude beach with me but would never actually spend a week or weekend at a nudist resort or naturist convention (which I do). She may not be into tickling message boards, gatherings like NEST, and bondage equipment, but if she's into tickle fights, then you already know for sure that you've got tickling in common, and the question of how much she's into it is the bonus round. Good luck with this relationship, since of course it's obviously very new and speculative, with or without the tickling.

P.S. Of course she's ticklish. If she weren't, she'd have nothing to be coy about.