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Introducing tickling into a friendship ???

ticklingisgr8

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I have friends who are extremely ticklish but don't like being tickled. These same friends don't like being massaged or even showing off their feet. It feels like there are no opportunities to get in any tickling.

any suggestions ?????
 
I have friends who are extremely ticklish but don't like being tickled. These same friends don't like being massaged or even showing off their feet. It feels like there are no opportunities to get in any tickling.

Your feeling is right. You can't tickle these friends.

Time for a new plan.
 
I agree with LD Tickler. And as an aside, I would never let my love of tickling spoil a good friendship (or a good romantic relationship either, but that's a different subject than ticklingisgr8's situation).
 
There's nothing wrong with casually tickling your friends every once in in a while, but if its an intimate thing for you then you shouldn't try to force it into friendships.
 
OH, I ALWAYS TIE MY SHOE LACES WITH TEN KNOTS

What the world needs is more beautiful, ticklish................... enemies!!!!! No wait, that's what the TMF stories section needs. The "It's all about me, my pretty little 'lee" club has members but not many happy ones. Do they/will they tickle you or does even the subject remind them of how much they dislike being tickled. Learn from my mistake, it is not the best way to get another notch on the old Sonicare.
 
I have friends who are extremely ticklish but don't like being tickled. These same friends don't like being massaged or even showing off their feet. It feels like there are no opportunities to get in any tickling.

any suggestions ?????

Find new friends.
 
It depends what sort of friends you have i guess, Some of my best tickle sessions have been with friends, if you dont have those sort of friends now, then you may have in the future.
 
If they don't like it, leave them alone! I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it if a friend of you liked ballbusting (on the giving side!) and introduced it to you!
 
The old cliche, that people are not objects to be used at your enjoyment. You cannot violate their innocence for your sexual gratification. By constructing plans etc, you come across as deviant and creepy as well. Learn to live with it!
 
Simple enough situation, i suppose...if a person's not in to tickling, don't tickle them. However, on the flip (and amazing when it happens) side, sometimes a person is fortunate enough to meet someone, and become their friend, only to slowly discover and come to mutually appreciate a common fetish...may i wish this good fortune on you ticklingisgr8, 'cause it's fun when it happens.

Case in point, a friend i had since high school ended up dating one of my dorm mates in college (through me hooking them up at a concert, in fact)...as a result, he started spending more time at my college (since he lived within driving distance, and attended the same college at a sister campus nearby). Over the course of time, and hanging out with the two of them, i learned through her that he was "into feet" (her words at the time). Once, when he was up visiting, we were all drinking, and he passed out on her bed in her dorm. I convinced her to steal his shoes and socks (with which i was a more than willing partner in crime for), and paint his toes. When he woke up, and sobered enough to realize what had happened, he got a kick out of it (and eventually came to realize that i had a similar, foot loving fetish). When they broke up (which was inevitable, i soon realized after hooking them up), we retained our friendship. A while later, while partying at another friend's college, we had an amazing, half-drunken (but still coherent enough to know what was happening) foot experience when we were bold enough to confront each other about our mutual fetish...it was a really fun night, that to this day is a very fond memory.

Point being, of all of my friends over the years, he's the only one i ever had something like this happen with (since i wouldn't ever want to risk a friendship over it). Be patient, and some day you're bound to find a person who shares your interests...who knows, maybe it'll even be as a result of this forum.

jugs :justlips:
 
Maybe it's just me...
But I don't want to tickle my friends. It's a turn on for me and tickling them, even when it's just playful, still feels weird.

I think you need to try to find people who already share this similar fetish with you that way you aren't making things awkward for the both of you.
 
I never tickled them against their will because I know they don't like it. However, since I do know ticklish they are I am SO tempted to do it. But I do value their friendship more than tickling them.

Should I give up my thought of tickling them ?
 
Should I give up my thought of tickling them ?

No, its fine to have fantasies about wanting to tickle them. Just because you have fantasies that doesn't lead to the behavior. I don't tickle or touch people's feet against their will and I have those thoughts all the time.

However, I'm thinking that you should come out and 'verbally' tell them what you like. I've gotten the impression that you've concluded they hate feet and tickling just by passively listening to a conversation they've had with each other. This doesn't say much. They're proposed hatred of feet and tickling could just be a verbal habit like saying "that sucks" or "hi". People say things they never even think about just to fit in all the time. So, who knows, you're "confession" could just change their impression of what they think.

Until you're ready to verbally say you 'think tickling is kinda sexy', I'd say just put the prospect of tickling them on the shelf and find someone more willing to engage in tickling with you.

Besides, who knows, maybe they'll be a little more open to it later on down the road. I've known girls who say they've found stripping disgusting only to turn around and do it shortly thereafter. People's preferences and minds change over time as they have new experiences with life. I'd just focus on learning to socialize more and learning to be more comfortable with your "fetish" if that's what you want to call it.

FYI: Go talk to a counselor or a real person next time you need advice. The WORST place to get advice in on the internet.
 
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Okay, to clarify my snark - and the OP is free to correct me if I misinterpreted - but I didn't get the impression he planned on keeping his 'thoughts' purely on the 'inside-his-head' level, since he specifically said he knew they didn't like to be tickled, and yet he was still tempted. I also thought it was pretty obvious that, after eight people telling him that tickling them was a bad idea, and he repeated his original question, that he wasn't listening to what anyone was saying. So, yes; I was being sarcastic.

If your friends aren't down with your kink, you need to A) not impose it on them, and B) find some friends who ARE down with it. I honestly don't see anything else working.
 
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Of course you can fantasize about it, but don't try to find ways of doing it to them if they do not like to have it done to them!
 
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So long as you're not incredibly awkward about it, it's not too hard to bring tickling into friendships. Just make a game or joke about it. You probably won't tie anyone up anytime soon, but you'll get tickles.


Unless they really really really hate it. Then just drop the subject. No point in pissing off friends like that.
 
I really can't say I agree with any of this advice. You wouldn't give advice on how to introduce breast groping into a friendship, because its wrong, of course. Why offer advice on how to introduce something synonymous in this person's ideas to that indecent behaviour into his fucking FRIENDSHIP!

They are your friends, not your bloody playthings to use and get jollies whenever you like.
 
Wait, we should find out first if tickling is actually sexual for him...I don't think I read anything about it in this thread! Some people on here like playful tickling without any sexual innuendo.
 
Bahhhhh... thats easy to say. There is obviously determination here which heavily suggests the first. Maybe I'm a cynical too, but joining internet forums like this one and posting such things don't suggest playfulness. You wouldn't need advice on doing it if that was the case, because you wouldn't be suffering the social stigma of having a fetish.

However, I am willing to be wrong.
 
And I'm awaiting a statement concerning this question. 🙂
 
ticklingisgr8

ticklingisgr8, are you male or female? Are these friends same- or opposite-sex, or both? Details might help readers here with making suggestions.

As you say your friends are extrememly ticklsh but don't like people tickling them, how do you know that? Are they aware of your interest in tickling?

For now, all I'd suggest is testing the waters. Don't dive in by ten-finger assaulting anyone, but try a playful poke and see if you can build on it. I've had success with that approach.

I recommend attempting each tickle when you are alone with each friend, as opposed to doing it in front of anyone. That way, there is less chance your friends will add 2+2.

See if occasional playful rib or foot tickles gets any of your friends into it. I've heard more than one tickling enthusiast say caught on to the pleasures of ticklnig once they tried it. I used to think one simply was born a tickler/ticklee/switch or wasn't.

Please update. Good luck!
 
I just wanted to echo some of the others here. My thoughts are, if they really don't like tickling, you've got to back off. It's never cool to make someone uncomfortable. Since your friends say that they hate their feet and don't like being massaged, it sounds like their not much into being touched at all. Again, a sign to let it go.

In another situation, if it were a playful kind of protest ("no, don't!" and then he or she giggles and pokes you back, while batting their eyelashes), my advice might be different. But it sounds like your friends are pretty solid on the no touching thing.

There are other ways to explore and experience your sexuality, this forum being one of them but not the only one. Keep your friends and find something else
 
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