I've been accused of being a man!(Important)

[unit5610]

Sounds like some moron who doesn't necessarily think you're a man, but may be trying to shame you into putting up a pic so he can get off on it. Hopefully the mods can help you if they haven't yet. You're a lovely person and great fun to chat with, and remember that you have many friends and supporters here. Don't let this person scare you off.

 

[Mastertank1]

This is a perfect example

of why I never enter any chatroom, anywhere, for any reason.
I never use any form of IM either.
All chatrooms are inhabited by a particularly noxious and disgusting breed of free-range asshole, who regularly conduct group attacks on innocent victims chosen more or less at random.

As far as this particular group of ass clowns, let me suggest this; None of them really think you are a guy, Helena; they just think this incredibly stupid tactic will get you to post a picture!

It's as close as these drooling, knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing, can't-read-without-speaking-the-words-aloud imbeciles will ever get to being clever. Of course, you and I know that none of them will ever come within ten zip codes of actually being clever.

Some people have delusions of grandeur; these pimple squeezes don't have enough going for them to even delude grandeur. They have delusions of competence.

Ignore them.
Mitch
aka

 

[Senbab]

I guess some people are so involved in what they want, they forget what the other person wants.....a little respect.

That seems to be the problem more and more often these days. Seems that some people were just never taught by their parents how to be polite.

 

[Goodieluver]

of why I never enter any chatroom, anywhere, for any reason.
I never use any form of IM either.
All chatrooms are inhabited by a particularly noxious and disgusting breed of free-range asshole, who regularly conduct group attacks on innocent victims chosen more or less at random.

As far as this particular group of ass clowns, let me suggest this; None of them really think you are a guy, Helena; they just think this incredibly stupid tactic will get you to post a picture!

It's as close as these drooling, knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing, can't-read-without-speaking-the-words-aloud imbeciles will ever get to being clever. Of course, you and I know that none of them will ever come within ten zip codes of actually being clever.

Some people have delusions of grandeur; these pimple squeezes don't have enough going for them to even delude grandeur. They have delusions of competence.

Ignore them.
Mitch
aka

The same happens in real life as well, its called the human being sadly

 

[DannyMc]

Helena , I have never been in chat for the reason I can't get it , but I take it ,it can be a bit open and free to somethings , comment wise . There are nice people there , to be just that , but others that are there are looking for trouble and looking to make trouble . A person can either try to put them in their place or just let it slide and not care with the thought in mind that it's just the nature of the beast sometimes . Some people can't handle nice and are jealous and discontent of people that are , so with all this in mind just continue to be you , the way most of us like it .

 

[Mz Chaos]

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind" ~ Dr. Seuss

Those folks that were in the chatroom giving you a hard time don't matter and aren't worth the time it would take to type "Bite Me."

You're good folk and that's all that counts...

 

[Deadsea7777]

"Female ticklee, 34, blonde hair, green eyes, beautiful smile" or so your description says.

What a temptation!, unfortunately I am in the other side of the planet.
The eyes of Becquer’s impossible colour… Green.

I do not know you and to be sincere I cannot give a dam about your genre since I have no chances to try to seduce you unless like Dracula became a fog thinner than air and travel to rematerialize wherever you live and have a try.

However, jokes apart, be smart, do not ever fall into sending a picture. There are many ways to take your picture off and use for other purposes, if an idiot wants to damage you they will find a way.
Be smart do not give ignore them:
"Aquila not capit muscas” from latin “Eagles do not hunt flies” in english meaning do not give any importance to want is non important, ignore them.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Helena, you pay no attention to any mentally retarded, mutated scumbag who demands anything of you in the chatroom. There are many good reasons to stay there, and I could name quite a few of them...you talk to them every time you're in there.

Pay no mind to the morons. They only think with the hands they operate with.

 

[Iggy pop]

Do you know how many kung fu experts, models, and hollywood producers I have met online? I would have to have to say 3 out 4 people fit in that category.

Honestly I never belive it until I see it, but that does not mean you have to accuse people or be disrespectful. If some guy wants to pretend to be a woman that is his own damn business. Don't like it? Then go meet people in real life. While not impossible, it is much harder for a guy to pretend to be female face to face.

 

[hiltopoius]

I wish i could defend you in the chatroom helena, but im a very slow typer and that is the reason why i never visit there....I hope that things will change for the better since this is now out in the open. I enjoy the pm exchanges with you and i know for a fact that your all woman ,You do not need to post any pics for any body,I surely would not !!!

 

[simulated]

If it makes you feel any better, I've been accused of being a woman in the chat room before 😛

Then again, a hobby of mine is finding new ways to answer the "r u a grl" private chats truthfully without letting on that I'm a guy. There's nothing like having someone ask if they could tickle you sometime after they've been hitting on you for a couple pages, only to say 'nah, sorry, I'm not really into m/m'.

Sometimes they get really angry with you, those are the fun ones. There's no better way to spend half an hour than by antagonizing a homophobe 😉

 

[slacker2114]

If it makes you feel any better, I've been accused of being a woman in the chat room before 😛

Then again, a hobby of mine is finding new ways to answer the "r u a grl" private chats truthfully without letting on that I'm a guy. There's nothing like having someone ask if they could tickle you sometime after they've been hitting on you for a couple pages, only to say 'nah, sorry, I'm not really into m/m'.

Sometimes they get really angry with you, those are the fun ones. There's no better way to spend half an hour than by antagonizing a homophobe 😉

LOL....Oh man, seeing that after first waking up is great. That is TOO funny. Nice work, sim.

 

[drew70]

There's no better way to spend half an hour than by antagonizing a homophobe 😉

I'm curious. Why would you want to exploit anybody's fear of anything? Does it give you feelings of superiority, perhaps? Are there other fears besides homophobia you enjoy antagonizing as well? Acrophobes, anybody? Claustrophobes, per chance? Seems a little cruel and sadistic to me, but whatever floats your boat. 🙄

 

[chicago]

Hello,
A few nights ago, I was in the chat room, and I was accused of being a man.
I was told that I was confused about my gender, and that I had a penis, and an angry mob of TMF'ers has collected. I have people demanding that I post a picture of myself in the members section, or they will end their so called friendship with me.

I have never been accused of being a man until now. I refuse to post a pic of myself in the members section of this forum to please an angry bunch of people who aren't really friends after all.
I hope none of the members that do not have their pics posted do not experience hateful accusations and pressure to reveal yourself the way I have.

I am a victim of abuse now on this forum, and there is no one to help me. I have contributed to this forum with some stories, made some friends, and now all of that is being taken away by ugly rumors. Be careful to the tmf members that want to keep your identity a secret, and reveal it only to people you choose. You could be next. Good luck.

I think it's relatively easy to tell who the real women are and who the men just pretending to be women are.

I think most intelligent people can decipher between the two.

I've talked to you quite a few times in the chatroom and I have no reason to doubt that you are indeed a woman.

Don't worry anyway, you're not alone. I've been accused of being a man too, and there's no end to the pictures I have of myself floating around.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Don't worry anyway, you're not alone. I've been accused of being a man too, and there's no end to the pictures I have of myself floating around.

She speaks the gospel, folks. I remember a conversation with some stupid birdbrain who insisted Mairead must've been a guy, even after I mentioned to him that I'd met her. I'd half expected him to retort that I had been tricked; that the person I met was really a hologram. I decided to put this ignoramus on Ignore instead.

 

[tickledorange]

Why would you want to exploit anybody's fear of anything?

Because in some cases, it's REALLY REALLY funny!

 

[simulated]

I'm curious. Why would you want to exploit anybody's fear of anything? Does it give you feelings of superiority, perhaps? Are there other fears besides homophobia you enjoy antagonizing as well? Acrophobes, anybody? Claustrophobes, per chance? Seems a little cruel and sadistic to me, but whatever floats your boat. 🙄

It's for the same reason you make posts like these, drew. I would have thought you of all people would understand

 

[drew70]

It's for the same reason you make posts like these, drew. I would have thought you of all people would understand

I make posts like these out of genuine curiosity. However, I suppose there's no rule that requires you to answer the questions I ask, so don't feel bad about your sidestep.

 

[Helena]

Thank you

Thank you to every member that posted in this thread.
I am feeling better now.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Helena

Sorry to hear that a few MORONS out there have tried to sully your good name. We have become friends over the last couple of months, and I can say that you are as '' Girlie'' as the day is long!!! So take Mz Chaos advice & tell those a-holes to ''BITE ME''

 

[Dussicar]

*Sigh*

Why is it always easier to convince people that a girl is actually a guy than it is for me to convince others that I'm a trained Chinchilla?

 

[fttickler]

Ok.. besides Flat... a MODS 2 cents

First of all, most of youwho know me know how I feel about harassing others. I have booted/banned people like this. People like this do not deserve the time of day. They are waste cases. A mind may be a terrible thing to waste.. but a waste is a terrible thing to mind. Online no one can make youdo anything you do not want to. As for options here are a few that have prolly already been suggested.

1) there is the ignore button. youmay no loger be able to see the ass's crap but others still do.
2) If there is a MOD in the room. contact them either in main chat or in PM. You know that I personally would never turn down a Pm from you and I for one beleive you to be exactly who you say you are ( one hell of a cute lee )
Let us deal with the asses ( troll ). I for one am sorry you ever had a problem in there. You have always been nothing but poilte and friendly with me. Let me know if I can help and point out the idiot ( s) to me.

Adam

 

[Speedbump]

You could be a man for all I know. I've made it a point to be very distrusting of people online when it comes to anything like this. But luckily I haven't had to worry about it for awhile.

It does seem somewhat easy to point out the girls, but you can never be 100% sure about everyone.

I don't actually like chat rooms, though -- I prefer talking on messenger's such as MSN or AIM. They're just easier.

 

[tickledorange]

You could be a man for all I know.

And you could be a speedbump.