Just can't help myself...ADVICE PLEASE!

[cacuttie1]

Hello :],

I have quite a problem and I could really use some advice!

I, like many others on this forum, have a tickling fetish. I have been interested in tickling for as long as I can remember. Even when i was only 5-6 years old I enjoyed seeing cartoons tickled on TV. Now, much older, my feelings have increased. There is this one guy in one of my college courses[ advanced architecture] who I just can't stop tickling! I've known him a little over a year now and he is one of my good friends. The only problem is whenever I see him i cannot resist the urge to give him a little tickle. He has the most infectuous laugh and a very cute smile. He also loves tickling, he has admitted once before that it arouses him, especially when tickled on his legs. He has told me one of his ultimate sexual fantasies would be to be tied down and just tickled for hours on end. I have never once admitted that I also have a tickling fetish. He's very fun to tickle but I really am not attracted to him in any other way. I currently have a boyfriend of a little over a year who I am very much in love with. My problem is simply that I cannot pass up an opportunity to tickle my friend, let's call him Bill. When I tickle him he giggles and squirms away but I know he is really asking for more. It's wrong of me to make these occasional tickles when I know it excites him, especially since I have a boyfriend of my own but I just can't help myself!



Soo... Please someone HELP!

 

[ShadowTklr]

Hey Cat:

First off, does your current boyfriend know that you enjoy tickling, and if so, does he allow you to indulge in your fantasies with him?

The bottom line is that only you know the depth, breadth and scope of your relationship with your boyfriend. If you think that he would regard your tickling your friend (even fully clothed) as a type of cheating, then you have to decide exactly how much you want to tickle your friend anyway.

If you think he would view this activity as just playful, then I would say go for it.

Regarding your friend, I think he would have to understand from the beginning that you are not going to engage in sexual relations with him - just tickling. If that's okay, then again, go for it.

Ultimately, this may be more a moral question, than anything else, and it is something you're going to have to explore in your own mind. I know this isn't they type of help you need, but I'm not sure anyone other than you can make this decision.

Best of luck

 

[cacuttie1]

Thank you :]

When I say that I tickle my friend I mean the occasional grab to the side, nothing that would ever be considered cheating in any way just pure playful tickling, you know the "friend" kind of tickling. And I do have a very deep relationship with my boyfriend, he knows that tickling "excites" me and he enjoys the occasional tickle fight as well. He just doesn't enjoy it to the extent that I do. I was just merely asking if there is a way to get rid of a love for tickling haha. I already know the answer is no.



I have always wanted to be one of those girls either being tickled or doing the tickling, i can see myself on both ends of a tickling video. They always look so fun and exciting..I hope that someday I will be able to do something like that with someone that I love.


I really have always imagined myself as more of a ler though. I love being tickled but I get turned on mainly from tickling others. I would love more than anything to be able to tie up a good looking and strong man and tickle him until he beggs for mercy. There's just something so sexy about bringing a strong man to pleading point just from mere tickling.


Ah the power of tickling.... >;].




I'd love to hear more replies!!!! 😀

 

[kurchatovium]

Well I think your best bet it to see if you can get the current boyfriend you have to get more interested in the kind of tickling you would like to do. Maybe introduce to him a bit at a time rather than all out full scale torture. Just a thought.

Being a male lee myself I can assure I think the world needs more female lers. 😛

 

[cacuttie1]

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Thanks :],

I am slowly introducing him to the world of tickling and how fun it is. The only problem is he likes being tickled but he is EXTREMELY ticklish. I mean its really really bad. I tickle him without trying! If i so much as put my hand on his stomach he giggles, even through a thick shirt! If I even touch his leg with one finger he's already falling out of his seat howling and when i tickle him he tries to hold my hands down and I tickle his wrists and he falls of his chair!! He is ticklish everywhere and i mean EVERYWHERE. I once put him to the test and ran one finger down the side of his head and even that tickled extremely!


I love the fact that he is so ticklish, if only i could tie him up we could really have some fun. Of course I would add in fun things for him but boy we could have a BLAST 😀. He also gets even more sensitive when he's horny.

It's funny how much tickling does turn him on and he doesnt even realize it! I think its just tha fact that i am touching all over his body not the actual tickling itself. I could merely stoke his leg a few times and tickle his sides for one minute and already he has a throbbing erection ;].

Of course i'm nto one to talk. The mere thought of tickling gets me hot. Especially anything having to do with the upper thighs or bellybutton, i know that the bellybutton is a MAJOR turn on spot for most guys.


Oh wow I just realized how long that ramble was. Sorry for how long it is haha. If anyone actually read all that i would love to hear some replies! I'd like to know what places turn guys on most when they are touched there or tickled. Please only guys for this question. 😀


Emma

 

[LItickleree]

i really dont see what the problem is here, it seems like you are in heaven.

 

[kurchatovium]

Well Emma it seems you are lucky in that you boyfriend is not totally opposed to being tickled. I think you two just need to build up a level of trust then he might let you tie him up. Set up safe words and such and never go over his limits and you may find yourself with a very ticklish guy that you loves you very much. Good luck.

For me I like it when a woman tickles my feet. Just seems like that is a harder place to get too so I feel more vunerable I think. Also happens to be my weakest spot too. 😀 But thats just me.

 

[tommytikl]

Well some people have sex buddies...maybe "Bill" can be your tickle buddy...

Just a thought...

 

[Björre]

Your idea of upper thighs sounds pretty good to me =)
Emma sounds Swedish, you don't happen to be from around here?

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I guess it would have to depend on your intentions with "Bill". If you know it gets him "hot" and you continue to tickle him then it would be as if you were blowing in his ear knowing it gets him "hot" Would you like your boyfriend to touch another woman that he knows gets "hot" when he touches her? Or maybe rubs her leg?

So you need to ask yourself are you tickling him because you like to tickle or because you enjoy that it gets him "hot." Or it gets you "hot" to get him "hot."
In either case, I have to say that it may be considered cheating by some because "sexual excitement" is a factor.