Hello all. I've been here a while and I've had a tickling fetish since forever (literally my first work was tickle)I'm a 21 year old male. So I'm defiantly a ler but I haven't really been able to delve into my fetish. I mean I've tickled plenty of girls but have yet to really tell anyone about my fetish or really torture anyone. So my question is how do you all seem to find the right people? Do you just date someone and hope they don't freak out when you tell them or is it just more natural to tell them and they're more accepting? I'm currently living in florida with hopes to find a lee or at the very least someone who's accepting.
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Just need some insight
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There's a Personals section here that may be helpful in you meeting playmates. Just approaching a random woman here with the message "when can I tickle you" is a bit creepy. I know for myself that I like talking and getting to know people. There's a bunch of nice people here, but it's always the creepers who ruins it. Sometimes it takes awhile to find someone to play with.
I started to develop kind of a system. Date a bunch of people casually, tell 'em about the tickling thing early rather than the bullshit of finding someone, dating them for a long time, trying to find "the right time" and getting all fucking nervous about losing someone because I must be the weirdest person on the planet if I like tickling. Typically, I would tell the person after like 3 dates if I thought he had potential. If his response was negative, at least I found out before we both got hurt.
That said, a lot of guys seemed to have a hard time dealing with the community aspect of this whole thing; didn't want me talking to or visiting friends I'd made on here. Typical young, insecure guy bullshit. Even some of the ones that are part of this community themselves.
Basically, I realized I could find someone that was everything I wanted in a guy and was also into tickling and I stopped settling.
But people expect everything to be easily attainable. Most people who have found someone through here had to (or continue to have to) deal with a long distance relationship until they can figure shit out to be closer to one another. For others, it's taken maybe decades of looking and trying.
You're young. Don't put so much pressure on finding some unattainable fantasy girl you've created in your mind who will be the only one to accept you. Instead, you should date a bunch of people and just be like "Yeah, I like tickling. It's fun," and have awesome ticklesex with lots of people cuz that's what you're supposed to do in you're 20s.
It's not something to be ashamed of and everyone gets rejected (usually a lot) in life. It's not the end of the world. Do you, boo-boo.
That said, a lot of guys seemed to have a hard time dealing with the community aspect of this whole thing; didn't want me talking to or visiting friends I'd made on here. Typical young, insecure guy bullshit. Even some of the ones that are part of this community themselves.
Basically, I realized I could find someone that was everything I wanted in a guy and was also into tickling and I stopped settling.
But people expect everything to be easily attainable. Most people who have found someone through here had to (or continue to have to) deal with a long distance relationship until they can figure shit out to be closer to one another. For others, it's taken maybe decades of looking and trying.
You're young. Don't put so much pressure on finding some unattainable fantasy girl you've created in your mind who will be the only one to accept you. Instead, you should date a bunch of people and just be like "Yeah, I like tickling. It's fun," and have awesome ticklesex with lots of people cuz that's what you're supposed to do in you're 20s.
It's not something to be ashamed of and everyone gets rejected (usually a lot) in life. It's not the end of the world. Do you, boo-boo.
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I found mine by happen chance, blind luck. My wife admitted she loved foot fetish guys while dating early on. She found a online profile of mine with a photo of a girl being tickled in stocks. She admitted she used to attend foot fetish parties years before and loved foot fetish guys but never found one worth keeping, so it was like winning the lottery for me! My advice is just to be respectful but honest about your fetish and see your mate's reaction. Sent you a pm as well.
