Just wanted to share something someone sent me

[CherryBlossom]

This person shall remain nameless, but I feel like I should share this with the rest of the community. I feel like women especially on this site have a hard time with ticklers who find it difficult to take no for an answer. When this person got in touch with me about possibly meeting up, I declined. He, however didn't seem to accept that and went on to harass me for days. At first, I just ignored it but it started to get to the point where I had to stand up for myself. This was the last message he sent me.

"I was trying to be nice. Your a fat ,ugly, broke chick anyway. I just wanted to tickle you. You are not attractive!!! Good luck in the real world were nobody gives 2 shits about your corny ass. If I didn't share your fetish I garuntee I would have no reason to contact you. I hope it makes you feel good to talk down to people that are better off than you. You are in no position to assainate my character, especially the way you look. Your pretty fucking stupid, and this forum has impacted your self esteem. These people only contact you to tickle you thats it. Get off yourself you are nothing special, just a pair of feet to tickle.."

YOU'RE, MY GOOD SIR. YOU'RE. YOU ARE. NOT YOUR. I CAN TAKE THE BULLSHIT, JUST PLEASE CORRECT YOUR GRAMMAR FOR THE LOVE OF ALMIGHTY GOD. >.<

Anyways, nice huh??? This is the first encounter of someone truly rude to me on this forum, so I'm actually pretty happy that everyone else I've met has been nice and wonderful. So thanks everyone, for not being like this prick 😀 <3

 

[luca002]

u were about to meet a frustated man. To not meet him in person is the best thing u could do.
Forget his words.
Luca

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I'm sorry you had to deal with that some people don't have any respect. May I suggest contacting a TMF moderator to help with you
being harrassed.

 

[robmic]

Ya know, it's jerks like this guy that make it hard to actually start a dialog with a woman here, let along actually meet one. Personally, the way I figure it, it was getting late and he was making too much noise and woke up his mother upstairs and she yelled at him to keep it quiet! So, naturally he took it out on you!

 

[ISUmark]

Ya know, it's jerks like this guy that make it hard to actually start a dialog with a woman here, let along actually meet one. Personally, the way I figure it, it was getting late and he was making too much noise and woke up his mother upstairs and she yelled at him to keep it quiet! So, naturally he took it out on you!

Couldnt have said it better myself. Sadly this world is populated with assholes, and you happened to encounter one of them. Im sorry you had to go through that.

 

[labattblueeh]

Forget him. One thing I've learned since I have been here is thats its more than just tickling its about a community of people that are joined by a common interest but are good people to talk to as well....which pretty much equals a friend. He doesn't belong here.

 

[BellybTickler]

Save yourself and these experiences for someone special and meaningful, not on a waste of life like this basement dwelling anus-monkey.

 

[proud2tickle]

i think ur attractive

 

[Tckleme]

Looks like someone needs attention.

"Oh, I'll show you what that guy wrote so you can tell me how beautiful and special I am. "

I'm not hating, I just don't get the point of this. 😀

 

[barefeetarebest]

OMG I am sorry you had to deal with a complete jerk like that, especially since you, and most likely he, are from this area. I wish true a**holes 1) had to wear a tattoo on their forehead, and 2) were required to make a disclaimer statement upfront when communicating online or over the phone. That plain sucks. Much like ISUMark above stated, and I am starting to realize lately how right he is, "the world is populated with assholes.

 

[Cif]

Looks like someone needs attention.

"Oh, I'll show you what that guy wrote so you can tell me how beautiful and special I am. "

I'm not hating, I just don't get the point of this. 😀

It definitely reads like you're hating.

There is a very valid point, for anybody, male or female, to try and openly discuss if they're being abused or bullied in real life or on an internet forum.

I find it hard to believe people can get so emotionally involved as to write something so loaded.

 

[Phineas]

There is a very valid point, for anybody, male or female, to try and openly discuss if they're being abused or bullied in real life or on an internet forum.

Point. However, nobody here as the power to do anything about it except for the moderators, so the correct course of action would have been to block the sender and report him to the forum staff. All the rest of us can do is wring our hands and mock him. Which is kinda toothless, given that we don't even know who he is.

So... bad male user! No soup for you, whoever you are. I'm giggling derisively over the mental image of you impotently raging "you're just a pair of feet!" at a woman you've never even met. Don't do it again, or, I'll... keep... giggling. sigh.

 

[CherryBlossom]

thanks for the support everyone!!! 🙂

for the people who are saying I'm just trying to get attention, please consider that I made this thread to raise awareness for jerks like these who borderline harass others when they don't get the response they want (and perhaps for some soul comfort as well 😛) if i REALLY wanted attention, i'd post every mean thing he ever sent me.

 

[dr_random]

I don't think the goal so much is to point and laugh at this fool who threw a tempter tantrum because a stranger on a message board refused his advances (or maybe it is, I don't know), but this helps to illustrate a point on why some ladies aren't as visible or vocal in this group. There have been more than one thread asking "Where are all the female lees?" Because they don't want to deal with crazy dudes like that.
However, I don't want to cast a wide net, it's your classic case of a few bad apples.

 

[barefeetarebest]

, it's your classic case of a few bad apples.

Always responsible for everything that sucks!

 

[shygirl08]

"I was trying to be nice. Your a fat ,ugly, broke chick anyway. I just wanted to tickle you. You are not attractive!!! Good luck in the real world were nobody gives 2 shits about your corny ass. If I didn't share your fetish I garuntee I would have no reason to contact you. I hope it makes you feel good to talk down to people that are better off than you. You are in no position to assainate my character, especially the way you look. Your pretty fucking stupid, and this forum has impacted your self esteem. These people only contact you to tickle you thats it. Get off yourself you are nothing special, just a pair of feet to tickle.."

I think I've run into the same guy.. and from my experience? Every single word from him is projection. Just flip the "Your" to "I'm" and I think you'll find, if you knew him at all, how perfectly it fits.

Seriously, some people neeeeed to grow up and move on to other 'lees! 🙂

 

[Dtalbott13]

Wow thats crazy. Not everyone on here wants to tickle or talk about tickling all the time. He should know that. Some people come on here to make friends or just to talk!

 

[shygirl08]

Hell hath no fury like a narcissist rejected. 😉

 

[jhop220]

I see the problem...you're in Jersey...

Sorry, I couldn't resist that. Anyway, some guys have a strange way of dealing with rejection. This one seems to have resorted to harassment. They give the good people in this community and life in general a bad name.

They send you messages like that in hopes that they made you feel terrible. After that dickhead pressed send, he had big grin on his face and narcissistic thoughts run through his mind.

I'm happy to see you took it all in stride and didn't let a complete asshole rattle your feelings. To that guy, who is probably apart of this forum...you need to come to terms with yourself and learn to deal with rejection a little better. Go cry in a corner alone or something, but you won't get far by harassing people. You're also very lucky that the women who have met you haven't revealed who you are.

 

[Cif]

Point. However, nobody here as the power to do anything about it except for the moderators, so the correct course of action would have been to block the sender and report him to the forum staff. All the rest of us can do is wring our hands and mock him. Which is kinda toothless, given that we don't even know who he is.

So... bad male user! No soup for you, whoever you are. I'm giggling derisively over the mental image of you impotently raging "you're just a pair of feet!" at a woman you've never even met. Don't do it again, or, I'll... keep... giggling. sigh.

No names were mentioned and no harm is done.

Its important that if people wish to express these things, without starting a witch hunt, its important that as part of a community, they have the freedom to do this.

If people choose to mock this person, so be it, he kind of deserve it, but this shouldn't restrict other people's freedom to express concern to other users about the erratic behaviour of others. I hope a moderator was notified of the name of the person in question.

 

[TicklesFemales]

Sorry you had such a bad experience with this jerk CherryBlossom who ever he is.

 

[tickledorange]

Geez, return to sender

 

[DGF1976]

He's an asshole.

 

[gig1965]

2 words: Norman Bates!

 

[midnightlord619]

Wow, someone kick that guy in the head of something. That's just childish on his part. Good for you cherry for not wanting to meet up with him