Just watching

[Bondo]

An interesting question came up, and I thought I'd see if anyone shares this preference. I have never heard of it before, but it doesn't seem to far fetched.

A friend of mine says she likes tickling. I asked her if she prefers to be the tickler or the ticklee, and she said...

...neither...😕

She said she prefers to watch. She says she gets her kicks from watching someone dominate someone else with tickling, rather be involved in the activity.

Interesting. Never thought of that. Does anyone else share that preference, or know of someone who does?

Bondo

 

[Bugman]

Never heard of that myself,but to each his or her own i guess.

 

[Mephistopheles]

Once had an email correspondence with a man who was into that side of tickling; he was curious about how a ler like me (my nickname being "sadistictickler") felt about tickling, what drove me and so on.

 

[lk70]

We have a female member of the forum who only likes to watch. She was new about a month ago and had a GREAT thread. Can't recall her screen name at the moment.

 

[maniactickler]

I love watching. its the voyeur in me.

 

[Helena]

I love watching. its the voyeur in me.

😱 So the next time I'm being tickled, I'll be on the lookout for a high powered telephoto spy lens. 😱
😛oke3: *Begins installing new see-out-not-in glass to all windows* 😛oke3:
Checking the distance between Maniac's house and mine, I THINK I'm safe....

 

[unit5610]

😱 So the next time I'm being tickled, I'll be on the lookout for a high powered telephoto spy lens. 😱
😛oke3: *Begins installing new see-out-not-in glass to all windows* 😛oke3:
Checking the distance between Maniac's house and mine, I THINK I'm safe....

...but I'm just one very small state away with my telescope looking north toward your window. Don't worry though, it only activates when you laugh uncontrollably!

 

[leeboy]

I absoutely love to watch a woman get tickled ! That's why I download so many vids !

 

[Lionhart]

Watching is great.. Eventually I gotta get in the game though..

 

[Horatio]

Interesting

Well, although I like doing the tickling, I must admit that I enjoy watching f/f more, especially real-life f/f tickling.

 

[isabeau]

We have a female member of the forum who only likes to watch. She was new about a month ago and had a GREAT thread. Can't recall her screen name at the moment.

I believe her name is Mistress Aura..and she did have an excellent thread..

 

[Soda83pop]

I would probably fall into that category as well.

If I was married to a TMF'er who really got into, then it would be different...I am a pleaser in the bedroom and if that is what my lover wanted then she would get it. But my wife isnt into the scene at all...and I dont feel that my love life is lacking for it.

 

[Mistress Aura]

Still Around!



Right here!

Yeah, that's me, all about the voyeurism... lol

A lot has changed in the last month, too, now that I'm "out" with my husband--it's becoming more and more of a fascinating journey. Not that my reaction to the "response control" fetish is much different (I love you, Myriads, for giving it a name! ), but with the freedom of exploration, preferences are becoming much more honed... perhaps I should post the discoveries on a new thread in case it might assist someone else newer to the self-discovery and acceptance to see a kindred soul? Just a thought...

(And btw, here's an interesting tidbit: My son is home from the USCG, and he and his girlfriend are staying here. He cannot keep from tickling that girl, and I mean constantly. Since I've been here on TMF and submerged in research, I definitely recognize the fetish roots in his behaviour...I wonder if this fetish is genetic/hereditary? )

And while I'm at it, thanks, y'all, for the nice compliments on the original thread, too, it was sweet to see. Makes me feel like less of a total dweeb!

Mistress Aura

 

[TicklesFemales]

Just wanted to put my feelings in on this thread. I myself am a definite Tickler, love to tickle women especially their feet but do tickle all over. However I do like seeing another male tickle a ticklish female while I watched in person. I also like tickling a ticklish lady with another male two guys on one ticklish lady is a lot of fun for us guys....LOL some ladies really like it too...


TicklesFemales

 

[steph]

Nope, not a watcher here~strictly a participant!

XOXO

 

[maniactickler]

Nope, not a watcher here~strictly a participant!

XOXO

Can i watch you participate?

 

[ShadowTklr]

When I was a kid, of course the majority of my interest (tickling adult women) was restricted to voyeurism. I tickled when i could, but for the most part, I lived vicariously through the escapades of my aunt, older relatives, and scenes in cartoons and other shows.

Voyeurism, as fetishism, serves the abstract imagination. A voyeur will mostly prefer to project his/her own feelings, interpretation of what he/she sees, and even invent scenarios in his own mind which contours even unrelated activity to his specific sexual desires. For some Voyeurs, the practice of watching is also a self-imposed sexual denial, which serves to pique his excitement even more.

 

[lk70]

Thanks Izzy for remembering her for me, and Mistress Aura for piping in. I guess I'm not much of a watcher either. I actually think it's kind of boring! Except m/m. But let's not get into that again, please.