Listen to the archives of the Eric and kathy show from Thursday, 6/3. They say that some Dr. talks about a "fantasy box" that married couples should have to spice things up in the bedroom, where you just write down one word that describes a fantasy and put it in the box. Melissa's was "beach", Eric's was cheerleader, and Kathy's was "tickle" there was no other talk of this, I emailed her aand she just confirmed her answer with no explination....pretty cool, but makes me very curious what she wants.