Lack of courtesy

[Squishy]

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[Vanillaphant]

You know, sometimes when I see somebody declaring themselves a Switch, I do wonder whether they really mean they enjoy tickling as much as being tickled, or if they're simply denoting a sort of potential willingness to act as 'ler, if the circumstances are right. Which of course isn't quite the same as having a genuine desire to play the part of 'ler. So perhaps you've just been unlucky in this respect.

I suppose the only way to avoid disappointment where these matters are concerned is for both parties to be upfront as regards their expectations for the tickle date (or whatever you want to call it) beforehand. Hopefully your luck will change. 🙂

Also:

I haven't received so much as a poke in years

Sorry, but couldn't resist a snigger at this. It's also quite hard to believe, considering your username! 😀

 

[Raytheon]

You can negotiate a solid scene, safe words, roles and consent, but at the end of the day no one is obligated to do anything. Its a hard pill to swallow as a randy guy whos just spent the last few hours looking forward to the revenge but there is no alternative.

Part of meeting up is respecting the wishes of the people your meeting with, if they choose not to play with you, thats their choice. All you can do is be happy you got to have an experience tickling someone and as Vanillaphant mentions, maybe put more of an emphasis on what you would like from play in the future 🙂

 

[mindy]

So someone not meeting your expectations is a lack of courtesy? Sounds like someone has some growing up to do. What you probably need to do is a better job of talking about how each of you defines "both" and how you feel about tickling each other so that you are both clear on what to expect.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

...go first next time?

 

[Vanillaphant]

...go first next time?

And dishonour the time-honoured, chivalrous custom of ladies first...?! Shame on you, sir!




(But yeah, you should definitely do this. Double-sided coin wouldn't hurt, either.) 😀

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

i'm pretty sure alot of them aren't lying about being both or a switch. They may only do it with certain people and not
many so you can't really say you get burnt out on them. Some also favor one more then the other. I am a switch and
just me sometimes I just want to be a lee, and sometimes i'm a ler, shit sometimes i'm in a lee mood and i'll ler depending
on the situation but every girl is different in that category.