Ok many ticklers like the idea of tickling someone that hates being tickled or just really tickling them against their will.. Now i love feet, i think they are sexy. i'll tickle, massage feet all day but i don't like kissing feet, licking or sucking on toes.. only because to me its degrading.. i don't think people are weird that do like it.. to each their own.. now if i end up with a girl and thats what really turn her on, then i'll do it, i will want to do that.. but i just hate the thought of being down there lowering myself to a girl with a power trip.. so what i'm curious to know, and i know not all girls that like their feet worshipped see it the same, do some of you women much rather have a guy worshipping your feet against his will? kind of like tickling someone that hates it?
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Ladies that like their feet lick/kissed question
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aurora5150
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i do enjoy when my ler tickles my toes with his tongue but i don't expect them to. if a ler doesn't want to do something i may ask for i just say "ok" and we go on with whatever we want to do. because it's just as bad if the ler does something that they don't enjoy as it is for a lee to be made to endure something they don't enjoy. we all have different feelings about stuff and i believe that if my ler really doesn't want to do something i am not going to enjoy it knowing that my partner doesn't.
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Chuck D said:
My answer would be yes, I love it. I like to be in control of everything in the bedroom department and forcing someone to do something feels great. Yes it can feel degrading or humiliating but it's not really, and it's not really forced either, well, obviously to some extent it is or I wouldn't be in control, but before I do anything like that with anyone I have always had lots of conversations with them to find out what they are into and make sure we are compatible.
I agree with Ayla, but there are also some people who are FAR better
than others at this kind of thing, and some people just have a creepy
touch, and there's no way I'd want their mouth on or near my feet.
And then, I'm always a little worried about where someone's mouth
has been, no matter the condition of my feet!
When the right person is kissing, licking or sucking on my feet/toes,
it's amazing.
Lee
than others at this kind of thing, and some people just have a creepy
touch, and there's no way I'd want their mouth on or near my feet.
And then, I'm always a little worried about where someone's mouth
has been, no matter the condition of my feet!
When the right person is kissing, licking or sucking on my feet/toes,
it's amazing.
Lee
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Chuck D, I understand exactly what you are saying man. I could be wrong, but I get the feeling that you are a "top" kind of guy, and you don't want to kiss/lick a chick's feet because it will make you feel like a "bottom."
Well for me, how a person does something determines if they are a top or bottom, not just the act. I like to kiss and lick my girlfriend's feet, but I only kiss them because she doesn't like them licked. However, she isn't sitting in a chair with me down at her feet "worshipping" her feet. I don't worship her feet, I "love on them."
And when I love on them she is laying down or she is tied up, so when I do it, I'm the one in control.
For example, I'll hogtie my girlfriend and tickle the shit out of her. Then, as a way to wind her down, I'll love on her feet. I caress them, massage them and kiss them. And I do all that to her toes too of course. And she loves it. I got her. And I got her even if she isn't tied up.
So, you can love on a girl's feet and let yourself have the power trip.
Well for me, how a person does something determines if they are a top or bottom, not just the act. I like to kiss and lick my girlfriend's feet, but I only kiss them because she doesn't like them licked. However, she isn't sitting in a chair with me down at her feet "worshipping" her feet. I don't worship her feet, I "love on them."
And when I love on them she is laying down or she is tied up, so when I do it, I'm the one in control.
For example, I'll hogtie my girlfriend and tickle the shit out of her. Then, as a way to wind her down, I'll love on her feet. I caress them, massage them and kiss them. And I do all that to her toes too of course. And she loves it. I got her. And I got her even if she isn't tied up.
So, you can love on a girl's feet and let yourself have the power trip.
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Believe me ladies ... I WANT to!!!
Ayla ny said:
Believe me ladies ... I WANT to!!!
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I'd NEVER have to be forced to worship pretty feet. But being made to beg desperately and sincerely for it , as some momentary relief from merciless tickling, is VERY erotic. 😛oke3: 
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It's rather hard to force a man to worship your feet, even if he is tied up, I mean, he does have to co-operate and open his mouth...and then, he can't bite, he needs to lick, worship, suck toes, arch, and the heel of my foot.
What I DO when I want to force someone/humiliate them with my foot, is that I tie him down on the floor, a chair or my bondge bed and put my foot ON him, not in him.
And much like Lee Allure wrote, I wouldn't want my yummy foot in some people's mouth....
Just 'cause someone begs and I let them begin, once they start, I'll know within 5 seconds if I'm going to let them continue kissing/massaging my foot, lots of people flunk in those moments and I just take my feet away and do something else.
Mistress Stephanie Locke
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p.s. for those who DO love to worship toes and feet, my Members Only Section has finally opened on my website with some glorious close-ups of my bare naked toes...
What I DO when I want to force someone/humiliate them with my foot, is that I tie him down on the floor, a chair or my bondge bed and put my foot ON him, not in him.
And much like Lee Allure wrote, I wouldn't want my yummy foot in some people's mouth....
Just 'cause someone begs and I let them begin, once they start, I'll know within 5 seconds if I'm going to let them continue kissing/massaging my foot, lots of people flunk in those moments and I just take my feet away and do something else.
Mistress Stephanie Locke
www.stephanielocke.com
p.s. for those who DO love to worship toes and feet, my Members Only Section has finally opened on my website with some glorious close-ups of my bare naked toes...
Right on.. i appreciate the feedback.. now i have a second part to the question.. it dawned on me when i was having a conversation with a friend of mine, pretty much the same subject, but with different ingredience.. anyways, does anyone use excessive tickling until the ticklee agrees to kiss feet, suck/lick on toes?
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Ayla ny said:
Excellent response. There are enough guys like me who love to lick and suck women's feet and toes that you women who want it should never have to force anybody.
Oh my. So many issues to consider here. My wife Melinda and I have been involved together in kinky and fetish activity as a couple since 1991. Before that we each had begun exploring all that stuff in the early 1980’s. When we met we found that we had a lot of mutual interests, such as BDSM, bondage, spanking, tattoo art, and yes, feet.
The tickling would come a bit later, but in combination and relative to some of our other “things”. I have always been an SM “Top” (or “Dom”). When we met, M manifested her ideals and roles as only an SM bottom (or “submissive”). However, after a few years she developed some of her own Dominant side as well, with others. At home and in our own relationship we maintained the same roles we had always had. Thus she only bottoms/subs/”lees” to me and select other Ler’s.
With our foot interest it was a bit different. We both enjoyed a bunch of footsie play. We didn’t see top or bottom roles in our foot play time, at least with each other. I thoroughly enjoy shrimping toes, and kissing feet of my missus, and a small handful of very close lady friends. And they seem to enjoy it pretty much as well. Granted ladies who’s feet are sensitive and are already attuned to foot play find a more natural and immediate enjoyment of that than those who are less foot oriented.
M and I participated in the first ever “Foot Fetish” panel that the Black Rose Society (Washington, DC’s BDSM support organization) put on in autumn 1994. Following that we presented at The Eulenspiegel Society’s 25th anniversary convention (“TES25”) in 1996, and the following year, a similar DC based convention at “BR10”. We have been always aware, that we are in a –very- small minority of foot fans. While nearly all male foot fans, who do shrimp toes and kiss female feet identify themselves as submissive; we guess the ratio may be as high as 90 to 98 percent of male foot fans who are primarily sub.
With that high of a prevalence, they frequently (and rather mistakenly imho) think and post “as if” all guys are like that, as if there is a one hundred percent co-relationship between foot “worship” and submissiveness to Dominant women.
So much so that I have to state in our presentations that from my p.o.v. that I don’t view the footsie play that I do with ladies as “foot worship” at all, but instead foot ‘admiration’. I hasten to add, as does my wife, that we feel foot play can be viewed as virtually non-fetishistic between loving couples, and can easily be regarded as ‘vanilla’ play to be enjoyed by any folks who are attuned to sensory mutual love-play. A friend of ours (a former Ms Ohio Leather) labeled what we used to do as “toe 69”.
I don’t view my kissing feet and toes as ‘degrading’ at all. To me it is merely a loving and sensual act that I can share with my wife and some few ladies who are close friends of M and I.
I do know that many loving and sensual activity is attached to very personal, individual, primal, and ‘subjective’ emotions. Thus a person’s individual thoughts on how they feel about performing certain acts are involved with and connected to the emotions they bring with them about the activity itself.
Unfortunately since such a huge majority of male foot fans view foot kissing as the virtually exclusive domain of the submissive, they have skewed the public’s viewpoint such that it is generally not regarded as something that many (or any) male dominant’s would do with their lover or play partner.
We must realize, ---PARTICULARLY--- those of us in the world with admittedly, more special and extraordinary (“kinky and fetishistic”) ways of expressing our sensuality with each other, that there are myriads of varieties of different ways of such expression. There may be predominant forms and styles, but “nothing” absolutely nothing is only done one way or for one reason, or emotion.
Another reason that the notion of guys kissing women’s feet is the exclusive domain of submissives is that there are very large amounts of money to be made by Female Dominatrices from guys who are willing to pay for the hope of kissing Dommes’ feet. Even though my wife did some Pro Domme work a couple of years ago (and made quite a bit of money at it per session), she would not allow her customers to do foot kissing.
We feel that it’s a rather intimate act ourselves, thus why we usually reserve it for ourselves and only a few very close friends.
But I personally feel that there is nothing degrading in any way to my sharing that intimacy with someone close to me. Two of my closest male friends are also foot fetishists. One is a dominant and the other a submissive, and both (just as I myself) enjoy kissing the peds of their ladies, and they both simply enjoy the pure sensuality of the act itself.
It’s been at least 3 or 4 years since the last time M and I trotted out our footsie presentation. I think we both just got tired of attempting to present some of the things we find enjoyable about foot fun and fetish, and to try to present that our views are only some of many that are available to foot fans. But when the larger community is not really interested in hearing us, we’re kinda just wasting our time, and we slip back into our silent observation modes.
Spenser
The tickling would come a bit later, but in combination and relative to some of our other “things”. I have always been an SM “Top” (or “Dom”). When we met, M manifested her ideals and roles as only an SM bottom (or “submissive”). However, after a few years she developed some of her own Dominant side as well, with others. At home and in our own relationship we maintained the same roles we had always had. Thus she only bottoms/subs/”lees” to me and select other Ler’s.
With our foot interest it was a bit different. We both enjoyed a bunch of footsie play. We didn’t see top or bottom roles in our foot play time, at least with each other. I thoroughly enjoy shrimping toes, and kissing feet of my missus, and a small handful of very close lady friends. And they seem to enjoy it pretty much as well. Granted ladies who’s feet are sensitive and are already attuned to foot play find a more natural and immediate enjoyment of that than those who are less foot oriented.
M and I participated in the first ever “Foot Fetish” panel that the Black Rose Society (Washington, DC’s BDSM support organization) put on in autumn 1994. Following that we presented at The Eulenspiegel Society’s 25th anniversary convention (“TES25”) in 1996, and the following year, a similar DC based convention at “BR10”. We have been always aware, that we are in a –very- small minority of foot fans. While nearly all male foot fans, who do shrimp toes and kiss female feet identify themselves as submissive; we guess the ratio may be as high as 90 to 98 percent of male foot fans who are primarily sub.
With that high of a prevalence, they frequently (and rather mistakenly imho) think and post “as if” all guys are like that, as if there is a one hundred percent co-relationship between foot “worship” and submissiveness to Dominant women.
So much so that I have to state in our presentations that from my p.o.v. that I don’t view the footsie play that I do with ladies as “foot worship” at all, but instead foot ‘admiration’. I hasten to add, as does my wife, that we feel foot play can be viewed as virtually non-fetishistic between loving couples, and can easily be regarded as ‘vanilla’ play to be enjoyed by any folks who are attuned to sensory mutual love-play. A friend of ours (a former Ms Ohio Leather) labeled what we used to do as “toe 69”.
I don’t view my kissing feet and toes as ‘degrading’ at all. To me it is merely a loving and sensual act that I can share with my wife and some few ladies who are close friends of M and I.
I do know that many loving and sensual activity is attached to very personal, individual, primal, and ‘subjective’ emotions. Thus a person’s individual thoughts on how they feel about performing certain acts are involved with and connected to the emotions they bring with them about the activity itself.
Unfortunately since such a huge majority of male foot fans view foot kissing as the virtually exclusive domain of the submissive, they have skewed the public’s viewpoint such that it is generally not regarded as something that many (or any) male dominant’s would do with their lover or play partner.
We must realize, ---PARTICULARLY--- those of us in the world with admittedly, more special and extraordinary (“kinky and fetishistic”) ways of expressing our sensuality with each other, that there are myriads of varieties of different ways of such expression. There may be predominant forms and styles, but “nothing” absolutely nothing is only done one way or for one reason, or emotion.
Another reason that the notion of guys kissing women’s feet is the exclusive domain of submissives is that there are very large amounts of money to be made by Female Dominatrices from guys who are willing to pay for the hope of kissing Dommes’ feet. Even though my wife did some Pro Domme work a couple of years ago (and made quite a bit of money at it per session), she would not allow her customers to do foot kissing.
We feel that it’s a rather intimate act ourselves, thus why we usually reserve it for ourselves and only a few very close friends.
But I personally feel that there is nothing degrading in any way to my sharing that intimacy with someone close to me. Two of my closest male friends are also foot fetishists. One is a dominant and the other a submissive, and both (just as I myself) enjoy kissing the peds of their ladies, and they both simply enjoy the pure sensuality of the act itself.
It’s been at least 3 or 4 years since the last time M and I trotted out our footsie presentation. I think we both just got tired of attempting to present some of the things we find enjoyable about foot fun and fetish, and to try to present that our views are only some of many that are available to foot fans. But when the larger community is not really interested in hearing us, we’re kinda just wasting our time, and we slip back into our silent observation modes.
Spenser
I like your perception there spenser.. and i really don't mind foot play when its something to be enjoyed between partner.. its funny to see someone trying to get away from feet in their face, though i wouldn't want to be in that spot.. and i love watching someone getting put into a fit of laughing by toes wiggling on their ticklish spots
