Lee's , do you like having your limits tested or stay in your comfort zone?

[leeboy]

Limits ???

 

[LindyHopper]

I've never used a safeword, but my favorite tickling sessions are the ones where I seriously consider it.

 

[SirDigbyChickenCaesar]

I've never been pushed to the point that I had to use a safeword, but I know that I definitely want to be taken to the edge.

 

[ticklebear2]

EXCELLENT THOUGHT TICKLESHOTEL

I am more for having my limits pushed to the breaking point and beyond. I have always been a sucker for sweet tickling pleasure. I think I would probably have give my ler/lers a safeword to use for me.

 

[ticklishscribe]

I'll test someone's limits, but unfortunately due to an auto injury to my lower back, my limits can only bwe tested so far. I wish my limits could be tested.​

As a Lee , I enjoy having my limits tested to see how much and how long I can endure . With some tickling sessions , the tickling can be alot more intense with a Ler who knows what he,she is doing and I have said my safeword in no time Other times , I can be tickled by a number of Ler's at same time and I go crazy with laughter but don't break .

I'd like to hear other Lee's views , comments

 

[Aragon]

Well, expept for my ribs and the fact I am usually the Ler, I love having my limits gone past. The only person who could do it had me doing things that were interesting. I doubt any woman could do it again, unfortunately.

 

[Em Es]

I need a tickler who WILL drive me crazy

I have not been tickled beyond the limit since I was a kid, when the ticklings I endured were sneak attacks from adults and bigger children. That was long before I ever thought I would actively switch with or submit to a female playmate.

As an adult, I've only been the restrained subject of dominatrix ticklers. None has made me plea for mercy yet, but no fewer than five might have had they not let up even though I didn't ask for a break. My ribs and the especially the soles of my feet were the spots they were working when I thought I was approaching the "mercy" cry.

While I will always be primarily a tickler of women, I would like to experience a skilled female tickler pushing me to the breaking point.

 

[Spenser]

All,
Read back about a year or so ago, a huge and long thread discussion on safewords (very erudite, ... and very informative). Safewords and exlploring limits are not exclusively delimiting, nor do they preclude each other. Players and partners can (imo) and ought to have safewords, but the individual negotiation of play amd play styles can certainly take off form there. Play among casual friends, acquaintences, and party guests may obviously take different forms than play among dedicated, frequent, or life partners.
Other than those simple precautions, a healthy sense of adventure and a sincere respect for our friends and partners are all that is required.

PS: the universal safeword at House Affleck is "RED"

 

[njjen3953]

Spenser,
Awesome post. You definitely got across what I was trying to convey, much better than I did.

And in just over 100 words at that.

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[Anna6-9]

It depends on what kind of mood Im in but I do enjoy seeing how far I can be pushed. Finding the point where I feel like Im gonna turn inside out. As far as safewords go I never use one with my husband because I trust that he knows when I trully cant handle any more. He has a sixth sense about it I think. As far as other "players" go I probably would have a safeword but I dont like to use them. Its like admitting defeat and I ALWAYS feel I have something to prove (I can take it! Bring it on!). But that brings a need for the ler to want to MAKE me use the safeword (I usually say NEVER!)

 

[badreligion]

for right now id love to be pushed to the limit cause ive never had a ler tickle me to my breaking point so id like to see what it is

 

[tickles]

Well, I'll be attending NEST in a week and I'm hoping to find out the answer to that question!

 

[mrmiguu]

Unequivocally...

TEST AWAY!!! Push it....push it real good....the limits, that is!

 

[MrTicklee]

Very Ticklish Man

I, too, like may of the previous posters enjoy having my limits pushed. I do, however, use a safeword. It is then up to me to test my limits...how much more of this can I handle. Hmmm...love it.

MrTicklee

 

[jj82277]

Very well put, jen. I couldn't have said it better myself. I too, almost never use the safeword. I think I have used it maybe 10 times in 31 years of being tied up and tickle-tortured an average of 3 times per week. But there has to be one. As much as I love being tortured (and not just with tickling) and being pushed to my limits of endurance, the safeword has to be respected. I know the dangers of relentless tickling of a helpless lee. I've imagined it must be like using hallucinogenic drugs -- so pleasurable, but you better be able to know when too much is enough.

Love,
Jean

This is just another of my contractual sleepy jean is my hero posts. she is one of the most shinning examples that if you create an enviornment of emotional honesty, safety , and comfort you can unlokc the greatest treasure ever created for man-the infinity of the FEMALE sexuality.

to the question at hand it is a good question. i can think of two better ones.

1.) what is a limit. the psychological perceptions of the lee about what they can take or what they can actually take. there is usually a disconnect between the two, and from what i can tell there is an almost INHERENT difference between what they tell you and what it really is. it's jsut the nature of the beast in My humble oppinion (there is a really cool quote on it in my sig).

2.) how man lees NEED their boundaries and limits pushed and or broken. the one thing that i am beginning to see as more and more common place that the entire concept of power exchane is more illusion than i previously ever imagined. in most observed cases conciously or subconciously the lee is the initiator of (throuhg subtle or overt provocation), sustainer of throuhg begging and or insulting, and terminator of play (safeword). the interesting thing is the large number of noncon lees. even more interesting is the fact that these individuals usually try to conceal their true desires. so my question would be how many lees among you NEED to have your boundaries pushed or even crossed to achieve the fundamental level of helplessness and subspace euphoria that you really crave (usually as a counterbalance to otherwise very dominant personalities)?

 

[Gaz]

Love to be tested

I love to have my limits tested, it is rare for me to ask a tickler to stop, apart from a short break to catch my breath. The more the better.

 

[DimpleToes]

I have always wanted to see what my limits just are... any takersssss?????

 

[Sleepy Jean]

I have always wanted to see what my limits just are... any takersssss?????

My limits have varied. I have on occasion had to use the safeword, but when it was when I was being tickled there were some extraordinary circuimstances that made me use it. Normally, I play the brave little soldier and endure the tickling without complaints. I usually outlast my husband. He reaches a point where he has to finish the job even though I can take (and I want) more torture.

I tested my limits once when I was tied to a beam in the attic. My hands were bound above my head, with my wrists connected to the beam. My ankles were tied together and I was lifted off the floor to where only my toes were touching. Even though I was young and in the best shape of my life, I only lasted 28 minutes in that position. Hell, after 10 I was in screaming pain.

Love,
Jean

 

[tulipangel]

I love to be pushed to the breaking point. I dont like safe words and want to be broken down 🙂

 

[Soda Bobinski]

I have always wanted to see what my limits just are... any takersssss?????

lol ... Prepare thyself for the flood of PMs , darlin'.

 

[njjen3953]

I love to be pushed to the breaking point. I dont like safe words and want to be broken down 🙂

😕 If you don't have a safe word, how will your Ler KNOW when you are at your breaking point?

Jen

 

[DimpleToes]

lol ... Prepare thyself for the flood of PMs , darlin'.

hehehehe.. none so far

 

[paracarl44]

You might get a Good TEST by attending NEST.

NEST might be the place to check your endurance limits.

 

[DimpleToes]

awww. I am not coming to nest.. pouts

 

[paracarl44]

Awww

^What is going to happen with all those people Who expect a Hug?😕