giggle-maker
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Are there any lees who genuinely hate to be tickled but still voluntarily want to be tied up and tickled because they want the tortue?
i started out hating it btu wanting it,.. somewhere along the line that changed
Are there any lees who genuinely hate to be tickled but still voluntarily want to be tied up and tickled because they want the tortue?
Right, but do you now enjoy it?
What I was referring to are lees that still hate the tickling but like to be tortured by it.
I was at a gathering in Albany where NJJen said, roughly, that tickling is absolute torture for her, but she wants it, because she's a masochist.
There's an element of control in playing out fears or trauma, a way of sexualising fears and taking ownership of what, in some situations, has been used to hurt or disempower.
When I play out a masochistic fantasy, I get a rush not only from the sex, but also from the knowledge that I've found a way to alter my reaction to fear/trauma.
I'm not suggesting that everyone who is sexually masochistic is so due to trauma. However, it's one way of looking at why such a lot of us ask for what we hate, tickling or otherwise.
Lucy
, but tickling isn't something i hate.Agreed, I am, with the sentiments of many. I love the feeling (what very few times I've had it) but absolutely cannot stand it at the same time. No matter how much I do enjoy it I cannot sit still for even the lightest touch. My body recoils and flees, despite what my brain tells it to do. 😀
I love it when lee's hate being tickled... to me that's the ultimate power exchange, when someone doesn't want to laugh or smile, and you force them to do it anyway.
I absolutely hate beeing tickled, but often think about it anyway. 😀