Lees turning into great Lers

[Yankee22]

I used to be with a girl who the longer we were together the more and more she got into tickling. When we were first getting together she was awful at tickling. Funny thing was though I noticed that the more I tickled her, she'd remember all the methods I used on her, so that after a while she became a really great (and somewhat merciless) ler. Then the better she got at tickling and the better reactions she'd get out of me got her more into it in general. Anyone else ever notice something like this happen?

 

[stockytickler]

Like any skill you get better with practice. Especially as she got to know your body and your responses better her instincts sharpened and she was increasingly better able to devastate you.

I'm sure I'll be a much better tickler in 10 years than I am now. 🙂

 

[-Hari-]

yeh, my girlfriend was originally not into tickling at all, She seemed more up for trying out being tickled than tickling but she has proved from her first attempt an onwards that shes a very effective ler 😀

 

[TickleMyFancy]

My favorite lee turned out to be a brutal ler. She said she mimicked what I did to her, so I'd have to agree with your theory.

 

[Emishticklish]

This is very true. Before becoming a Switch I'd been a Lee.....this didn't last long, as the first GF I had was just too ticklish for me to resist....and I came up with my own methods as well as used the ones that made me shoot through the roof. 🙂

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

Lees who are ticklish in lots of different places tend to know exactly where to attack. We know that part of the inner thigh that's especially ticklish, that place just below the armpit, and basically all of the sweet spots that tend to be ticklish on lots of people. Someone who isn't ticklish, or who hasn't gotten tickled a lot, is going to have to do a lot more searching for ticklish spots. Ticklish lees know exactly where to dig in because we know where we are ticklish.

 

[3xPIN]

Girls that tickle me get what I call a 'tickle addiction.' They love it. They hone their tickling abilities on me after mapping out my spots. The last one learned that her nails were more scratchy than tickly; she only tickles me on my feet with the pads of her fingers and my belly and sides through my shirt. She is getting brutal.

 

[TickVix]

I can agree with what has been stated on this thread. I found that though I enjoy being tickled, I really like to tickle back. So who knows? Maybe I'm on the road to a possible ler transformation lol.

 

[FLBowler]

That's why the stay gay sex is amazing, because you know exactly how to make it feel as good as possible. Same concpt those who are tickled the most will eventually know what tickles the most in a general standpoint

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i too agree. my relationship with my wife started out strictly me ler, her lee. now she's more the ler and me the lee. she has become a past master at tickling me! we both love it this way too.

steve

 

[robmic]

"My favorite lee turned out to be a brutal ler. She said she mimicked what I did to her, so I'd have to agree with your theory. "

I always wondered if that could happen.....

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I think lees who ler have a bit of an edge over lers who aren't ticklish or never lee. For one, if you're switching with somebody who has tickled you, a good place to start is where/how they ler. People usually default with what they're most familiar with, so they're probably going to try to tickle you in ways/places that are effective on them. Lees know how different touches feel, how they, themselves, react and I think they can be pretty good at recognizing those reactions in others. Second of all, lees have a good idea of what kinds of things fuck them up mentally, and can put that information to good use if and when they decide to switch.

 

[Mane'o]

My personal experience has been similar to many of the other replies to this discussion - the lee can also become a pretty effective ler and I have found being in the submissive role can make one better in the dominant role whether tickling or other forms of play. However, I have also found some who only prefer one role whether lee or ler with no apparent interest in the reverse role. It is all the variation that makes life interesting. How boring it would be if we all had exactly the same tastes and desires.