'Lees: When the tickling actually begins....do you regret it?

[The Internet]

The psychology and a thought-process of a 'lee is so fascinating to me, in part because I'm a 'ler and not overly susceptible. Where were you all my life, lees!

The idea that you're sitting there thinking "I hope he tickles me, I hope he tickles me..." and maybe you're even tempting him (or her).....or maybe you're just submitting to a session, and you've wanted this and you've planned for this, and you maybe have traveled somewhere, spent time and money.....and now, it's about to happen, for real, not in your mind anymore, but real......

Once it starts, are you like....oh sh*t........I change my mind! I change my mind! Why do I put myself in these positions? (etc etc)

Basically, what's the process you go through,being a ticklee...I would imagine it's in three distinct stages: before, during and after.

Anyways.....is it possible to enjoy it while its happening? Or is it stop stop stop...yes.....stop stop stop....yes!

Also, 'lees....even though you're lees...and you like it.....are there some spots or methods that, lee or no lee, you don't want to ever go through again?

It looks like it tickles really bad, I have to tell you, at least from my vantage point! You guys go crazy! You poor, adorable things! 🙂

 

[LaurenLove]

No. I always make sure I know what I'm getting into. Not so much about how bad the tickle torture will be but more so about the guy who has me restrained. I need to trust him fully. If I can, then no regets at all. Unless boundaries and limits aren't respected which is obvious. Other then that, it's fair game.

 

[gentlefeather007]

No. I always make sure I know what I'm getting into. Not so much about how bad the tickle torture will be but more so about the guy who has me restrained. I need to trust him fully. If I can, then no regets at all. Unless boundaries and limits aren't respected which is obvious. Other then that, it's fair game.

This is so true, limits and safety must be respected, and all else is fair game!! 😉

 

[kevin_kidnapped]

It's a love hate, love hate, rinse and repeat, love hate love thing for me. It's hard to explan the lee thing other than to maybe compare it to a roller coaster. The anticipation and heart racing as your taking that long slow ride up to the top of the tracks can be compared to the preparation as your ler (whom you hopefully trust!) ties you up and dangles their wiggling fingers or tickle toys over your helpless body. Once they pounce on you, it's like the shear terror you experience when that roller coaster takes its first big plunge over the edge. The only difference is, at least with me, I'm laughing uncontrollably through the twists, turns, climbs and drops, as compared to constant screaming on a coaster ride. But just like a coaster, when you return back to the platform ( or catch a break and your breath from your ler), you have a big smile on your face and want to jump back in line again to ride the tickle roller coaster once more!! Go figure!! 🙂

 

[shygirl5]

It's a love hate, love hate, rinse and repeat, love hate love thing for me. It's hard to explan the lee thing other than to maybe compare it to a roller coaster. The anticipation and heart racing as your taking that long slow ride up to the top of the tracks can be compared to the preparation as your ler (whom you hopefully trust!) ties you up and dangles their wiggling fingers or tickle toys over your helpless body. Once they pounce on you, it's like the shear terror you experience when that roller coaster takes its first big plunge over the edge. The only difference is, at least with me, I'm laughing uncontrollably through the twists, turns, climbs and drops, as compared to constant screaming on a coaster ride. But just like a coaster, when you return back to the platform ( or catch a break and your breath from your ler), you have a big smile on your face and want to jump back in line again to ride the tickle roller coaster once more!! Go figure!! 🙂

that's cute. LOL ....looking forward to taking that ride again soon? hmmm?? 😉

 

[kevin_kidnapped]

Perhaps...lol!!

 

[TigerChick22]

For me, it's not so much regret, or "No, I changed my mind!!". It's more like "Why do I like this?!" My body, yes, is being messed with and tortured, so to speak, while my mind is all into it. It's something that I can't really explain well. Being tickled is just the most fun, sexy form of affection for me.

There are spots that I can't handle and become too torturous to love after a short time... But that's no fun for anyone because if they are over exploited, then I safe word in like two minutes and tickle time is over. Lol! I'll always let him explore them a tiny bit, though. It's never instant regret.

 

[The Internet]

For me, it's not so much regret, or "No, I changed my mind!!". It's more like "Why do I like this?!" My body, yes, is being messed with and tortured, so to speak, while my mind is all into it. It's something that I can't really explain well. Being tickled is just the most fun, sexy form of affection for me.

There are spots that I can't handle and become too torturous to love after a short time... But that's no fun for anyone because if they are over exploited, then I safe word in like two minutes and tickle time is over. Lol! I'll always let him explore them a tiny bit, though. It's never instant regret.

Beautifully said and expressed, wow, your MIND is all into it. Fascinating. So your mind is almost divorced from your body? Or, I'm assuming, you can barely think anyways, right, because you're in the moment.

I've only ever used a safeword with a girl once....a girl I didn't know that well.....you know what I made her safeword? "I love you"! HAHAHAHAHAA. And then when she'd say it, I'd say, "You do? Awwww!" and practically turn to jelly and stop tickling and, like, caress her face or hold her and make her feel safe... be really nice for a minute while she caught her breath, haha. It was so cute. 🙂

 

[bethaknee]

I wouldn't say regret. But, I can say that I've thought "oh fuck! what did I get myself into?!" while getting my feet worked over with a hairbrush. I may protest a lot but I love it and usually the person tickling me knows that and won't stop unless I use a safeword (which is rare).

 

[Wade]

Absolutely, every time, 100%. I've been in situations where I've subtly invited tickling, or behaved in a manner that makes getting tickled a likely outcome, but the instant my body starts twitching in response to someone's fingertips, the involuntary and helpless physicality of the experience overwhelms me, panic takes over and I'm all "I take it back! Undo it! Undo it!"

(And then there are the times when I haven't invited the tickling at all. I regret it when the tickling starts then, too.)

The moment I'm freed from the threat of tickling, of course, all that regret goes away. Until the next time it starts up again, It's a weird thing.