Ler or Lee???

[gentlefeather007]

Has anyone else on this forum felt for most of their lives they were a 'ler only to discover a they get the chance to play that they are merely a helpless 'lee???
I spent most of my life feeling in control strong and confident, now I don't see myself that way any more!!!
I'd rather be controlled than control and that is so unlike me!!!
I never saw myself as a 'lee, helpless on the receiving end, I saw myself as the dominant 'ler, master of the scene, in and in control!!
There is nothing at all wrong with being a 'lee but I just never saw myself that way before!!!
Is that normal or am I going psycho????
Has anyone else felt this way before???
And by the way, I have never played before so I am not just bored with being a 'ler.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

yup i'm there with ya.

steve

 

[Tickleyou]

Im there too! Someone taught me how fun it is to be a lee!

 

[Studious_Hustler]

It's cliche but it's true that those who are dominant in daily life enjoy being submissive in bed, and vice versa. Besides, every healthy person has both dominant and submissive sides to their personality. So basically, no, of course you're not going psycho.

 

[C.A.B.]

It's cliche but it's true that those who are dominant in daily life enjoy being submissive in bed, and vice versa. Besides, every healthy person has both dominant and submissive sides to their personality. So basically, no, of course you're not going psycho.

Not quite.

 

[tickmankyle1]

In the very beginning I felt like a Ler, but not now I love being a Lee. I know the norm I think is males are Ler's. I feel at gatherings women think most men want just want a lee to tickle. Not a male Lee wanting a Ler. Might be wrong, more fun giving up control then having it.

 

[gentlefeather007]

Still not sure how I feel about this but ladies there I a new lee in town!!!
I am apparently a tickle toy now, so any interested ladies looking for a male 'lee to dominate pm me!!

 

[Sandisk444]

I'm doing that right now actually. I was always just a sole 'ler but I started to get more and more interested in being on the other side of it but I've NEVER been tickled before, not even playfully (as far as I can remember though) so it's grown more and more and now I just want to try it. I don't think I can consider myself a complete lee though because I still love being the tickler. It's mostly just the fact that I have been kept from the experience of it so it's more prominent.

 

[ticklehound]

I used to be a complete 'ler, 100% of the time... but as I got older, I really wanted to explore my submissive side. Most of my life, I've had to be strong, assertive, self-assured. I couldn't afford to appear weak. With tickling though, I really like being vulnerable in front of a beautiful woman I can trust. While I've had some fun here & there, I've never lived out that fantasy. I imagine it would sure as hell be better than therapy, that's for sure.
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[gentlefeather007]

I used to be a complete 'ler, 100% of the time... but as I got older, I really wanted to explore my submissive side. Most of my life, I've had to be strong, assertive, self-assured. I couldn't afford to appear weak. With tickling though, I really like being vulnerable in front of a beautiful woman I can trust. While I've had some fun here & there, I've never lived out that fantasy. I imagine it would sure as hell be better than therapy, that's for sure.
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I'd sign for tickle therapy at the hands of a beautiful woman anyday!!!!
My health care probably wouldn't cover it though!! lol

 

[JoePTickle]

I do both, if it's available, and enjoy them equally. Since all my sessions involve women, it just depends. Most prefer being the ler when we first meet.

In the very beginning I felt like a Ler, but not now I love being a Lee. I know the norm I think is males are Ler's. I feel at gatherings women think most men want just want a lee to tickle. Not a male Lee wanting a Ler. Might be wrong, more fun giving up control then having it.

 

[tickleshotel]

Yep,Id always thought of myself as a ticklee for majority of my life,until one year about 7 yrs ago when I attended Nest gathering and I was invited to participate as a tickler tickling a ladies hubby with consent . I was nervous wondering if I had the skills as a tickler and I was amazed when the lady of the couple commented that Im a pretty damn good tickler as well as a great ticklee..So No your not going pyscho ..

 

[voided9]

I've literally always been a switch, which has made my fetish a whole lot easier to indulge.

 

[Lord Doctor]

Always been 50/50.

 

[male_ticklee2]

I'm 98% lee (love being tickled submissively) and 2% ler.