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Lers, How did you do it??

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Hey all. Long time lurker, first time poster.

I'm curious for all of you Lers out there. How many of you managed to tie up and tickle someone that was either a Vanilla, or they don't like/hate being tickled, and if so, how did you get them to agree to it?

I was thinking about something the other day that lead to me thinking about this. So I'm just curious to know.
 
so one of my ex girl friends in the past , when we first dated, they were classed as vanilla, and didn't really like being tickled or having their personal space invaded, but she did like being tied down, so for me, that was away of cross kinks over. It was talked about first like, it wasn't just tie up and then deal with it, had to sit down and just chat a bit about it, and it was just like short periods of times, so really it was just about building trust and communication, and being respectful of the situation she was in.

I also have another friend who is prolly my best friend, she hates being tickled, absolutely hates it, especially on her feet, she hates feet to, and I have cheekily gotten away with a quick tickle on her feet, at different times. But that about it, and I CERTAINLY wouldn't try to tie her down (as fun as that would be and amazing as it would be given just how hyper ticklish she is like all over) but I value my friendship with her more, over my kink impulses, so its just a no go area, and I am respectful of that, when we are hanging out.
 
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Zackman said:
Hey all. Long time lurker, first time poster.

I'm curious for all of you Lers out there. How many of you managed to tie up and tickle someone that was either a Vanilla, or they don't like/hate being tickled, and if so, how did you get them to agree to it?

I was thinking about something the other day that lead to me thinking about this. So I'm just curious to know.
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It's really not that difficult, in my opinion.

1) Be open and honest about what you like and what you want
2) Accept the fact that some people don't like to be tickled, and no amount of persuasion will get them to change their minds about it
3) Be willing to walk away from the relationship if your partner isn't willing to indulge it with you

I've dated a lot in recent years, and I found the women I've dated on traditional dating apps (primarily Match). Almost all of them would be classified as "vanilla". It was simply a matter of getting to know them a little and introducing the subject. Only two of the ones I connected with weren't willing to play with me, and they were very respectful of my feelings. One who I dated didn't want to be restrained, but still loved to be tickled as part of our lovemaking. All the others were more than happy to indulge.

One thing to keep in mind: submissive sexual desires are VERY common for many women. They often enjoy being tickled in that aspect. Many women enjoy it because they just want to experience losing control for a little while.
 
Basically, we got drunk and decided to open a tickle clip store. The LOL models were all my friends, and all mostly vanilla.

But before the clip store, it was just a thing I'd do with girlfriends. I love seeing tied women climax, especially if they’re trying to resist. So oftentimes, as a fun idea in the bedroom, I'd propose a game...let me tie you up and let's see how long you can hold off. I've honestly never met someone who wasn't down for it. Tickling was always just something that happened along the way, and usually helped me win. 🙂
 
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quinn65 said:
Basically, we got drunk and decided to open a tickle clip store. The LOL models were all my friends, and all mostly vanilla.

But before the clip store, it was just a thing I'd do with girlfriends. I love seeing tied women climax, especially if they’re trying to resist. So oftentimes, as a fun idea in the bedroom, I'd propose a game...let me tie you up and let's see how long you can hold off. I've honestly never met someone who wasn't down for it. Tickling was always just something that happened along the way, and usually helped me win. 🙂
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Interesting, questions about this:
1. How did the tickling help you win? I feel like often ticklish women have orgasms ruined by tickling. Have you not found it that tickling destroys any chance of them climaxing?
2. Was there ever a woman that won the game?
 
1. Because they need self-control to resist the teasing, and tickling takes it away. It's hard for someone to hold back an orgasm while she's already giggling and squirming.
2. Not that I recall, but maybe somewhere along the way... 🤷‍♂️
 
I've been single for years, but back when, I had 2 different vanilla girlfriends. It wasn't too hard because I was opened and honest about my serious foot tickling fetish in the beginning when we were getting to know each other sexually. They found it unusual, but interesting and was willing to explore it. Being up front and honest is the key, I think....basing on my 2 experiences.
 
I appreciate all of the replies. I just like to hear how all of you guys were able to do it.
 
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FootTickleManiac said:
I've been single for years, but back when, I had 2 different vanilla girlfriends. It wasn't too hard because I was opened and honest about my serious foot tickling fetish in the beginning when we were getting to know each other sexually. They found it unusual, but interesting and was willing to explore it. Being up front and honest is the key, I think....basing on my 2 experiences.
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Makes sense!
 
the first young women I tickled were friends / neighbors...they asked their safe, studious nice guy neighbor (Me). to apply sunscreen while sunbathing in my and their own backyards, I was already 'tickle curious' because of reading a fictional story that included an extreme tickle interrogation as the final scene...bad guys wanting the combination to the family safe type of thing...

Well, I gladly applied the suntan oil / lotion to my neighbor girls' backs...clad only in their swimsuits.
While applying the oil / lotion to their bare skin...I began experimenting with a light grazing touch..esp on their lower backs...kind of like a soothing ASMR experience! They remarked about the tickling sensations but didn't ask me to stop...so I teased and grazed....slowly and gently...
So that became a regular event...and if I didn't do the light touch...they requested that "tickly thing you do with your fingers"...

I convinced them to move inside for more privacy ... and we continued the fun ASMR touch play/therapy....eventually without the swimsuit tops but face down on pillows so their privacy was protected. Eventually, because I was so honest and trustworthy and they knew I wasn't going to 'try anything'....they agreed to some real ticking sessions...which they enjoyed, but had a hard time holding still..but after that step...I asked if I could use real bondage so I could really 'test their endurance and limits' ....we discussed boundaries and I made sure they knew I would only ever do SFW tickling...
Even when I tickled them intensely...I made sure they were okay by verbally checking their mental states...reassuring them and comforting them if they seemed to be getting really overly stressed...because I had these two willing tickle play partners and I wanted to keep them happy with the experiences so they would keep returning for more....and they did...
 
aberdeen said:
the first young women I tickled were friends / neighbors...they asked their safe, studious nice guy neighbor (Me). to apply sunscreen while sunbathing in my and their own backyards, I was already 'tickle curious' because of reading a fictional story that included an extreme tickle interrogation as the final scene...bad guys wanting the combination to the family safe type of thing...

Well, I gladly applied the suntan oil / lotion to my neighbor girls' backs...clad only in their swimsuits.
While applying the oil / lotion to their bare skin...I began experimenting with a light grazing touch..esp on their lower backs...kind of like a soothing ASMR experience! They remarked about the tickling sensations but didn't ask me to stop...so I teased and grazed....slowly and gently...
So that became a regular event...and if I didn't do the light touch...they requested that "tickly thing you do with your fingers"...

I convinced them to move inside for more privacy ... and we continued the fun ASMR touch play/therapy....eventually without the swimsuit tops but face down on pillows so their privacy was protected. Eventually, because I was so honest and trustworthy and they knew I wasn't going to 'try anything'....they agreed to some real ticking sessions...which they enjoyed, but had a hard time holding still..but after that step...I asked if I could use real bondage so I could really 'test their endurance and limits' ....we discussed boundaries and I made sure they knew I would only ever do SFW tickling...
Even when I tickled them intensely...I made sure they were okay by verbally checking their mental states...reassuring them and comforting them if they seemed to be getting really overly stressed...because I had these two willing tickle play partners and I wanted to keep them happy with the experiences so they would keep returning for more....and they did...
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Wow, Aberdeen, you are definitely one smooth operator!
 
footfan69 said:
Wow, Aberdeen, you are definitely one smooth operator!
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Thanks....It was quite a fun experience with the two girls....but in all honesty it wasn't planned per se...I just realized as they lay still for the sunscreen how my lighter touch was affecting them more than when I rubbed the lotion in more firmly! Then once they started asking for that 'special touch' before I even did it (on subsequent sunbathing episodes)....well...it was easy to keep encouraging more...
And as I stated, I never had any intentions other than exploring their ticklishness in a SFW way...so as things progressed, we discussed 'boundaries' on my limits...how I wouldn't 'sneak under' swimsuits or underwear by accident or tactics like that....now eventually our tickle play became more intense so I could enjoy pushing them to their limits....
I should write this up as a true story and someday I will...bec it led to a whole series of ticklings....one had a brother who was a friend to me but ofc I didnt share the private actions with his sister and stepsister (the other friend of mine). The young man decided to try to 'blackmail' me and his own sister...that led to an interesting situation....again deserves its own story....

aberdeen
 
Well my first ever sessions were arranged on here, nearly 2 decades ago (sigh), and it was with girls of similar interests

Other occasions have been with partners who let me explore it a bit because it pleased me

I'v never played with someone specifically who hated it and did it against there will. Always been with lees who have that love/hate relationship with it

If someone deathly ticklish who hated it offered to do it for the right price then Id be game but not happened yet.
 
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