'Lers: is your desire to tickle greater than your desire for sex?

[Redmage]

About the best I can say is that I've tickled a lot more partners than I've had sex with. At least if we define "sex" as me having an orgasm.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

LOL what girls do you hang out with?

Its easy enough to get a girl into bed.

 

[Headsnap]

I would also like to know. And I would also like to know where they are, and if there are any rooms or flats I could lease in this area. Or women I could lease, either one is good.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Mwahaha,

You aren't that desperate, or are ya? 😉 (Yeah I'm cheeky)

I would also like to know. And I would also like to know where they are, and if there are any rooms or flats I could lease in this area. Or women I could lease, either one is good.

 

[mb7700]

With my apologies for probably setting a TMF record for reviving the longest dormant thread, I want to answer this interesting question, albeit in a wishy-washy way.

For me (and I'm mainly a ler...not ticklish enough to be a good lee), it really depends upon whom I am with. There is one gal with whom I have tickle sessions every couple of months or so, and even though she's gorgeous and we do some light stuff together beyond tickling during our sessions, she's just so ticklish and has such a great laugh and can take it for so long that with her, tickling is the main event. She's such a great lee that tickling her is my favorite intimate thing to do with her. Another woman whom I occasionally see for more "typical" intimate activities is also very ticklish, and I'll often give her a brief tickle or two when I'm with her, but with her I'm far more interested in the usual forms of activity between lovers.

So I guess my answer is, I want to have my cake and eat it too! lol

 

[Gadilici]

BWAHAHAHAAA

What is this sex you all speak of ?

Christopher

 

[Amnesiac]

Yes and Probably.

Maybe getting a girl into bed for THE REST OF YOU IS EASY, but with my batting average I can't make it my primary means of entertainment.

Besides, my libido isn't what it used to be so I don't get the urge to fuck every day...but tickling is a niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice sidebar that doesn't require a big mood to set up. And tickling can be lots more fun because you don't have the concentration requirements with sex.

 

[Phineas]

No.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

No.

 

[TicklesFemales]

I love tickling more than sex itself. Although I love to tickle and have sex at the same time. Makes for an intense orgasm usually for the lady and also a more explosive ejaculation from the male. However I do not have to have sex with a lady in order to have fun tickling her. Like I said I love tickling more than sex. To hear a lady laugh and beg for mercy from being tickled is fantastic enough for me.

 

[b0xr]

Well for me, I love tickling but the same way i love sex. Tickling is more of foreplay to me. It leads to sex and preheats the oven. The hottest sex I've ever had was after being tickled for over an hour. Sex always seems more intense after being tickled. I couldnt just choose one or the other because they are both good. The only thing better than tickling is sex after tickling and the only thing better then sex is tickling before sex. but thats just me

I couldn't have said it better myself. My thoughts exactly

 

[barefeetarebest]

2 words: Yes and, yes. Were many of us standing in the same line when they were handing out libido?

 

[P[a]pi]

Yes and yes.

 

[-Hari-]

Yeah I guess it is, altho that makes perfect sense if you think about it.

 

[Tckleme]

50/50

 

[DarkMagic21]

What's up long-time lurker, occasional poster. I don't know how big the forum is on reviving old threads but I actually googled the question myself before conveniently finding it on my favorite site through a little bit of digging.

I haven't been in far too many relationships, but basically tickling has to be involved in order for me to have sex. If she's not ticklish, she can be the hottest woman on the planet and she still wouldn't turn me on. Crazy how the human mind works.

 

[pfromptown]

If she's not ticklish, she can be the hottest woman on the planet and she still wouldn't turn me on. Crazy how the human mind works.

I heard that. I have never had sex with a woman who isn't ticklish. I thought I was going to break that cycle when I fell for my current girlfriend who had told me and my Uni/College friends (We're quite a tickle mad group) that she wasn't ticklish, and didn't laugh when we tried. I was wondering how the sex was going to consistently work, and how my heart leapt when I discovered she'd been lying, and was just fantastically adept at blocking it out.

 

[Smuggy Bear]

Gonna have to agree with Slaver and C7... tickling and sex go hand in hand. Nevertheless, I'm down for plain ol' vanilla any day of the week, so I'm gonna have to say no to question 2.

 

[asutickler]

1. No.

And

2. God I hope not.

 

[tkl-pen]

Absolutely - I love to tickle young women - sex doesn't mean that much to me although a girl wouldn't have to ask me twice - and tickling is not a sexual activity to me so it can be a totally separate thing.

 

[txtklr]

1) Yes

2) I would flip a coin and hope it landed standing straight up so both could apply.