Lers who have introduced a partner to tickling...

[Merkle'sBoner]

Any lers here who have introduced a signifigant other to tickling, or even done it several times, do you feel like they grew to sincerely enjoy it themselves? Or do you feel like some of these partners only tolerated it to make you happy? I've seen posts where people have said its no fun if their partner were only going along with it to make them happy. But I'm sure these folks themselves do things they don't particularly feel like doing to make those partners happy. It's like, maybe they can't like being tickled, but they can like that you like tickling them if that makes any sense.

But anyway going by your experiences, have more of your partners come to actually enjoy being tickled or just been doing it to make you happy? If you've experienced both, did you enjoy both equally (as a ler) or did you get more enjoyment from tickling one or the other?

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I did- It was some guy I was fooling around with at the time (before I met Alexwarfield). He was into BDSM, and I obviously was into tickling. He wasn't much into being the lee, but he was a pretty good ler.

A couple of years ago, he mentioned me in one of his blogs (obviously we don't see each other anymore), and stated that he still does the tickle thing in his relationships.

I guess it's fair. I'm more into the BDSM world now because of him planting the seed.

I'm kinda afraid we will run into each other at one of the munches. LOL

 

[soarhh60]

My ex girlfriend and I are still friends and talk occasionally. She confided in me that she has her current boyfriend tickle her now because she says it is odd to be without it!

 

[GQguy]

All of my girlfriends/Hookups tolerated the tickling to please me. Usually it's just a ickle here and there while we're in the bedroom. Tied and tickled a few girls and that too was pretty tame. I've had one that has gotten her new boyfriend into footjobs after I introduced her to the concept years prior.

I would love it if my current girlfriend got into tickling for her own pleasure but doing it for mine works too!

GQ

 

[DianaBanana88]

the other way around for me since my partner was the one who introduced me to tickling

 

[LD_Tickler]

I've only done this a few times, but the majority seemed to have taken a legitimate liking to it. One would sometimes provoke me to tickle her whenever I would hold back out of consideration, and another flat out told me that it was beginning to turn her on, because she was starting to associate it with what came after. Only one or two seemed indifferent or worse.

 

[anonymiss86]

I introduced my boyfriend to tickling almost 4 years ago but I told him about it before we were even dating as soon as I thought we might become something. I don't like going into a relationship not knowing how a guy will feel about my fetish. Because it's kind of a big part of me. He seemed surprised. I also told him that I hate BEING tickled. I really just like doing it. So he kind of hesitantly let me try it with him. But after almost 4 years we've incorporated it into a lot of our relationship. He'll even stop sometimes when we're kissing and smile and say "tickle me..." because he knows it excites me. So it has definitely worked out in my favor. He even lets me tie him up now and then! The only time he tends to get frustrated is if I do it while we're having sex because he says it overwhelms his senses and he doesn't know whether to moan or laugh. Haha! He lets me get away with it anyway though! 🙂

 

[MrMidnyte]

At most, the few women I have told, just tolerated it, yet still never tickled longer than a few minutes or so. This year though, I have been fortunate enough to begin hanging out with a woman willing to test her limits on how much she can take.

 

[the tickleshow]

I haver introduced it to 3 girlfriends. All three claimed to enjoy it, although I know one of them was probably just saying that. My current gf had never heard of it as a fetish and she has actually REALLY embraced it. Of course, she's moving 1000 miles away in 3 weeks. 🙁

Side note, every model I have ever had in a video, except for 2 (Addie Juniper and Suzy) have been "tickle virgins" and all but 1 left the session saying they couldn't wait to try it again with their BFs, husbands, etc.

 

[PiedPiper]

Yep...

... All of 'em. Varying degrees of "introduced," mind you,... and certainly with varying degrees of success,... but there's a lot to be said for persistence.