Long Term, how impotant is tickling to you?

[jj82277]

Long Term, how important is tickling to you?

I just wanted to get a range of oppinion on the subject. Personally to me i would qualify it as a must have in my requirements for marriage. The person amy not be a full fledged tie me for hours no mercy no safewords lee, but i couldn't be with a pure vanilla.

How many of you out there actaully want to go after a life partner that shares your INTERESTS?

I think that in the post net era, we owe it to ourselves!






I ASCEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Strider]

I haven't dated anyone who wasn't kinky since I was 20, and I don't intend to start anytime soon.

 

[Mitchell]

For myself, it would depend. While I would prefer to find someone who was into tickling, if she had all the other qualities, I could probably deal with it if I got tickling sometimes, even if not all the time.

For me, a more important thing would be foot worship. I've been into that since my age of reason. If I met someone who I could not engage in foot play with on a regular basis, I could not be happy with that person. Tickling is a bit different, because as I realize that many people who arent into tickling hate to be tickled, and I'm aware that I may well have to tone that down with a person who was not into tickling.

Mitch

 

[ticklishguy88]

It would be very nice if my wife had the same interest in tickling as I have.

 

[BellaRisa]

Anyone I spend my life with has to support my needs even if they don't share them. It's not about tickling specifically, it's about your partner genuinely caring about your happiness. I couldn't spend the rest of ever with someone who didn't nourish the totality of who I am

 

[Cavum]

I would never be together with anyone who didn't join in on my tickling and foot fetish. Doesn't matter how "perfect" she is. Tickling, foot fetish and BDSM is a big part of my life so I would never give it up.

 

[Scinsor]

It would be kickass if I married someone who was into tickling, but if not, its all good.

 

[mrmiguu]

Dang...she said it again!

Anyone I spend my life with has to support my needs even if they don't share them. It's not about tickling specifically, it's about your partner genuinely caring about your happiness. I couldn't spend the rest of ever with someone who didn't nourish the totality of who I am

How can you not be my hero, BellaRisa!? Thank you for putting it so well.

 

[dalekfire]

I'm already with someone who shares the interest, but, if that wasn't the case, I'd be cool with it, too. Kinda bummed, but cool with it. To me, it's all about the person, not only the tickling. Heck, I'd choose a tickle-virgin with a great personality over a ruthless, finger-wiggling torture queen with a mediocre one.

 

[minerva]

hmm, difficult, but I'd say, if I fall in love with someone and everything else works out really well, I wouldn't let him go just because he doesn't like tickling - but I'd sure be missing it a lot.

 

[Lea28]

It matters....

Tickling /touching / foot play is integral to intimacy to me... ticking arouses me so much that I assume i will always have ticklish lovers, and lover who are into tickling me, toe sucking, and more...

I'm in love with multiple sensations; it matters 😉

So, still seeking the near perfect person... chemistry rules.

Lea

 

[Lord Doctor]

in simple terms

tickling is as important to me as food is for life

 

[maniactickler]

Tickling /touching / foot play is integral to intimacy to me... ticking arouses me so much that I assume i will always have ticklish lovers, and lover who are into tickling me, toe sucking, and more...

I'm in love with multiple sensations; it matters 😉

So, still seeking the near perfect person... chemistry rules.

Lea

Im right here Lea.

 

[Coda]

I'm probably most concerned that my partner is open to discussing and exploring anything that either of us found fascinating. If she had some fascination with something else I'd never even thought of, then I'd be interested to at least sit down and hear her explain it thoroughly.

 

[gluestick]

Guess i'm on the other extreme...

I've never tried acting on my fetish with my wife (even when we dated) and don't think I ever will...I'm perfectly happy and prefer it that way. Of course I've had impulses to tell her about it before but I'm always glad afterwards that I didn't. No offense to anyone but tickling is effeminate and juvenile, two things a husband shouldn't be.

I really hate this fetish and hope that "regular" sex eventually bleeds it out. Its tough to kick something thats turned me on since pre-adolescence but, yea, this fetish has gotta go. putting something as childish as tickling ahead of family and marriage is just silly. thats just me.

 

[jj82277]

Guess i'm on the other extreme...

I've never tried acting on my fetish with my wife (even when we dated) and don't think I ever will...I'm perfectly happy and prefer it that way. Of course I've had impulses to tell her about it before but I'm always glad afterwards that I didn't. No offense to anyone but tickling is effeminate and juvenile, two things a husband shouldn't be.

I really hate this fetish and hope that "regular" sex eventually bleeds it out. Its tough to kick something thats turned me on since pre-adolescence but, yea, this fetish has gotta go. putting something as childish as tickling ahead of family and marriage is just silly. thats just me.

it's neither efiminate nor is it juvenille. my initial reaction was to blast you a new one, but that's not me. you are dealing with a big issue.

if tickling is so against who you are, then why do you eroticize it. It's not important enough for you to share with your wife but it is important enough for you to build an emotional wall between you and your wife getting your rocks off online instead of with her?

being sexually honest is not putting your sexuality above your marriage. sexual dishonesty and porn addiction is.

this is an honesty and disclosure issue. and guess what, if you are this closed off about your sexuality twenty bucks says that there are things your wife is keeping from you. your idea of masculinity is skewed, and it is keeping you from a deeper emotional connection with your wife even if she is not enthusiastic about this part of you. THATS what a husband shouldn't do.

 

[Ronley]

To me it's not important at all. It's something I enjoy, it would be nice if I could find someone who could indulge me from time to time, but if all other qualities are present, that's far more important. It does seem I'm a bit asexual in comparison to the rest of society, so perhaps that's why.

 

[Lea28]

maybe see u in NH...

Im right here Lea.

You are funny and sweet😉

Lea

 

[PlayfulCarbonara]

I've never tried acting on my fetish with my wife (even when we dated) and don't think I ever will...I'm perfectly happy and prefer it that way. Of course I've had impulses to tell her about it before but I'm always glad afterwards that I didn't. No offense to anyone but tickling is effeminate and juvenile, two things a husband shouldn't be.

I really hate this fetish and hope that "regular" sex eventually bleeds it out. Its tough to kick something thats turned me on since pre-adolescence but, yea, this fetish has gotta go. putting something as childish as tickling ahead of family and marriage is just silly. thats just me.

I am assuming this is a troll post?

First of all, tickling is hardly juvenile. It's a way of flirting and having fun, Things that I would hope are not left behind on one's wedding night. Perhaps it is just me, but I am lacking the ability to properly understand how you can figure tickling comes before family and marriage? Does this mean that your marriage must be completely devoid of fun, and allowed only the strictest of lifestyle regimes?

Seems kinda dull to me...

I, personally, disagree 100%. I use tickling as a way of flirting, so I've never gone out with someone who isn't ticklish. It's added a great deal to the sex life, it's a really fun way to pass time, and it's a very intimate way to get closer to someone. Tickling can cure any foul mood and encourage any pleasant one.

Your troll post gets a 2/10, simply because you took the effort to write 2 paragraphs and used correct grammar. You at least didn't troll with "ur"s and "plzkthxbai"s