Lover or a fighter?

[Eternal Tomboy]

Here's one for all you 'lers out there...

If given a choice, would you prefer a girl that practically helps you tie her down to the bed so that you can tickle her, or one that 'fights' you every step of the way? Now, when I say 'fight' I mean it in the most playful sense of the word. Both girls are as into tickling as you are, but one makes no excuses for wanting you to tie her to the bed (in fact, it seems as though you can't tie her down fast enough!)....and the other still wants it just as bad as you do, but for some reason (call it thrill of forced submission) she feels the need to make you work for it! So 'lers, what's it gonna be?


Maggie (a self proclaimed fighter...lol)

 

[thx10050]

I'd have to choose the 'fighter.' It adds some additional excitement to the situation/moment. 🙂

 

[milagros317]

From the point of view of the lee, I prefer roleplays where I pretend to struggle and am overcome by Mistress Zara.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

As a fan of tickle fights, I'd say that my ler side would enjoy a bit of a struggle. Of course, that also gives the other a chance to get even!

Ann

 

[Deleted member 2452]

does she have to want to be tied up?

how about a girl that just loves tickling, and will let you to the best of her abilities?
why must it always be "tied up"? can't we just want to tickle w/o restraints? a girl doesn't have to be a fighter to not want to be tied up, how about just 2 (or more) folks that want to give and take as it strikes them?
all that aside, i'd rather unrestrained, and a fighter, or more correctly a girl who'll try to tickle back!
steve

 

[BigJim]

I like it if the girlie fights, but is so overcome by her ticklesomeness that she collapses in a weak heap that is easy to subdue.

 

[nosforatiop]

I've found I like both. Just depends on what kind of fighting they like, I don't want to hurt them unless they want me to. An entirley submissive girl is cool when your doing gentle erotic tickling mixed in with the torture.

 

[Em Es]

I've had both, and . . .

I've only been lucky enough to tie and tickle two women - Faith and Maria - in my nearly 30 years as a tickler. Faith was eager to please me and cheerfully submitted to having me tie her down and tickle her. Maria was also eager to please me but only reluctantly let me tie her down and tickle her.

Faith never said no to me. Maria didn't either, even though first she asked if I would cut out the tickling, and then if we could stop the tying up. Bottom line: Any time I wanted, I had my way with both ladies. When it was time to tied and tickle, Faith always smiled while Maria frowned. Both laughed!

If I could only have one back, I think I'd take Maria. Doing it to her against her will made the tickle sessions a little hotter. Maria's will to please me won out over her own will not to be tied and tickled.

 

[tickleshotel]

As a Ler I would prefer a ticklee that struggles,resists a little to add a element of Challenge to the situation rather than say a Lee that willingly hops on the bed and cooperates but apart from that,the Lee would still be tickled however they react 🙂.

 

[marcusb]

I'll take the woman who is eager. Tickle wrestling is fun but something about a woman who just says, "ok, tickle me", is just impossible to resist. She knows it's coming but she calmly (or nervously, apprehensively) sits or lays there while her ability to get away is slowly removed. That look when she realizes "it's time" and can't suppress a little giggle or a stuttered sigh... oh...

Yeah, that's the ticket.

 

[critterlord]

I personally, would rather have a girl who would just lay down and say out loud, "tickle me!" To have her sit there, and tell me how much she loves it and where she is ticklish, and begging me for it.

Dang, I wish I had someone like that for a wife.

 

[TickledToDeath]

A little light struggle is cool. Knowing that the more she resists, the longer the tickle will be! Paybacks a bitch you know!

TTD

 

[tickleshotel]

TTD,You mean like when a ticklee wiggles her bare or stockinged feet within your arms reach teasing you,then as you catch her before she can react ,she tries to pull back in resistance,and screams "NOO not my feet??"..OH do give us a example of a light struggle?? 😕

 

[TickledToDeath]

TTD,You mean like when a ticklee wiggles her bare or stockinged feet within your arms reach teasing you,then as you catch her before she can react ,she tries to pull back in resistance,and screams "NOO not my feet??"..OH do give us a example of a light struggle?? 😕

Hmmmm, an example huh?🙄
Perhaps when knowing it is....for instance.....YOUR turn to be tied and tickled, tickleshotel and you try to....either get away before you are tied or be........less than cooperative slightly as the ticklers try to tie you.😉 😀

TTD

 

[crydun]

Re: does she have to want to be tied up?

how about a girl that just loves tickling, and will let you to the best of her abilities?
why must it always be "tied up"? can't we just want to tickle w/o restraints? a girl doesn't have to be a fighter to not want to be tied up, how about just 2 (or more) folks that want to give and take as it strikes them?
all that aside, i'd rather unrestrained, and a fighter, or more correctly a girl who'll try to tickle back!
steve

Here I am! here I am!! that's the reason I'm both lee and ler!!! I love to be tickled AND TICKLE. I think that communication and trust are essential though.

 

[tickleshotel]

TTD Excellent example of a light struggle ,but I believe I can sense with my instincts when there are others in a room that are secretly planning an attack LOL...Secret about being petite is I can crawl between legs that are open ,I love to play dodge ball so I think maybe I can outsmart someone trying to trick me Will be a challenge,That's my story and I'm sticking to it LOL😀

 

[tickleshotel]

Crydun,I know what you mean 😉..I don;t need to be tied down and tickled to be helpless ..I love also to be tickled while being held down such as when my husband straddles me like a bag of potatoes and I get tickled even worse if while he is straddling me,I reach up to his armpits and he freaks .Oh wait,I am not saying anything more ,I need to keep quiet 😱
Wondering if TTD has excellent hearing from a distance ,or has one of those listening devices :LOL

 

[TickledToDeath]

Crydun,I know what you mean 😉..I don;t need to be tied down and tickled to be helpless ..I love also to be tickled while being held down such as when my husband straddles me like a bag of potatoes and I get tickled even worse if while he is straddling me,I reach up to his armpits and he freaks .Oh wait,I am not saying anything more ,I need to keep quiet 😱
Wondering if TTD has excellent hearing from a distance ,or has one of those listening devices :LOL

I have very good hearing.
Good memory too.😉

TTD

 

[Tickler Bart]

My personal opinion . . .
I like a girl who is eager & willing & is excited about being tickled. If we're role playing & she struggles, that's great. It's part of the game. But, if it's just a matter of "Tie me up & tickle me", then No I do not like the struggle & fight. It'll be like she doesn't want to & she HAS to like it for me to enjoy it. If she's not into it, it kills it for me.
Barton

 

[tickleshotel]

TTD I better be quiet now before I spill the beans again 😛 I KNOW I am going to be in DEEP Tickle H@LL once my time has come 😱 😀 And I'll Love every Second too!!😱

 

[TickledToDeath]

TTD I better be quiet now before I spill the beans again 😛 I KNOW I am going to be in DEEP Tickle H@LL once my time has come 😱 😀 And I'll Love every Second too!!😱

You have already spilled enough. Bounty papertowels could not swab up the mess you are in my little ticklish friend! Seeeee ya sooooon!

TTD

 

[TickledToDeath]

Re: Lover

My problem w/fighters is that there's no way for me to know whether they really ARE as "into tickling" as I am, or whether they're just going along. Communication on this subject is already hard, so why complicate it w/games?

Good point. Plus, why waist all that energy fighting when you could be tickling!😀

TTD

 

[tickleshotel]

You have already spilled enough. Bounty papertowels could not swab up the mess you are in my little ticklish friend! Seeeee ya sooooon!

TTD

Oh MY! What am I going to do?? LOL
Standing in front of you with a Roll of Bounty Paper Towels in One hand saying "Hefty Hefty" 😛 😀 and a cheap Roll of Paper Towels in the other hand saying "Wimpy,Wimpy" God I am going to wuv this 😀

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Re: does she have to want to be tied up?

how about a girl that just loves tickling, and will let you to the best of her abilities?
why must it always be "tied up"? can't we just want to tickle w/o restraints? a girl doesn't have to be a fighter to not want to be tied up, how about just 2 (or more) folks that want to give and take as it strikes them?
all that aside, i'd rather unrestrained, and a fighter, or more correctly a girl who'll try to tickle back!
steve

Steve -

I wholeheartedly agree with your above comments. I mainly posted the scenario that I did because I thought that it would illustrate my point more effectively. Having a girl beg to be tied down obviously loves the feeling of total surrender and doesn't mind that there will be no chance of retaliation...at least until the cuffs come off...lol.
Now, in real life, I don't normally choose to be restrained. I, like a lot of you, love the challenge of a tickle fight and the possibilities that it holds (always wondering who will gain the upper hand).
There is also more of an adrenalin rush for me during a tickle fight than there is when I'm tied down. I love the feeling of being overpowered by a guy (it's that forced submission rush I was describing earlier), and for me nothing comes close to the excitement I feel when I know I've lost the fight and the tickling is going to go on for as long as he wants.

BUT.....

As much as I love all of that, you will NEVER catch me admitting this to the guy that I'm wrestling around on the ground with. To him, it may appear that he is really torturing the hell out of me against my will (which he may very well be doing...but I'm loving every minute of it...lol). I have never asked to be tickled in my life (thank God I've always had plenty of guys around who were all too willing to tickle me anyway!) I know some of you would call this playing "head games", but for me it's all part of what makes tickling exciting for me. It's just not in my nature to surrender...even if that's my ultimate wish.
But until my eventual surrender comes (which it always seems to)...you'd better believe I'll be tickling back!


Maggie

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

A little light struggle is cool. Knowing that the more she resists, the longer the tickle will be! Paybacks a bitch you know!

TTD

Paybacks may be a bitch, but they're what I live for! And believe me, over the years I've gotten very good at working guys up to the point where they feel compelled to 'get me back'. Like most 'lees, I know all the buttons to push, wiseass comments to make, and playful shots to take (mostly at his ego...lol) to get him to want to dish out a little payback 😉 Luckily I've only met guys that like to payback with tickles and not weapons of mass destruction 😀

Maggie