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[heroforhalos]

well, seeing as I can't even utter the WORD, I have a really difficult time asking for it.
I want it to not be a big deal, but then I get so awkward and flustered and chew-my-arm-off-to-escape that I end up turning it into a big deal.
I just. can't. say. the. word.
I can't. If I even /hear/ it in perfectly normal everyday conversation, I flinch.
It's pretty much the only thing I'm self-conscious about.

So I just kind of... whimper needily and start writhing around anyway and hope that it happens.? ._.' er.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I have felt awakward in asking i get very nervous sometimes almost if i were going to ask them for the first time. If they say yes my heart stops racing atleast until its my turn to be tickled

 

[Anastasia35]

Hi, I've read some of these replies and feel a little awkward about my situation. I am a Lee and my husband knows what I like because I finally confessed about my tickle fetish last year. It was great at first but it seems to have dwindled. I like being tied and tickled. I don't wanna have to ask for it. I also like the verbal threats (promises) before the fun begins. It's all a mental game that leads to the physical thrills.

I guess I'm just venting more than I'm asking for advise. But I'm open for any comments or suggestions that anyone may offer 🙂

Anastasia

 

[iloveddub]

Hi, I've read some of these replies and feel a little awkward about my situation. I am a Lee and my husband knows what I like because I finally confessed about my tickle fetish last year. It was great at first but it seems to have dwindled. I like being tied and tickled. I don't wanna have to ask for it. I also like the verbal threats (promises) before the fun begins. It's all a mental game that leads to the physical thrills.

I guess I'm just venting more than I'm asking for advise. But I'm open for any comments or suggestions that anyone may offer 🙂

Anastasia

Welcome to the club! Feel free to vent my direction. I know exactly what you're saying.

 

[voided9]

well, seeing as I can't even utter the WORD, I have a really difficult time asking for it.
I want it to not be a big deal, but then I get so awkward and flustered and chew-my-arm-off-to-escape that I end up turning it into a big deal.
I just. can't. say. the. word.
I can't. If I even /hear/ it in perfectly normal everyday conversation, I flinch.

I know exactly what you mean. I've ALWAYS had trouble saying it - I remember in first grade we had to take turns reading parts of a story out loud, and in my part, the word came up..I pretty much choked. Like I refused to say it, pretended I couldn't read it. No idea why but it has always been sooooo uncomfortable =/ It's easier now though.

 

[iloveddub]

well, seeing as I can't even utter the WORD, I have a really difficult time asking for it.
I want it to not be a big deal, but then I get so awkward and flustered and chew-my-arm-off-to-escape that I end up turning it into a big deal.
I just. can't. say. the. word.
I can't. If I even /hear/ it in perfectly normal everyday conversation, I flinch.
It's pretty much the only thing I'm self-conscious about.

So I just kind of... whimper needily and start writhing around anyway and hope that it happens.? ._.' er.

I was that way too. You're in good company! It's still hard to say.

 

[voided9]

I have always wondered why it's so hard for us to say out loud =/

 

[chicago]

I have always wondered why it's so hard for us to say out loud =/

I always feel like as soon as I say it, everything will just come to a screeching halt, conversations will stop, everyone's gonna look at me and they'll know.