Me, pervert?!

[Moth]

About a year ago a friend of mine made a sort of outing with other people of the group -what a coincidence, another tickle fetish in the same group of me!- and after then, when he was away, between my friends it was all a joke about him, with "uh let me see your feet" imitation and "he's weird and scaring" comments. Of course they don't know I'm a tickle fetish too, and after that I certainly don't want to reveal it to them.

Anyway, when things like these happen, I start feeling a little pervert, but then I think...

Why can't I just praise myself publicly of visiting TMF without feeling like a pervert, while "normal" people could praise themselves of watching pornhub and youporn?

What do you think about it? 🙂

 

[milagros317]

Accept your erotic interests and don't worry about what narrow minds call "perverted". 😀

 

[Tickler15]

About a year ago a friend of mine made a sort of outing with other people of the group -what a coincidence, another tickle fetish in the same group of me!- and after then, when he was away, between my friends it was all a joke about him, with "uh let me see your feet" imitation and "he's weird and scaring" comments. Of course they don't know I'm a tickle fetish too, and after that I certainly don't want to reveal it to them.

Anyway, when things like these happen, I start feeling a little pervert, but then I think...

Why can't I just praise myself publicly of visiting TMF without feeling like a pervert, while "normal" people could praise themselves of watching pornhub and youporn?

What do you think about it? 🙂

Everyone has fetishes.....nobody talks about it.....its common in Psychology for people to be against what like they.... Example in an old textbook for Psychology there was a picture of a man with a protest sign saying "Keep Your Porn away from our Children!" (When 7-11 began selling Hustler I think, I not even sure that is right) and a week later that same guy got arrested for child molestation for the 110 time or something like that. It draws attention away from your secret desires.

 

[socktickler86]

If he has other qualities that make him weird, then it's just.... another weird quality and he's a weird guy! If he's a normal guy and that one thing makes him weird, then the people you know are just childish. People that are more mature know that people just have strange habits.

If I were in the same situation... I wouldn't be surprised! We all know we talk shit about each other and make fun of each other behind our backs. And we enjoy it, sometimes to the point of a little self deprecation. If someone can't laugh at themselves, they have a sad life in my opinion 🙂.

 

[Maestro1874]

I'm a pervert and proud of it!

 

[Tickler15]

I'm a pervert and proud of it!

 

[Phineas]

and after then, when he was away, between my friends it was all a joke about him, with "uh let me see your feet" imitation and "he's weird and scaring" comments.

Fetish or not, talking about someone like this behind their back is pretty offensive to me. Whether or not I shared in the guy's fetish, I'd be calling people out on this behavior and asking them why they continue to hang around with the guy if he's so creepy. And if he's not, leave him the hell alone.

Depending on how close to these people I was, and how vindictive I felt, I might even out myself to them and then cease contact with the group, on the grounds that I don't want to "scare" any of them either.

 

[Tickler15]

And besides there are A LOT weirder fetishes than tickling...in fact tickling is the most common one....

 

[playfuldude]

Im a loner for that very reason, but that doesn't work very well when comes cultivating friendships or meeting fellow or femlow ticklholics. Some day, somehow.

 

[love feet]

that is so not nice!

 

[rhiannon]

People who publically brag about what they do in the sleeping room or in front of their computer usually have small intelligence and even smaller dicks. (And most of the time they don't even have real sex! 😉 )

Sex is something private that shouldn't be spread out among friends. Why would you even want to share your kinks with people you have no intention of living out your kinks with?

 

[scorpionldr]

And besides there are A LOT weirder fetishes than tickling...in fact tickling is the most common one....

But that in itself is weird to me.