Meet another tickle enthusiast with the some preference

[victickle]

Hello together,

I thought about a (hypothetical) situation. Image you meet someone who is not only attractive but shares your exaltation for tickling. The problem is: you are a lee and she (or he) is a lee, too. What do to? Say goodbye or make a deal that both take the unloved role as a ler? Do you think this works?

Same question for the lers: Would you let a ler tickle you to be able to tickle her / him, too (if he or she lets you)?

As I said before, this is only a mind game.

 

[mabus]

Boy, this is SO easy......COMPROMISE!

In any relationship, there's compromise, some easy, some not so much.

This is easy compromise.

-You could both tickle each other at the same time.
-Obviously, take turns being tickler and ticklee. But I'm sure most people have some sort of spill over - a person who loves being tickled, I'm sure wouldn't mind being the tickler once in a while.
Even if someone wasn't a ticklee, if the right person came by (the attractive part answers that question) I'm sure they'd get into it.

If you may not like being tickled that much...but there's a girl you have a HUGE crush on, and you discover she has a tickle fetish and loves TICKLING.....and is attracted to YOU, and really, REALLY wants to tickle you.......unless you're a total, close-minded narcissistic asshole, I'm sure getting tickled by her wouldn't be that big of a deal!

 

[rhiannon]

If I have any experience at all, then the experience that it is not really fun doing with someone who is not into it. I personally believe this goes in this case as well. I wouldn't want to be a ler because I wouldn't have much patience with it. And I also wouldn't want to be with a guy who is a lee because I have my doubts that he could be dominant enough. But that's just me. 🙂

 

[ArchNemesis]

In my case we'd both be lers. My solution? I'm the MAN, baby!! You do what I want or there's the DOOR!! Don't let it HITCHA where the good lord SPLITCHA!!

 

[megsmegs]

I agree with mabus.. I figure that whether you're a -lee or a -ler, I'm sure that at some point all of us have had some tickle experience opposite to what we usually want to be. So it's not as though we're completely unfamiliar with both sides of the coin, so to speak. If you're both -ler's.. imagine the tickle fights. Or even better the revenge that can be enacted after being tortured. If you're both -lee's, try making a rule that in order to say that you want to be tickled, you have to tickle the other person first. And besides, there is something incredibly sexy about being tickled by an incredibly attractive member of the opposite sex.

 

[victickle]

Interesting answers. Making a compromise could be a solution to tickle s.o. or to be tickled by someone.

But I agree with rhiannon. When you don't have the passion, the right enthusiasm, it probably won't be good. Imagine a ler who doesn't like to be tickled. He / she won't like it only because he / she can take revenge afterwards.

That's the point I had in my mind when I opened this thread. I have doubts if tickling-compromises will work cause it just should be fun.

The reply from ArchNemesis made me smile. When you kick your partner off the house, how to tickle her? When I'm a lee, well, it is rather "chicks rule" ;-)

Thanks for your replies.