this is also a day everybody must get past!! You (and everybody else who has no involvement whatsoever in this historic event) ought to see a Therapist and figure out why you've got this unusual attraction to loss and learn how to get better.
Dude...That may be the most unreal comment in regard to the attacks I have ever read. For the most past, people have gotten past it the best they could. One day a year a memorial is held to remember. The memorial this year even took on more meaning seeing as it shall be the last memorial held at the site, as construction will begin to rebuild soon.
As for seeing a therapist, well that was pretty much standard procedure for those that responded that day. And the unfortunate reality for those of us that responded there are some things that we may never be able to truly "get past."
Just a lowly comment from someone that is a first responder in NYC and was at both WTC attacks...