Men only

[Sunday_10pm]

Men AND Women pls...

Guys, is it just me or are there NO young women in this community? What is going on here? I'm 21, I have a social-life, I attract plenty of women in real-life, but I have never seen a SINGLE girl around my age from the UK (and very few in the rest of the world for that matter) here at this "community". I just think it would be such a blast to meet a girl of a similar age who shares my fetish. I've got my theories for the state of things and I'd be interested to hear what other guys think.

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[OBleedingMe]

I don't think you want my real opinion on that one... could stir one helluva hornets nest, lol.

If you're looking for a real ticklee, start frequenting BDSM clubs/community gatherings.

 

[lilwolf]

Ive got a friend here that is 20. I'm sure you should just get to know more people. Talked to another girl the other night that was 23.

 

[Hiryu]

I agree with obm. Most of the ones online who do share our fetish are already in a relationship. You may even have to try introducing a gf to it and just hope that she latches on.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

OBM: It's only the internet so who cares: My thinking is there are two BIG reasons:

1) Young girls don't expect that they'll find a decent guy on the internet because as we all know the internet is just for fat desperate nerds: EWww Gross!!
2) The way society is geared today, decent girls have MORE than enough chumps at their feet anyway, willing to pleasure them in whatever way they want. (In my opinion this is why women complain they "can't find a good man" because most men have either turned into miserable worms or complete jerks.) Don't get me started on that though.


lilwolf: I would LOVE to get to know more young women here but it's a question of time really. I don't want to spend hours and hours everyday at my computer in the vain hope that I might meet a girl (for what's likely to be no more than an off-the-wall fling) I do drop in the chatroom pretty frequently though without finding anyone.

Hiryu: I hear you. The only english girl I've ever met here was in a happy relationship with her bf. Except she's coming here just to cyber!?? I'm confused! (Incidentally I've met lots of girls in clubs who go out to pull AND SHAG random Alpha-male types whilst having a bf in tow.) Oops, getting sidetracked again. Oh yea, about "introducing a gf to it": The thing is, I've never thought tickling a "girlfriend" is much of a problem but but I've never met a ticklish girl who liked it. For a normal, ticklish girl, tickling is uncomfortable. It's fun when you're having a little romp and you can tickle the shit out of her. You can incorporate it into foreplay but it doesn't get the average girl all wet like normal petting and kissing etc..

What I'm moaning about here is that I REALLY want to hook up with a girl who shares my perverse sexual ideas about just how "fun" tickling can really be and it just seems impossible because the "community" is imbalanced! Basically, my own frustration is all someone elses' fault!

 

[teamtickleguy]

excluding fakes, i've probably come across three girls in my age bracket (18-25) who are into tickling - one i came close to meeting with until she mysteriously vanished until recently and now starting to build bridges again.

 

[ticklemad]

Maybe try the UKTF board you are more likely to find people from the Uk on there

 

[witchtickler]

Damn!!!!



Well guys ya'll better work fast because it gets worse when you reach my age bracket the 40's.

Its damn near next to impossible because most are young and they don't want old farts like me. However, I have met a few in my age bracket up to and including 50 that had or even has the potential for something but because of financial, logistical, or like ya'll said eariler relationships can get in the way.

Although the older age bracket we can say we're "more experienced" "more patient", and maybe "more mature" (i'm not saying ya'll aren't mature) because a lot of us aren't either, but the younger females want the shapely, strappy, studly guys, and not the ones like me where father-time has imposed his sense of humor on us by increasing the gravitational pull on our mid-section and certain other places.

So ya'll just jump right in this community check the new members everyday and read profiles after profiles and leave a "pm" to a few each day. Be respectful now, a little playful, and even erotic at times depending on how their profile is spelled out and see what happens. I have done this very same thing and I have met many WONDERFUL "lee" and "ler" gals that even if just friends and nothing more I believe I could get a good tickling in every once in a while if I went after it 😉

Good Luck, don't get down, just try it!!!!!

witchtickler

 

[Fire_Sprite]

Well I just come to talk to people about the fetish and read about experiences. Meeting a girl off of this forum and setting up a tickle session would be nice but the odds are much better of me just finding a girlfriend where I live and tickling her. (like my current g/f) Meeting a girl off this forum would require the following

1. My age
2. Near where I live
3. Reasonably intelligent
4. Decent body
5. Havings in common (so we could at least talk)

And of course I would've had to have broken up with my current g/f. Just stick to the local girls. Most of the women on this forum just want to be friends anyway.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

I just got a message from a guy who HAS found a woman who likes it and been made aware that this post looks like a bitter, women-hating, lashing out against the world. Just to clarify, I don't hate women or society. Yes I get bitter sometimes but it's hard not to when you're perpetually frustrated and don't know how to relieve it. If anyone else took offense I'm sorry. My external attribution of my problems was supposed to be a joke but I guess it's not very clear. Anyway he sent me some good adcice. If anyone else has suggestions on what I should actually be doing to change my "luck", I'd be really grateful.

 

[OBleedingMe]

(scratching head) I really don't see how this thread is a "woman-hating" thread. I don't see that at ALL. All that's been discussed is Sunday_10pm's problem of not finding a chick his age into tickling, and various other guys are giving him suggestions how/where to find them. I don't recall anyone saying "kill all women" or "all women are morons." THAT would be a woman-hating thread. Methinks a certain person is a LITTLE jealous that the thread says Men Only. Sunday_10pm, I seriously doubt it was a guy who IMed you. Probably a female who doesn't like the fact that the thread is titled Men Only.

Edited for golden rule violations.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Whoa slow down turbo! Thanks for the support dude but those were not his words. Those are my words, it wasn't at all hostile like that. He just said I should quit bitching about the general characteristics of women and i realised that it might look like thats exactly what I'm doing.

Also I dunno why I titled it "men only". Probably cos I wanted some locker-room ranting with like minded guys, but thats not what I need at all. Women's opinions are at least as valid on this subject.

I can't do anything right at the moment!

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Anyway thats enough grovelling for things I didn't even do.

I've just been and had a look at the personals section. You only need a quick look at the desperate sate of affairs in there to see what I was getting at in the first place.

 

[reflexology414]

Factors

There are many factors involved.

The ratio of men to women online is rather lopsided. As a result, when a young woman posts, especially in a community like this, she may find herself overwhelmed with responses (I've already corresponded with women who shared true stories about this phenomenon).

In my own experience, I've found women from this forum to be generally reluctant to meet in real life. When I tried to organize a gathering in my region, the few women I corresponded with were mortified by the idea of meeting other in public as opposed to online. I strongly suspect it has much to do with the factors I mentioned in the previous paragraph.

Geography and cultural climate play a role as well. I'm sure that finding a tickling partner in a more progressive region of California or New York is a different kettle of fish than searching for someone amidst the cornfields of a conservative county in southern Wisconisn.

These are really just theories. I understand your frustrations though, as I'm looking for a partner as well.

 

[Metrion]

Are we giiiiiirls allowed to post here?

Heh. I'm not in the UK but I am around Sunday_10pm's age. I also plan on meeting people in the future. Still, it's a scary thing, and I think girls have more to fear from meeting online chat buddies in person than men do, which may be partly why you guys don't always get that lee you want.

Anyway, just felt like posting. It's an interesting topic.

 

[billylee]

It's not reasonable for a young woman to respond. As said above, any woman who posts the slightest interest is bombarded with replies, and the personals are filled (no, overflowing) with guys wanting to meet women for "harmless" fun. Put yourself in her shoes....would you do take the risk? Really?

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Get out of our treehouse Metrion! Can't you read the sign!?!

billy I've thought about it and if I was a tasty girl and I wanted a man the very FIRST place I would go for harmless fun would be a fetish based internet chatroom. Definately.

 

[isabeau]

(scratching head) I really don't see how this thread is a "woman-hating" thread. I don't see that at ALL. All that's been discussed is Sunday_10pm's problem of not finding a chick his age into tickling, and various other guys are giving him suggestions how/where to find them. I don't recall anyone saying "kill all cunts" or "all women are morons." THAT would be a woman-hating thread. Methinks a certain vagina is a LITTLE jealous that the thread says Men Only. Sunday_10pm, I seriously doubt it was a guy who IMed you. Probably a female who doesn't like the fact that the thread is titled Men Only.

well being entitled men only makes one wonder. but wow such strong words OBleedingMe. and i'm venturing into this thread to say that its a tough thing to trust someone enough to actually meet them. especially on a so called fetish forum. and i was wondering OBleeding, do you normally refer women as "vaginas"? i never thought that this was a hate women thread. but the title misleads females into thinking that maybe only men should read or respond.

and lol Sunday thats exactly why i dont go into the chatroom hardly. good luck with your search.

isabeau

 

[cantankerous]

Opinion

personally if I was a young girl and I came to this site and saw some of the explicit pictures of woman being nude bound and tickled. I'd think a red flag would go up quicker than shit. The solution would be to make this place more female friendly. And dare I say diversify the content. Yes I know taht means more male crap and although Im not a fan of that it could help with getting more females here. Plus how about everyone use tacked when a girl introduces herself, and not bombard them with freaky requests and what not.

 

[cantankerous]

HAHAHA that's why this tread was only for guys some like to cut loose and air out frustration. Nothing against females, I dont think this is a female hating convention, but if you are a lady and come in this thread please don't get mad about the content, the thread header explains that this isnt exactly a place were a females input is necessary.

 

[Hiryu]

Most of the women on this forum just want to be friends anyway.

Or tease the hell out of you. "Oh, I 'm just soooooo ticklish!" "My skin is soft and smooth and super sensitive!" "A friend tried to massage my feet and I went berzerk!"

On the more recent concerns, it is true that women get flooded with messages as soon as they post. I've seen it with my own eyes and it can be scarey at times. If any woman did decide to meet up with a guy online, I would suggest NOT going alone! Take a friend along who knows how to kick ass if need be.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Thats it guys, cut loose that frustration! (i have actually tried to rename the thread to Men and women)

I think the problem isn't even as complicated as I thought. I'm glad isabeau and Metrion posted because the women's perspective is more helpful really.

You're like a piece of candy in a candy store thats almost completely out of candy and packed with kids. I'd forgoten how it would feel to be the candy trying to choose which kid! Oh man, that is one tight analogy. Seriously though I'd somehow overlooked how daunting it is to come here as a young woman in search of an encounter. The problem is it's imbalanced now, and that's what keeps it this way. It's never going to balance out.

I was getting a bit ahead of myself when I said I want to meet up with someone. What this is really about is not even finding a single girl with whom I COULD meet if things go well online (I want to check that you're not a creepy weirdo too you know) I don't want to sign on the dotted line to meet someone the second I speak to her either, I just want to chat!

 

[tickle_king2003]

Amen to that ^^^^^^^

I've had two main tickling experiences with girls my age (18) and those were mainly through a relationship. Both girls were happy to try new things, one just wanted to be tied up and the other didn't want to be tied but was happy to be tickled (now she cant get enough).
Unfortunately both of these past relationship are no more but i guess it shows that you are more likely to experience tickling if you meet people in person and make them feel un-pressured.

 

[CaptainQuantum]

Young girls don't expect that they'll find a decent guy on the internet because as we all know the internet is just for fat desperate nerds: EWww Gross!!

As a fat desperate nerd, I resemble that remark! 😀

 

[Lionhart]

Hey brothers. The fault really falls into the hands of men who simply don't take the time to make a female feel comfortable or at ease around him, and as they say one bad apple spoils the whole barrel so thanks to the ignorance of some, all men get a bad rep. and hense the social barriers are all that much harder to break down in the presence of these outstanding females whom share our love of tickling. It's definately a dark day to be a man, but i'd take it over PMS anyday.. ;-) You all know this already i'm sure, but I remind myself of this at least twice a day just so it sticks.. Later gators..