kcantankerous
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Hello,
It has only been over the past two years that I have really gained first hand experience as a tickler. I may have tickled 20 some odd different women - many multiple times - in my nascent fetish "internship". I have learned much during this period, including a host of cool techniques and toy pairings.
Ticklishness comes in as broad a spectrum as colors. Some people may always be a 10 on the 1-10 scale, others slide along that scale. A woman may be extremely ticklish only during her period, only when inebriated, or more commonly when they are comfortable with the tickler. Some women have to receive steady stimulation to excite the nerve endings enough for the ticklish feeling to burgeon. Others are ticklish only when in a particular mood.
I worked with one model who usually is on the higher end of the ticklish scale. However, we were catching up from the last time we met and she talked about some heavy subject (work related) matter. Going to that serious event reduced her ticklishness considerable. Once the conversation shifted to a less emotionally draining topic, her ticklishness gradually returned to what was usually.
Recently, I had a private session with a model that I had spent 20 minutes with at a previous TFP. During the private session, I switch from massage to tickling. I felt like I lost my touch. She was not ticklish in the least. I cycled over to worship and massage, tickling attempts. Meanwhile we were chatting. Eventually, she became very ticklish after some 30 minutes of cycling between the three methods. Later on I found out that I was her first private session ever - where it was just her and the client. No wonder she wasn't ticklish at first as she was during the TMF, she was anxious. For half the session I thought my skills were a flash in the pan.
Other women tend to have the ability to numb out the ticklish response almost by reflex. They start a certain level of ticklish and then focus to try to blunt it. Using blindfolds tends to combat such maneuvers but some are really good at it.
In some cases, my lack of comfort can rub off on the lee as well. The more comfortable I get, the more ticklish some of them become and vise versa. I remember at the first TFP, a heavily drunk model was having a session with me. She was incredibly sensitive that night. We had a private session about a month later, and she exhibited no ticklish reaction whatsoever - I didn't have the skills then that I do now, but the results may still be the same.
I am not very ticklish, but I can be moderately so after 10 minute plus of light stimulation over my sensitive regions (thighs, groin, and abdomen). Even then, I have to allow the sensation to register as ticklish. It's tough for me to allow the ticklishness because I am a control freak when it comes to my body. I even fight my own orgasms including during masturbation.
I understand some women fake their ticklish reactions. However, I think many of you assume that a lee must react in a certain way for the reaction to be genuine. I have seen outright laughter and thrashing, moans interspersed with giggles, some scream and begging, some break dancing all over the room. Some woman can remain still and just laugh that beautiful tune. My first tickle torture experience ever was two weeks ago during a video shoot. Outside of that, I tickle playfully, but I will do a safeword challenge with pretty much all the ticklish models.
Masochists are fun because they refuse to safeword and since they enjoy the ordeal, I feel less guilty about pushing them. It sucks because I am known as the tickle man, so now I have to live up to that standard. I learned the good practice of starting with a nice foot rub before transitioning. Some getting to know you chit chat is also helpful. I've managed to make women laugh who swore up and down that they were not ticklish - albeit not at the desired 100% conversion rate.
Thanks,
K
It has only been over the past two years that I have really gained first hand experience as a tickler. I may have tickled 20 some odd different women - many multiple times - in my nascent fetish "internship". I have learned much during this period, including a host of cool techniques and toy pairings.
Ticklishness comes in as broad a spectrum as colors. Some people may always be a 10 on the 1-10 scale, others slide along that scale. A woman may be extremely ticklish only during her period, only when inebriated, or more commonly when they are comfortable with the tickler. Some women have to receive steady stimulation to excite the nerve endings enough for the ticklish feeling to burgeon. Others are ticklish only when in a particular mood.
I worked with one model who usually is on the higher end of the ticklish scale. However, we were catching up from the last time we met and she talked about some heavy subject (work related) matter. Going to that serious event reduced her ticklishness considerable. Once the conversation shifted to a less emotionally draining topic, her ticklishness gradually returned to what was usually.
Recently, I had a private session with a model that I had spent 20 minutes with at a previous TFP. During the private session, I switch from massage to tickling. I felt like I lost my touch. She was not ticklish in the least. I cycled over to worship and massage, tickling attempts. Meanwhile we were chatting. Eventually, she became very ticklish after some 30 minutes of cycling between the three methods. Later on I found out that I was her first private session ever - where it was just her and the client. No wonder she wasn't ticklish at first as she was during the TMF, she was anxious. For half the session I thought my skills were a flash in the pan.
Other women tend to have the ability to numb out the ticklish response almost by reflex. They start a certain level of ticklish and then focus to try to blunt it. Using blindfolds tends to combat such maneuvers but some are really good at it.
In some cases, my lack of comfort can rub off on the lee as well. The more comfortable I get, the more ticklish some of them become and vise versa. I remember at the first TFP, a heavily drunk model was having a session with me. She was incredibly sensitive that night. We had a private session about a month later, and she exhibited no ticklish reaction whatsoever - I didn't have the skills then that I do now, but the results may still be the same.
I am not very ticklish, but I can be moderately so after 10 minute plus of light stimulation over my sensitive regions (thighs, groin, and abdomen). Even then, I have to allow the sensation to register as ticklish. It's tough for me to allow the ticklishness because I am a control freak when it comes to my body. I even fight my own orgasms including during masturbation.
I understand some women fake their ticklish reactions. However, I think many of you assume that a lee must react in a certain way for the reaction to be genuine. I have seen outright laughter and thrashing, moans interspersed with giggles, some scream and begging, some break dancing all over the room. Some woman can remain still and just laugh that beautiful tune. My first tickle torture experience ever was two weeks ago during a video shoot. Outside of that, I tickle playfully, but I will do a safeword challenge with pretty much all the ticklish models.
Masochists are fun because they refuse to safeword and since they enjoy the ordeal, I feel less guilty about pushing them. It sucks because I am known as the tickle man, so now I have to live up to that standard. I learned the good practice of starting with a nice foot rub before transitioning. Some getting to know you chit chat is also helpful. I've managed to make women laugh who swore up and down that they were not ticklish - albeit not at the desired 100% conversion rate.
Thanks,
K
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