More on "Psychological" Bongage Games

[desertkruzr]

OK, so moving past the car idea due to safety issues, which admittedly is a very good point, I'm SURE that other people here have engaged in some form of this kind of activity.

This is such a constant with her and I that I would find it very surprising if others that are so into tickling didn't engage in these kinds of "games".

Maybe it's just me, but I find this kind of "bondage" (when you're not actually tied down physically, but psychologically because you don't want to drop and break the lamp, etc.) to be an extreme turn on. Because the only thing stopping you from pushing away the relentless tickling fingers is your own will power, due to not wanting something expensive to break, etc.

We have used this in combination with physical bondage also, which is absolutely MIND BLOWING!!! For example, she'll have me completely tied down, but with enough wiggle room to move around some. Then she'll take 4 small paper cups, and balance them on my wrists and ankles, filled with wine. Then she gets to tickle for 5 minutes, and I'm "not allowed" to let any of the wine spill. If I succeed, she'll get me off, and then let me go. If I spill any, then the 5 minutes starts all over again. Of course, it's impossible for me to ever "win", because if I ever even get close to the 5 minute mark, she'll tickle some insanely ticklish spot with such veracity that I'll have absolutely no chance of holding still enough not to spill any wine.

However, After 5 or 6 "wins" on her part, she usually takes pity on me, and finishes things off, and lets me go.

I find things like this to be such a crazy-mad turn on, that it throws me into the most intense far flung psycho-sexual crazy tickle orbit imaginable!!!

Again, I'M SURE that others here have engaged in similar activities! C'mon, don't hold back! Share with the new guy!



Desertkruzr

 

[Deleted member 66627]

It's really ironic that you bring this up. Because there was this one method that I was weakly propositioned with. It ties completely into a Psychological game.

Any form of play that has a psychological aspect to it is a big turn on.

 

[DownUnder]

Agreed. "Psychological bondage" is very interesting.

I think what is so great about psychological bondage is that the 'lee must be complicit. You cannot "make" someone to engage in a psychological bondage game; the 'lee must be a willing participant. And for me. a willing 'lee is a signfiicant turn-on.

 

[McNoodle]

Where I come from it was very very cold so to keep your heat at a moderate temperature was very expensive. Thus on mornings where my gf only wished to wash her hair she would lean over the side of the tub rather than a full shower in which she would be cold when she got out. She would have one foot on the floor and then use the other shin to brace herself on the side while she leaned over to soak her head under the tub faucet.

As soon as I heard the water running I would jump out of bed, come into the bathroom and tickle her foot. She couldn't do anything because her hair was soaked and she didn't want to get water all over the floor plus I was standing behind her so she had nowhere to go so all she could do was stand there and laugh and scream. Afterwards I would sneak back into bed and try to pretend I was there the whole time when she came back into the bedroom. Generally she would lay a beating on me for my boldness and buffoonery.

 

[desertkruzr]

Very good points Downunder.

That's great fsrre! My wife would literally shoot me if I ever did that to her though. She is a hard-wired ler, and has little or no interest in being a lee, sadly. BTW...Fucking LOVE your Confucius sig! That's an oldie, but a goodie for sure!

Very intriguing CrystalLight. What was this method that you were weakly propositioned with?

 

[Redmage]

Any form of play that has a psychological aspect to it is a big turn on.

Five-cent bondage.

Put your hands together in "prayer" position. Put a penny between each pair of fingers.

Now, don't drop the pennies, no matter how you're tickled.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Five-cent bondage.

Put your hands together in "prayer" position. Put a penny between each pair of pennies.

Now, don't drop the pennies, no matter how you're tickled.

Pwhoosh.

Yeah, like that.

What else ya got? 😛

 

[Redmage]

Pwhoosh.

Yeah, like that.

What else ya got? 😛

I'm known to tie a bottom to the bed, fully dressed, using leather cuffs secured with thread. I can tickle only exposed skin, but every time she breaks a thread, she loses a piece of clothing. If she breaks the same thread twice, I get to choose which article she loses.

I usually start with her ears.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm known to tie a bottom to the bed, fully dressed, using leather cuffs secured with thread. I can tickle only exposed skin, but every time she breaks a thread, she loses a piece of clothing. If she breaks the same thread twice, I get to choose which article she loses.

I usually start with her ears.

Wow....'tis hawt

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I'm known to tie a bottom to the bed, fully dressed, using leather cuffs secured with thread. I can tickle only exposed skin, but every time she breaks a thread, she loses a piece of clothing. If she breaks the same thread twice, I get to choose which article she loses.

I usually start with her ears.

That's like.. impossible, though.

 

[Redmage]

That's like.. impossible, though.

What, you expect a sadistic Dom to be...fair?

 

[desertkruzr]

Awesome idea with the thread Redmage! Love it! I'm sure that the missus will want to try that one!!!

Yeah, the whole point of the cups of wine thing that I mentioned, and this thread thing from Redmage is that it IS impossible. The fun for both the lee and the ler lies in the lee near killing themself trying to hold absolutely still no matter what anyway! 😱

 

[Deleted member 66627]

What, you expect a sadistic Dom to be...fair?

Hush ya mouth. 😛

Are you scared to lose?

 

[Redmage]

Are you scared to lose?

What's the definition of "losing?" From my perspective it means not giving my partner a mind-blowingly erotic experience. I hope she feels the same way. So if I have to be devious, treacherous, and downright evil within the context of consent, then I'm at peace with that. 😉

 

[slacker2114]

Keep talking **jots everything down in a notepad**

 

[JPie1]

Five-cent bondage.

Put your hands together in "prayer" position. Put a penny between each pair of fingers.

Now, don't drop the pennies, no matter how you're tickled.

love the idea....

 

[Deleted member 66627]

What's the definition of "losing?" From my perspective it means not giving my partner a mind-blowingly erotic experience. I hope she feels the same way. So if I have to be devious, treacherous, and downright evil within the context of consent, then I'm at peace with that. 😉

That's a fancy way of answering 'Yes' to my posed question. 😛

 

[gig1965]

Here's a fun one.....

tie the lee to the 4 bedposts.....with toilet paper.
inform them of the penalties of "breaking Free"

As a side note, works well the first time with a new lee as she doesn't have to worry about being truly tied up

 

[Redmage]

That's a fancy way of answering 'Yes' to my posed question. 😛

No, it's not. You asked if I was afraid of losing. I'm not. I'd be disappointed, but I'd be even more disappointed if my partner didn't feel the same way. But if she does feel the same way then losing isn't likely.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

No, it's not. You asked if I was afraid of losing. I'm not. I'd be disappointed, but I'd be even more disappointed if my partner didn't feel the same way. But if she does feel the same way then losing isn't likely.

Or it could be one kick ass challenge, if it wasn't so damn impossible!

 

[Redmage]

Or it could be one kick ass challenge, if it wasn't so damn impossible!

Ah, a "fair fight" is a different sort of game, with different goals. It's certainly doable, but that case the setup is more like a bet - if you win, you get something you want, and if I win, I get something I want. The version that I described assumes that we're both after the same thing, but enjoying the scenic route to get there.

 

[Tiger.Lily]

I'm known to tie a bottom to the bed, fully dressed, using leather cuffs secured with thread. I can tickle only exposed skin, but every time she breaks a thread, she loses a piece of clothing. If she breaks the same thread twice, I get to choose which article she loses.

I usually start with her ears.

That. Is. Hot.

Aside from that ... yeah, I love mental bondage. Psychological play, done right, is probably my second biggest turn on.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Ah, a "fair fight" is a different sort of game, with different goals. It's certainly doable, but that case the setup is more like a bet - if you win, you get something you want, and if I win, I get something I want. The version that I described assumes that we're both after the same thing, but enjoying the scenic route to get there.

I disagree.

While I must say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with those examples. 😀 ..

A bet is still a game that can be fair. Which inturn can be posed as a challenge.

And fuck it, more examples, please.

 

[Redmage]

While I must say, there is absolutely nothing wrong with those examples. 😀 ..

Well that's good. I wasn't sure you'd say that.

A bet is still a game that can be fair. Which inturn can be posed as a challenge.

That's what I said. The fair game is a bet. The unfair one isn't.

And fuck it, more examples, please.

I'll ponder, and see what I come up with.

 

[heyoka]

Challenge from the LEE standpoint...

When I feel comfortable with someone, I often enjoy resisting any visible reaction. No need for impossible scenarios of the illusion of bondage, etc. I just hold back the response to egg them on, creating my own psychological bondage of sorts. It turns the tables a bit, which the SAM in me enjoys doing, and forces them to find my best spots in order to get any real amount of reaction out of me. 😛