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More on "Psychological" Bongage Games

I have played a lot of psych games over the years, and it's one of my favorite aspects of tickling play. So I figured I'd share one of mine here.

I would play with a variation of Red's string idea, except that I would use jingle bells.

At some point I went out and bought a bunch of cheep christmas decorations and pulled all the little bells off, I also found some large ones off of fake horse collars and stuff.

I got some hair scrunchies, and to each I sewed a few of the small bells.

With a fully clothed lee, I'd place a scrunchie around each wrist and ankle. I'd also hook a larger bell or two to belt loops, or the top or their waistband. Depending on position they may get a bell to hold in the palm of each hand.

The rules were simple. I could tickle any flesh that I could see. (wearing sheer nylons, an error!) The time I had to 'work' would be based off some game of chance, as simple as pulling a card from a deck of cards (Drew the Six of diamonds? I have Six minutes) or it could be based on some other bets outcome.

If I could make any bell ring in my time period the lee 'lost'. They then got a choice.

A) They could remove one piece of clothing of their choice. I was a nice guy and counted belts as an item, and shoes and socks counted as two each.

B) They could keep all clothing, but my time limit to work on the next round would go up by 5 minutes.

Of course each option has it's downside.

If the lee chooses A, then odds are that they will be exposing more skin, once I'm past the 'junk' clothing (The belt and the shoes) and more skin makes things harder the next round.

If they choose B, well then I have my time allowance plus five minutes more to go at exactly what worked last time. That is a lot of time to work on a nose, earlobe or neck.

I enjoyed the dynamic of offering the choice, as it would cause some true thought on the lees part at times.

Additional aspect:

The lee could sell a piece of clothing for a break for 15 minutes (rounds would be back to back to back (I always saw this as a silly deal, but many would take it) Or, They could sell a piece of clothing to 'off limit' a body part for 'x' rounds,based on negotiations.

If I failed to make a bell ring in my time limit the lee could reclaim a piece of clothing, or they could remove one half of my first start time from my clock. (For example, say I started with six minutes, and at some point the lee had chosen to take two time extenders of five minutes each. So my clock would be at 16 minutes per round. They could remove three minutes from my clock to leave me with 13 to work) If at any time the lee made my timer go into negatives, then they could rightfully claim a victory.

Once a lee was fully nude I was always up for offers of other sorts in return for losses. Some stubborn lees dug very deep holes this way.

Overall a fun way to kill an evening. It has a nice balance between challenge and play. Early rounds are the hardest for the Ler, and where the game can be won or lost. Though some lees learned how to laugh their heads off and stay still, and did very well in later rounds.

Fun times of bygone days.

Myriads
 
When I feel comfortable with someone, I often enjoy resisting any visible reaction. No need for impossible scenarios of the illusion of bondage, etc. I just hold back the response to egg them on, creating my own psychological bondage of sorts. It turns the tables a bit, which the SAM in me enjoys doing, and forces them to find my best spots in order to get any real amount of reaction out of me. 😛

I, too, enjoy doing this. The real trick is even holding back response on my worst ticklish spots. This is good too because we've found some places I never thought were ticklish or could elicit such a good response simply out of desperation on my ler's part.
 
I can relate. What's also fun is when they hit a certain combination of spots that leaves me completely helpless. Then I really can't move! Ahhh! The joy of being a lee! (I didn't say sub, because I'm a lee always but only very infrequently a sub.)
 
If at any time the lee made my timer go into negatives, then they could rightfully claim a victory.

What would that victory contain? Was it up to them?

Once a lee was fully nude I was always up for offers of other sorts in return for losses. Some stubborn lees dug very deep holes this way.

What types of offers? How would this benefit the game?

How would the Lee's dig holes?

Do you set games up so the winning favor is more on your side, then theirs?

What is your overall opinion on Psychological Bondage games?

I apologize for so many questions, but it's not every day the "tzar" shines it's presence down upon threads.
 

What would that victory contain? Was it up to them?


The lee would have the satisfaction of having beaten me. If they were smart enough to negotiate something before we started, I would honor said agreements.

The choice of subtracting time was always in the lees hands if they won a round.

The victory prize (if it existed) was as I said above something negotiated before between me and they.


What types of offers? How would this benefit the game?


Offers of sex and sexual things. Other activities etc. One made me some nice meals to take to work as lunches for a week. It would benefit the game by extending it, and adding items of value to play over which often increased the lees desire to resist.

How would the Lee's dig holes?

By not knowing when to stop playing and cut losses. Stubborn sorts could end up promising all sorts of things as they lost round after round. I still think I can call one of them up and get sex on demand at least half a dozen more times.

Do you set games up so the winning favor is more on your side, then theirs?

I set games up to be in my favor of course. The house always takes the advantage, but I do allow enough room for skill, will, and luck to allow an opponent to win. Some did. One from a stunning position of being down to her underthings. People find resolve. It's part of the fun.

What is your overall opinion on Psychological Bondage games?[/quote]

That they are a very important part of Bondage and D/s play and are often overlooked when people are rushing to do the tie and tease. They are fun, and I enjoy them.

I apologize for so many questions, but it's not every day the "tzar" shines it's presence down upon threads.

Never a problem to ask questions. Always happy to answer what is directed my way. And my presence is no more special then any other user. They often say what I'm thinking, and many times, do it better. But glad that you enjoyed my ideas.

Myriads
 
WOW

I'm known to tie a bottom to the bed, fully dressed, using leather cuffs secured with thread. I can tickle only exposed skin, but every time she breaks a thread, she loses a piece of clothing. If she breaks the same thread twice, I get to choose which article she loses.

I usually start with her ears.

I am loving all the games.... don't stop *taking notes.
 
OK, I'm somewhat confused.

I started this thread with the "cups of wine" torture idea (very "HOT", IMHO), and no one really commented on it.

Then Redmage gave his "Threads" torture idea (also very "HOT", IMHO), and all kinds of comments about it flowed in.

Then others added stories, and more comments on those stories followed.

I'm really not sure what signals, if any, are being sent here. I already mentioned feeling awkward about opening up too much too fast here in this group, so I'm really not sure how to interpret this.

Is it "normal" for new people here not to get as much feedback or comments on their personal stories and experiences, which is fine if that's just the way it is? Or are people here being somewhat hesitant about giving me direct and/or validating feedback because of my earlier posts?

Help me out here.
 
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Nope. Just waiting for more Feedback from Myriads and Redmage. ^^
 
OK, I'm somewhat confused.

I started this thread with the "cups of wine" torture idea (very "HOT", IMHO), and no one really commented on it.

Then Redmage gave his "Threads" torture idea (also very "HOT", IMHO), and all kinds of comments about it flowed in.

Then others added stories, and more comments on those stories followed.

I'm really not sure what signals, if any, are being sent here. I already mentioned feeling awkward about opening up too much too fast here in this group, so I'm really not sure how to interpret this.

Is it "normal" for new people here not to get as much feedback or comments on their personal stories and experiences, which is fine if that's just the way it is? Or are people here being somewhat hesitant about giving me direct and/or validating feedback because of my earlier posts?

Help me out here.

I personally think you are over thinking it. You started a thread about Psychological bondage games and it's turned into a three page thread on the subject. I consider that a win. You said
Again, I'M SURE that others here have engaged in similar activities! C'mon, don't hold back! Share with the new guy!
You didn't ask for opinions on your game, you just shared your game. You did ask for others to share similar activities and that happened. If you wanted direct feedback on your game alone, you could have asked for it but from your words it sounded like you were trying to start a share thread and you succeeded. Take it for what it is, a nice little thread that got people talking, and that usually the best kind. Don't try to get in peoples heads or over think it, because you'll just drive yourself crazy. Keep posting and have fun. 🙂
 
Very good points KrazieDog. Thanks for that.

I guess I'm still feeling somewhat paranoid about what sort of wild ass impressions my original posts here may have left with people, and as a result, as you said, I was probably reading into this the wrong way.

I have more stories to add to this thread as well. I'll try and post more tomorrow.

Keep em coming everyone!!!
 
OK, I'm somewhat confused.

I started this thread with the "cups of wine" torture idea (very "HOT", IMHO), and no one really commented on it.

Then Redmage gave his "Threads" torture idea (also very "HOT", IMHO), and all kinds of comments about it flowed in.

Then others added stories, and more comments on those stories followed.

I'm really not sure what signals, if any, are being sent here. I already mentioned feeling awkward about opening up too much too fast here in this group, so I'm really not sure how to interpret this.

Is it "normal" for new people here not to get as much feedback or comments on their personal stories and experiences, which is fine if that's just the way it is? Or are people here being somewhat hesitant about giving me direct and/or validating feedback because of my earlier posts?

Help me out here.
Thanks for your original contribution. As I said, the idea of "psychological bondage" is incredibly hot.

Don't feel any "messages" because other people are adding their stories and we're all commenting on them. You should feel happy about stimulating this kind of discussion.
 
Thanks DownUnder. Yes, I agree. My bad.

As I said to KrazieDog, just chalk it up to me being a little over-paranoid about how my original posts may have freaked some people here out.

I won't concern myself with this again!

Post on!
 
OK, I'm somewhat confused.

Is it "normal" for new people here not to get as much feedback or comments on their personal stories and experiences, which is fine if that's just the way it is? Or are people here being somewhat hesitant about giving me direct and/or validating feedback because of my earlier posts?

Help me out here.

I was just going to respond in PM, then decided that others might find this helpful as well. Sooooo......

One of the things you'll find here is a lot of "train of thought" responses to stuff. So, if your own focus in a particular post is on one aspect of things and someone else has their attention caught by another aspect, they're more likely to respond to what caught their own attention. Some thread topics actually become unrecognizable once they get down a ways. This is one reason why I often try to respond to the original post before reading the responses and only then go back to see what others have shared.

You've introduced some topics that haven't been beaten to death yet. So, that's a big contribution in my book. Keep it up. You're fine.
 
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